NoSelfSelf

@supremeyingyang Iq tests in my opinion just shows how good you are at solving iq tests, life is not that simple that iq tests will determine how you gonna go in it...

@supremeyingyang Yeah actually smart person rejects Iq tests, because for them is just braging rights that they see as stupid....

@supremeyingyang Because that individual is not looking at society or someone else to guide or show him who he is ,hes on his own. He is not following norms... thats the difference between alfa male(top dog but follows social norms hyearchy) and sigma(also alfa type that creates his own thing to follow)

Because you dont know yourself

Yeah,dont do things you dont want to do, just to get resaults thats a losing mentality...

Not even a sigma if you need test to say you are some type of man...the irony ?

@Something Funny Yeah you are bullshiting yourself ,because you dont make anything a problem because you are the problem, same thing also you trying to not masturbate thinking you are growing you really not, its for self development noobies starting out..it wont turn you into a man or something...nobody is forsing you to do it and calling it an addiction is bs, because you are choosing to spent all that time on it...

Bottom line is you are the problem from not consuming porn responsibly like anything else...

Congratulations you got saved by a friend!

If you come with that kind of judgment from the title no wonder...

@something_else You both have a low self esteem and would drag eachother down..

Why being friend with a loser?

@StarStruck You dont know what game is, your game is weak so you cant handle it ,you think shes valuable because she looks good sign of a weak game...Game fixes everything

Learn Game

@Leo Gura Ohh now i get it its totally different angle than i was looking at,that's how i was acting as a kid you love yourself but you want everyone else to love you to, if not you are mean to them.

@Jannes There is so much confusion here,why are you going with her on this "dates",why would she be explicit when shes getting free attention and you probably buying her stuff,its you not knowing what you are doing and making stuff happen then blaming her for that...you are like playing hope game...

@Jannes Dont expect anything from her btw, you rejected her moves whats the issue here,whats this real talk with someone you dont know?

You are expecting her to act like a guy and she seems young,immature playing games, probably also because she has a bf, that is not doing great but good enough to keep her until she finds replacement...and you think too much about someone that is not even worthy of it, probably because shes cute and you started to like her from all the games shes playing and you thinking about her...

@Leo Gura I dont know why would then someone who loves himself need to put someone down all the time,making themselves appear important? I always thought self hate comes from being insecure in who you are, which causes low self belief and low self belief causes negative self talk and view of yourself... then self hate... you must then get external validation to love yourself(pseudo love) because you cant self reflect(as a narc) mybe im wrong in all this...

Narcissists are full of shame and insecurity,thats why they lash out to not see it and have to have a great sense of self, so they dont see the deep rooted trauma....they actually dont love themselves its a compensation...they are addicted to validation,compliments and attention to feed their ego so it appears they love themselves...there is a difference between personality disorter and someone actually loving themselves that looks like narcissism... Difference is narcissist feeds of enviroment and is insecure full of shame vs someone feeding of himself and love for himself that comes from him that could look the same..

@Inliytened1 Yeah vurneability is true form of strenght when you think about it,but i dont agree that man is sensitive because it blocks you from being effective and dominating in some endevour .He is caring to the things that he cares about because it serves him , feminine caring where she cares about things which doesnt serve her in most of the cases and is outside of her... Also there could be said that real man doesnt fit into any category that is described by world notions of what man is because he stays on his own operates on his own design ... It seems again its on us to develope masculinity in our way but saying what man is could be a deception this is deep stuff i dont know as its for now...

@ivankiss i get it, my point was taking care of your bs is the way to uplift the community, its always the ones that wants other to change that they are part of the problem(not saying its you) @Thought Art Going out alone for yourself is true masculinity i dont know where you get that feminine is going alone... @Inliytened1 I said i get it but your notions im lost and that i need to do this and this to become fully developed ,is you being lost into cult like mentality, im the creator of my development...fully developed or higher developed is only for people when they are lost and need to guide themselves by the notions of somebody else so thats irony...also englightment teached in a way that works for everyone the same way is bs which you now try to put here...its so easy to point fingers at others not at yourself(myself ofcourse)

@ivankiss You are saying i feel alot,you saying i care alot,affected by what someone is saying on the internet,having triggered threads...calling everyone out on bullshit not yourself...

@ivankiss Yeah and your feminine side is in the drivers seat like most of us here..

@ivankiss what you talking about is being more open to femininity this is all ultra feminine approach, thats why there is problem here, i dont see how being more feminine is going towards freedom ,only man can be truly free that's mybe why Buddha didnt want women around...im not saying its bad and that woman cant be free its just less likely...interesting topic this is my opinion and taboo all around...