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@StarStruck Only if its 1v5 if its 1v1 the one that knows grappling wins its not even funny...

@Roy I dont know you enough to know what you are trying to say and im no mind reader...

@CARDOZZO That's the main thing that i learned is that seeking resaults,books,practices outside of myself is whats blocks you from connection with yourself,connection with yourself starts when you stop using outside world to define you or show you how things are in terms of yourself. So in practical ways learning about yourself,knowing yourself in real detail but that information is extracted and thought by you (the whys the connection with the thing you contemplating seeing its you) not by help of books. Then you have a place in your mind where you have all information about yourself the more you have and the deeper it goes the more you gonna connect with yourself and its like you falling in love because you see that strong connection with the mind that is created by you for you. Its different than methaphysical love this is more like human love that i got recently that was my process.

@CARDOZZO Its really weird to want to being loved...when you are connected with yourself you dont seek love outside of yourself.When you are not being connected with yourself that causes to want connection outside of yourself and then when you get it, you feel completed and from that you fall in love with that person because it gave you something you cant give yourself.Its like you are completed and if that person leaves you its like you lost part of yourself. Thats why its really weird to want being loved... Since when you get connection with yourself its like you fell in love which sounds weird since its thought you need to fall in love with someone or you are a narcissist if you do it with yourself only...

@Roy Speak for yourself i dont want love from a woman pls ? how can she love me more than i can love myself...

You need to start learning about yourself and what you want,these are not queastions for others...

@Emerald There is also a phenomena where someone,brings out from others the ways to treat that individual(weird to describe ill give an example) One women was telling me how people treat her and the more i was next to her, the more she brought in me the behaviours to treat her the same way but i didnt. Its a weird phenomena . Same way if you fear something it has to happen, like the illusion has to survive by projecting and making others treat you the way you believe i dont know much about it reminded me when reading your snipet.

@something_else Good point! there is a fine line between teasing and mocking...

@Potential Test of high awareness is in the times of when you are really low,can you see the game of the mind that is pulling you to be depressed.If you can its not possible to become depressed(i was depressed my whole life now it has to something really bad to make me depressed for few hours max) Not all is mental if you are having lots of stress you will naturaly be really low state which is best time for mind to strike. If its body thing you need to learn to talk to yourself,to tell yourself its just this period when there is alot of stress on work it will pass(or something that works for you) that will stop it... I cant tell you how to break that circle because i dont know you,you have to have awareness of yourself on that level, to pint point the things and in what moments does they come to see the source. You need to learn about how mind works to keep you stuck in comfort zone thats like bigger topic that i cant write here all ? mind is design to make you depressed etc. to stop you from going outside of your patterns of habit. Proactive action towards something means that you every time mind says im not gonna do this its boring you just start doing it and doing it,where your mind will stop bothering you when it sees that it cant stop you. Constant action just shuts that negative part of mind ,the more you are passive in life and dont do things the more it will start to bother you, thats why many people were so depressed and got anxiety in covid times, because they stayed still and when they are moving constantly with work,friends,activities they dont have time to be depressed because proactivity kills it...

@Hansli Thats the thing you TRY being something you are not and what you think THEY will like and it comes off weird. You senting yourself message in that way im not good enough, because im 100% sure you dont even know who you are ,or what you are is weak so covering that up makes it being shown even more and its little bit cringey i assume, so they see through all of that because women are not stupid they see you like through X-ray.. You need Game basically, which starts from knowing who you are,not pick up techniques that try to cover who you are, they come in handy later when you know who you are,what you want with women,how you gonna present yourself and what you gonna bring to the table based on your strenghts values etc. and not what you think ,or she says she would like you to be for her..

Can you explain me what specifically you do to be liked by a woman?

@LSD-Rumi is it illegal?

Amazing...but friends what is that ?!? ?

Really strong awareness kills depression... Constant proactive action towards something.... Gratitude practice,stopping the stream if negative thoughts you like to indulge in..

@HMD Loving everything the same and cant stop yourself from crying because its so strong, the connection with everything...that was my experience few times not on psychadelics...

@Emerald By that logic that emotions are internal,then there is no outside triggers its all happening in your nervous system and nervous system defines who you are... I get your perspective but theres now i see missing in mine so cant talk until i clear it...

@Emerald Thing is found is that emotions are actually outside of me.If im going to say they are internal then ill be defined by my emotional states. Okay probably i was only around feminine guys..

@Devin Never said i am

@Devin Would be more fun than marrying you ?

@Devin You dont get it,we can take one woman she will treat one guy like trash and another like king ...all you do is blaming women for your lack of abilities thats my take you do what you want with it...

@Devin Whos fault is it?

@Devin i did like statistics are self pity showing that you have weak mentality, you should write the sentence like this to be the truth Dudes should know these neo-feminists are not loyal TO ME. I dont know why you care about other men are you trying to get them instead(not my words but by some wise man ;))

@Gesundheit2 Reason behind anything is you if you dont see it god help you...feminism is not the problem its you picking a feminist for your wife if we gonna play like that...

@Devin omg dude proving my point...

@Devin Nice you bring out the statistics ? i thought we on self development forum not self pity,self sabotaging one...