NoSelfSelf

@StarStruck Yeah its not like you automatically become a chick magnet

Its not you, happened to me too its girls seeing you with other girls and they seek approval from you, if she gets your interest that means shes validated in some way ,they are competitive in that way with other girls...like they stare at you and they dont care, where they usually look away immedietly...

@Subtlety i will when my mind stops being in silence and void

@Subtlety you are just proving my point tnx @StarStruck you are missing a point but okay

@Subtlety its a perfect look to sent a message that we dont tolerate bs here, but it seems there are too many people tolerating bs in general so its accepted as a norm....its like you asking me to close my eyes and let others going on a path thats not optimal,like tough love is whats not tolerated but mommy emotional love is tolerated even if it hurts you doesnt make sense to me...

@integral If a person needed to be said what to do on a job all the time wouldnt that person get fired?

@Ulax If being closeminded means not making game about the women then ill be the most closeminded person there is...

She's telling you what to do what?!?

@Vrubel Good luck

@Vrubel Testing the waters is being like internet calling best gay male friend or beta orbiter, imagine you having a girl and someone is trying to get into your girls pants and not even in direct way but by being a fake friend, cmon its worse than being simp in my humble opinion..at least tell her i want to sleep with you and i dont mind you having a boyfriend because thats a reality...

@Vrubel You are doing all this to sleep with her in the end,so you are basically no different than guy thats simping or taking her to dinner dates to impress its almost the same... What are you even doing there be her friend until mybe she brokes up with her bf so she can do the same to you one day?

Save yourself problems, dignity and cancle the date

Yeah and tell her you are doing it so its not a secret...they dont want it because they feel like its a competition between pornstar and her...

@Kshantivadin because im not on no fap diet?

@StarStruck thats the whole point its not about the energy that i dont like, its the thing that you think when you dont fap,then for some reason you will become a man and now she can sense that which is total complete bs(using no fap to be a man omg) but i said what i wanted to say dont wanna go deeper...last thing get jacked use man sprays dont stop at no fap go full delusional go get a passport to meet women in thailand go be on a purpose for women do whatever they say they want etc.

@vishnusavestheday If you think not masturbating is helping you go for it! for me its a bs like changing my hairstyle and clothes to feel better about myself, then whats next becoming a rockstars so women can love me,driving a sportscar to being seen more attractive its so silly in my mind i dont see that as growth i see that as superficial things that has nothing to do with mind change...

@vishnusavestheday Next thing they should do is go and learn game not dont learn game,grow themselves for them not women,saying no fap is solution is total bs,its like getting drunk to talk to a stranger,there is no problem with porn its a choice to do that just to satisfy their needs in that moment,that doesnt stop you from talking to a woman it just shows you are not strong enough and look for woman just for sex and making a big deal out of it.And beware all this bs is pointing something outside of yourself without going inside so if you look for a nofap for a solution is just like a non self development person looking for heroin. Not seeing your are a creepy guy that looks women for sex(which should be automatic) is also the problem itself. How can no fap help you talk to women etc. thats also like saying pre workout is going to give me best possible gains.. If you cant see this you are lost...

This just exposes you that you are creepy, horny guy looking to get laid this thread is bs i dont know who approved this mods ?

@Subtlety What good does that do? Just robbing me of creating experience and building skill to be a better me,im not competing with anyone but that little voice in my head telling me i need to worry about some dream shes having...

0 at best

You should go for what you want your needs above all,they must submit to what you want, but at first there will be a storm that will pass...

@asifarahim There are many books my point is they will take you where that person is at, so you will be his best copy but to be a legend you cant follow anyone like a book,you are on your own,best bet is to learn principles and make your own...

You will not find that in a book by asking that queastion you are automatically saying ill never be something like that,no legend wrote a book about it but books were written about them...

What the actual f! I would got up and leave ,talking to a psychologist should be the most safest place to express yourself...