NoSelfSelf

@Average Investor If you look it for a minute,giving into other values is admitting to yourself you aint nobody worth giving into, nothing good about you ,you are there to chase behind the woman or someone where they will choose if you worth something and not other way around.... Also i have no need to lie is a lie itself, because you wouldnt look for validation for trying to cover up you thinking you are not good enough because you actually dont know yourself... Dont hate me im keeping it real

None,no need to be liked or prove your worth to anyone,lying is just wasting time on people that are not for you...

@RebornConsciousness while you are jumping on the tree branches im looking to eat all the bananas, thats the whole point ? not all monkeys are equal...

She found herself a nice marketer hopes shes paying you ?

Happy birthday but we celebrate infinity here every day!

This is bastarization of game, because you are looking what will work based on what you think women will like, instead of being the guy that says those things or any thing thats come from who you are, not what Owen cook told you to say to get resaults ? thats the insights of real game...

She just feels what you feel and if you closed,shes closed so just move on in the direction you started with,without caring about that "incident"... seeing that thinking makes it a big deal then it is a big deal... Its all a mindgame...

I mean you should have this but if it goes that extreme, then something is buried in subconcious and its spilled over in this area.Probably you are too submissive in real life not sure...

@BassamMo i get it me too, but if its not againts the law its a bullshit of the mind and deeper reason that is cause of not being good with girls and life.Proactive creativity(authentic living,assertive,dominant,leader,good at communicating,leading)vs reactivity of the mind(all the opposite). Not caring (putting yourself first) vs caring (world and women above you)

Your problem is being percieved in the eyes of everyone, thats the sure way to have mediocer life,sign you dont have game(everything else is by default you acting in a ways that put world first and you second aka i dont matter i dont have value)and being a follower which is unattractive...this is like one of the biggest blockers of game...

Dont start multiple threads i already moved yours to life purpose section... Answer is by doing it...

Too much outward resault orienting causes your self worth,self image to suffer.Focusing on the process and not on the end resault lessens the suffering .Also expectations are huge thing that brings you down,your expectations should be based on the capacities you now have, you must understand yourself to know your current limits otherwise if you do more than you can, then you will feel like you cant do it(overwhelmed) so thats why you ask whats the point when im not meeting my expectations...

Contemplate what rejection really is...

Now i get what they mean by tap into her core ?

@Kksd74628 You bore me

@Kksd74628 I mean with that statement you went a little deeper than just saying its about being uniquely you, so thats why i said its a beggining because there are alot more things to it ,if you want to stay on surface level then it doesnt work in real world only in theory...pointless to talk about because you dont want to understand how it really works but make it your way...

@Kksd74628 We talked about that and its only a beggining...

I see Improvement ?

Dont listen to him on this subject he is not gamed up...

@Chives99 ?

@Chives99 I look it like this: belief in yourself comes from allowing every experience to happen because you belive you know you can overcome it then nervousness etc. is ironically not there, if you want to control every bit and having a system you will always be afraid because you are trying to control the reality which you cant control you can only control how you going to do things and rest is not up to you.Controling every bit is cause of your stress because its not possible to control everything. Control yourself not enviorment if you can dominate over yourself then outside doesnt matter.Create a system that doesnt involve anybody but you... Thats why in Fight club movie its a great quote:Self improvement is masturbation(because you are trying to ease the pain) while self destruction(going through the pain that will make you grow)... Social thing is in your head if you swap it with just what you want and there to do then social stuff doesnt matter. Supressing who you are(your autism) even if things works will just be a beggining of a relationship based on a lie that will always make you worry... Thats all i can give as an advice

@Chives99 Great then,only thing i can tell you is not about her but you,being afraid she will say no is what makes you stuck or what you think what she would like to hear or you do. In ideal situation you should not care and tell her what you really want and lead her by telling her in detail what you want. Like: You seem like a fun person to be around and want to get to know you better outside of work setting to find out if you are really what im looking for i have this place where they serve some really good ice cream(or whatever) explain to her why you love that place...then say when you are free and if that would be good time to acompany you on mutual discovery of eachother...

Im not sure if you would want to potentially mess up your job situation over a woman ...

You cant just ask lets get back together, you need to say something like: " i know ive been an asshole i regret doing it, let me make it up to you and show you how the fresh beggining will look like ,you just need to bring an open mind and be in your favourite dress and i will prepare some meal and dessert for you and rest ill let you think about it on a way to me...(you work the magic ?) Something like that...

Observing the present moment for 8 hours a day every day,until you get mystical experiences...usually happen late at night for some reason...