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@mr_engineer What if alien in that moment loses his self control and finally comes down to shake your hand? Man does what he wants take risks, but if you think police will come to you because you were "creeping "on girls that means you either watched too many red pill, or you doing something messed up without realizing.

@mr_engineer Thats my point if you are a man you wont be bothered by that,since she is a stranger , you know what you doing and who you are.. If you are not a man her rejection defines you who you are,she determines your worth as a man,thats why you bothered Man wouldnt be bothered,he will either continue walking go talk to other girl,or say something like yes im creepy to girls but i love women and keep walking...

@mr_engineer Okay why you need to protect yourself, tell me a specific situation when that will happen it could be we dont understand eachother?

@mr_engineer Someone who is not a man gets bothered by the world and women telling bad things about a man. Man is his own world,structure he knows and loves himself, gets all his needs met for himself independent of the world..

@Leo Gura Now i get the whole picture thanks! ?

@Leo Gura Yeah i understand i like the hug,or when sitting close to take the hand and check out what she wears on her hand etc. i was more like looking from perspective,why push it when the way i talk to her and behave she is giving me an invitation to everything, so im just gently leading in that direction, not leading with a touch but with my talking intentions that opens up the touch,kiss if you know what i mean.

@Leo Gura I dont get why you need to touch her early on and all the time what's the point?

@Harman To the moon ?

You described a player here, not a fake one,the real one.They are rare to come about, you hit it straight on the head on what you want,but problem is its a dangerous game to play with the real one, because he hits on deep level while fake one on superficial which you figured out already...

@Jannes Well you are on the right path but not hitting the mark completely, because if you have game you are not scared as fuck, lack of game in this case being yourself fully, like you said you wont be scared because this is who i am, who likes it or hate it is not my business is me being true to myself... Your authentic self could suck right now and thats okay thats why game is important to build yourself ,finding things in you that is close to home and if psychadelics helps in that regard then thats great ? If you think you not good enough is because you dont know yourself... If you have recommendation of psychadelic that works well with bringing things out of you since game is vastly about self exploration,you can say... keeping in mind microdosing psychadelics kills me, get me out of my body into infinity ? dont have a chance to explore me on ego level...

Leave her alone

@Jannes Can you explain me the process of how does it heal you in social activities? (Your process behind it) i want to hear your perspective since mine is that psychadelics wont teach you game if you dont know what it is, which i can argue is the reason why is there persistent social anxiety present in 98% of people leaving 2% of hard cases...

@effortlesslumen ?

You cant make big leaps only if you dont know your current state, you need to know your limits and how much you can push above them, it takes patience to grow yourself you cant just go to the finish line thats not what someone who understand growth do, its a sure way to burnout. That flame doesnt matter what matters is to constantly improve every day bit by bit.. You cant change identity atm you can only make a choice to move into the person you want to be slowly by time...

Its called self-confidence for a reason, using something to depend on is precisely what decreses self confidence,im refering to not use anything if the goal is self confidence,also nothing outside of you can give you lasting confidence...

@Sugarcoat I was legit calculating the number if i got it right,now i wonder if hes trolling ,since he mentioned that he is 21 years old stage yellow spiral dynamics ,dating 30 year old woman ?

@Sugarcoat Hahaha i just read them i cant ?

@Ayham Your mind can only work for you when you start figuring out things on your own,at this point you dont trust yourself to find a way to stop procastinating ,so your mind is like oh well, he doesnt care about his own methods his own thinking why should i then and follows it by self sabotage you with distractions.. You created the mind that self sabotage itself it thinks its doing you a favour... You actually want to distract yourself...

@Chives99 But here im talking about living your own truth that's the point. Not living your own truth will resault, like topic starter being controled by social conditioning and you would not know who Socrates is... You cant be true to who you are if you dont live by your own rules and principles, if you dont do that you cant lead yourself,you cant be who you are and then you gonna change yourself for women,not being able to lead because maybe she will leave if you going to take her somewhere you want and you will always being in doubt of who you are , what to say, what to do etc..

@Chives99 Why do you think Socratese drank the poision from the cup, when all he needed to do is say his teachings are wrong and save his life?

I like how you say almost to leave room that maybe you not doing something bad for yourself. There is nothing you can say to justify this,because if you think for a second you want to be friends for hope you will get back together.Meanwhile shes benefiting and in control, you being in a weak position,so that's why you never put yourself in weak position where what you want is not a hope but potential reality. I loved one quote: women come and go but your self worth stays....

@Thought Art How your body feels is because you worship them,but ill let you do your thing ,i just said it just in case good luck!

@Thought Art "they are so beautiful" "dont feel confident with my clothes" You dont have game so everything is reaction by default...

@Thought Art Worship=seeing someone as special ,seeing someone as special=reaction, reaction=nervous,doubt, lets get wasted to talk to someone...