NoSelfSelf

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  1. @Antor8188 I dont see where is game here, its just girls wishing to grind and kiss, i dont see you making moves and organizing stuff for yourself or you leaving the most important parts out.. If you gonna dance you need to work on your dancing game... You are doing things thats great! and rest i dont see, what are you doing to critique it... It seems you are reaction off the enviroment not in your own game and just hoping something will happen mybe im wrong...
  2. Putting complete authority and guidence in your hands, to make the best life completely tailored to you....to get to that point you need to get rid of the group think,authority,following leaders...brutal self honesty,openmindendness,willingless to learn and listen without following.. Only then you can truly get the power and knowledge on who you are,with thinking and growing in your unique direction that is different than anbody on the planet,so nobody can help you here you are on your own! If you dont know you, in such a depth like a 1000 page book on some topic..you are no near knowing what best life is for you... If you giving general principles without this foundational principles i listed...then you are exactly in a group think, because for somebody something bad could be great and vice versa, nobody can say it but you...if you follow principles not made by you(tailored by your own design) also you are losing immidietly...
  3. You need to hit her with video messages of you,voice messages of you,picture messages,texts...from all angles...to move her where you want it to go...
  4. @Noahsteelers34 Nice one! Second step is now replaying in your mind in what way you want to talk to her, what did you do good and what you didnt then change it for yourself..again just doing it... Beware where is your focus was it on her looks and how cute it is or your action on what you have to do and just doing it... Game is basically like opening the door, you dont have emotional reaction opening the door you just doing it... Same with girls you just speak the way you want to speak and doing it just like opening door... You know how to open door ,how much pressure to apply, what angle to push thats being gamed up... Now you need that with girls...
  5. @PenguinPablo This happend to you atm ??? ?
  6. @UnbornTao Its so simple it cant possibly work !
  7. You actually dont want to talk to them you just dont even know it...at one point you decided to talk to woman but years before that you have all the experiences and reason to not do it, cant be erased with just one decision... Your mind is trying to help you not to speak to women by "self sabotaging" you... Simple solution just do it
  8. @ZenAlex You calling me or yourself?
  9. @LordFall im motivated by me and what im going to do for myself to grow myself...
  10. First exercise is to see where your attention is going and on what, just observe as cliche as it sounds...
  11. Weak ones are motivated by women and make it all about women..
  12. There is no blockages when you are one with yourself! Now you are pulled by outside forces by your programing your past experiences... You actually want to block yourself but you dont even know it! Thats why game is about becoming one with yourself, where everything you do and think is your original thinking and now its enviroments thinking,girls thinking,expectations etc. All mixed up to create coctail of emotions...when you are connected to yourself there are no emotions its just your intentions your ways etc. its incredible how it works if your attention is outside you are having emotions if its by you there is no emotions of blockages..
  13. @Emrie It doesnt have to be compatible like it fits like a glove, it has to be compatible with you, so you can show her you and see if she digs it ,thats the whole point of a date...
  14. @flowboy Great thanks! If you are not on brink of dying with someone its not memorable ?
  15. Try not to post just the link video, give descriptions and value to discussion orherwise its like spam threads...
  16. @flowboy do i need to go through navy seal program for frozen date idea, to not get hypothermia or how does that work ?
  17. I mean you need to know deeper why you taking them there, where is it leading to, its not just picking idea and just go with it randomly hoping for the best...its more how you gonna present the experience of you in those situations mybe escape room is best to show who you are mybe its really bad idea etc.
  18. @ivankiss Thats a big downside i see in relationships,somene has to run a game on someone, if you are not in power position and on top of things, she will be..it wont be pleasent for you, but if you are in power position you can make it pleasent because you are more concious...that could be the premisse of concious relationship which i wonder how does the series will end up and if thats the thing that makes it concious..
  19. @ivankiss True she is sensing the weakness and shes going after it,now i can see why to have game you have to be kinda ruthless and when making boundaries and saying stuff to truly mean it(its not a play its real stuff)you are not meaning what you are saying ,you just are saying it because you are suppose to say it, she can sense it and doesnt give a f ,she can get away with it shes in power position because you care more...dont get me wrong relationships are messy and im giving my pov how i see it with information im given...
  20. @ivankiss If you think its worth it then thats okay,yeah you get it... In game, you tell her where the line is and if she crosses it once shes out... If you dont see your worth and value and bring it obviously yes shes gonna disrespect you. Thats why you need to tolerate disrespect in the first place because you dont have strong inner game where she is the one coming to you for sex but thats next level .. You dont have yourself and you are not connected to yourself enough where you can operate and get sex without disrespect(lot of work i know)..
  21. I would rather never have sex, then tolerate any kind of disrespect from a woman, i would cut her off if she only raised her voice once, i dont get why is there such a high tolerance and low standard of yourself, like sex is more important than me as a whole! Thats could be like a root issue why you are depressed and bitter...you sell your whole being and who you are for sex...
  22. @Emerald Interesting thing is that this post(statistics) is exactly that! feeding you fear so you can keep getting stuck and listen to the content that further put you down in a hole, rather to elevate and break free from it,all that ego is doing is taking information and then using it againts you,when for example approaching a woman to feel fear(thinking its helping you, because you heard on an internet women are bad and you should stay awy from them)..but its only helping to keep you stuck..