NoSelfSelf

By having your own opinion about yourself above others... i mean thats what game is for...

Gaslighting is making you think that what you are experiencing, saying,doing is not real while it is, blaming is when they saying things based on things you really did do, not trying to change the experience if that makes sense...but the goal is the same from the one whos doing it,consequences are psychologically different on the reciver...

@AJBrew Best part is that only you need to realize it, society can do what society does...

First you need to reasses your friends. Second guy is really insecure and afraid, thats why in this context he attacked you, that is unpleasent but also could a sign you doing good...

The other "better" way to look at it, since you are creator of the world you are living(in your mind) you can create and must create it in a way you want it...seeing there is no other, just helps you to see that you can create a better reality in spite of others(not being in a reaction)and other is just a distraction which can be included but not the main point of your reality, you are making every second every minute of "your life" and if other are really important ,you are in reaction of the pseudo world that every person has in social matrix(in their heads lets say) and you are at its mercy so the situations dictate your wolrd not a way to live in my opinion...

I dont get why "main character syndrom" is looked as bad its a progress in conciousness there are nuances to things....

@something_else Simping behaviour ? manipulation and tricking,i dont like pick up theory its not game

I dont understand how can you be with someone that you just sleeping with romantic? That just shows you are manipulator, you do things for girls to sleep with ,your whole mindset is losing from beggining, dont sell yourself like that... To me that sounds like :do i have to put a ring on her finger to be my girlfriend ...

@AJBrew There is only a need to be more awesome you,there is no need somewhere outside,so everything you doing is immidietly winning and is not determined by some kind of resault...

When understood that you can only do the action for the sake of action, without expectation of the end resault(which is a distraction) you know the response is not up to you,expectation before action kills the interaction...

When are you guys start to become men and stop looking what other men are doing and study yourself, its honestly ridicioulous...?

As far as i know asexual gets aroused only if hes in emotional attachment with someone.... I have few points on the list but im not asexual...

@Vrubel i dont get the point you are making ,like there should be no wars no world hunger but its happening and here is the forum to get the info...

@Vrubel Its natural for people to bully you if you show any kind of weakness they will attack its super normal...if hes in a process it will happen...

Yeah i know that it sucks...mind is making sure for you to stay in comfort zone and not ever do that again or soon after...if you are grateful for the good moments you had and keep answering to that negative voice with i dont care,i did what i wanted to do, no regrets it will slowly stop... There is a whole process beforehand(the nights out) to keep destroying the negative expectations and replacing with what you gonna do and say etc.with no expectations..

@mr_engineer it self destructed because you were doing it for her and not 100% yourself, thats why everything self destruct if you are not doing it for yourself but to get her (here her approval or something). Real asshole do it for himself and it doesnt self destruct and it works..

@CARDOZZO Nice post ?

@Myioko ??

@Myioko elaborate what you trying to say?

@Judy2 Feel free to pm @vindicated erudite im assuming you are saying that social circle is better to get girls if so then thinking that way its better lets say but its not for personal growth which i put beyond girls...

@vindicated erudite In growing not even comparable..

Good man makes a good woman, shes in a long run reflextion of a man...

@Chives99 Ofcourse im selfish just like you ;),my job is to do what im set up to do, its not my job to care if shes gonna give me attention or not,im allowed to apporach, shes allowed to say no...but this attitude like omg shes so precious that i need to take care of her before myself is weak,and saying good luck having girlfriend: i would rather have my rights to put my needs and what i want first ,than to put her above me and do things for her just so she can be with me jikes ?

@Chives99 Why do you care about what she wants and not what you want...do you see you just made her more important than yourself?

You think like a female,you care too much about everyone but yourself... Its all about influence,impact,direction and thinking like this,how are you doing it in social setting, i dont get it...waiting for it to fall into place by situational happening? Im attacking the mentality because i dont get it so want an explanation...