NoSelfSelf

@Amit Why are women so special for this kind of agony?

@Princess Arabia My point is cause needs to be you not the quote,if cause is the quote then contemplating it from that position will not lead to further growth..there is layers and levels to what in saying so it can come out weird...

@Princess Arabia True,but then if you only start contemplating when feeling inspired you wont go far,inspired you should be already long before reading, was my point...

@Enlightement Well i just wrote you the answer in previous post but because you dont have skill in that regard ill feed spoon you(like that expression ?) As a young adult i was always looking that 2 books,2 authors etc need to agree on so i can say im closer to the truth which is not the case. Precisely 2 things contradict because there is not one way,one fit 99% of the time ,there is information someone gives you like quote in this situation and if you dont work on trying,contepleting,implementing it in your life you will always look for information for someone to tell you how to think and be... You are basically looking for someone to guide you to your happiness and wellbeing and they will never be able to do it thats why all self help books,video you watched worked so little that you dont see the changes you need because its on you if you want to be peacful and how you want to be peacful coming with your own philosophy how to be peacful or you will just follow the version of peace from one person and how it worked for them... This is true with enlightment there is no 1 version of enlightment and it doesnt fit every way to all.. Scientific minded people are looking for one way for all which again i dont see that they will find on every level... Because i gave you the answer,it wont work because you havent worked it yourself ,thats why zen works in riddles...

@nhoktinvt Elaborate, because im selective to who i invest time in so i could seem as not friendly at all...

@Enlightement You asking that queastion is part of the problem because nobody can tell you how to use them,quotes have wisdom in them then you need to think alot on how can you change your thinking,behave differently,look at the world differently,using it in practical way it all depends on how you want to use it... You can read Sun tzu quote, on art and war , you see that you can use the principle in quote in some situation in business or dating ,but its on you how to see it ,how to use it, where to use it...

If they make you think and you come up with a way to implement it in your life, then obv yes... If you read them just to feel inspired then no...

Game teaches that you look beyond looks and sex so i would disagree,if your intent is to have only sex with a girl then you failed the game... If you look game from surface level ofcourse looks=making you influenced to be better version of yourself but deeper game=influencing yourself not basing around her looks and sex... But if you want surface level then you are right...

@StarStruck Coaches that worth something are either so busy ,or they coach only great talents so you cant get to them easily,you need to pass the test to even be coached by them. Talent is needed if you want to be on top in sports if we take that for example, for many things talent is not needed many other factors needed...sports is special in that regard.But ofcourse without talent you can come on top(you have talent in being so mentaly strong for example) so i hate when that is used as an excuse... Being your own coach is best,i noticed best coaches coach you how to coach yourself,so if they want you to do what they doing only,they not that good...

That's how my swimming coach is also,put in the time and hope you will be a great swimmer if you have natural talent,just like you with years im getting better than anyone in a club(because i swim with my own intention and stuff i work on), but then on a swimming meet there are coaches that explain stuff all the time and their swimmers are way faster than me.So with my contemplation if Micheal Phelps with all talent in the world didnt have one of the best coaches in the world he wouldnt be as good.There must be great leadership coupled with your own thinking to get great.This group programs are bs made for the masses you wont ever get really good with it, if you dont have a true coach who just shows you the way 1on1 and everything is layed down perfectly for you and then you use that to be best you then there is a chance you will be great then theres is a big IF.... Coach cant make you great,but great coach will give you a bigger chance to be great, but without great coach you must coach yourself, i cant see myself in 3rd person and dont have decedes of knowledge and experience to do it by myself... I have a chess coach who's little bit better than me,but with chess you can mostly coach yourself with material and courses, but still need guidence to be titled player and way more than 10k hours to become master mybe 50k ? if not talented started from young age...

Like the list would add https://youtube.com/@JuggernautTrainingSystems And book Scientific principles of strenght training worth a read...

@something_else ?? @MarkKol Dude why lying you saying im not unsucessful with girls(idk what that should mean) and saying you unmotivated to talk to Croatian girls im done with internet today ?

Its a gift, sometimes going through challenge is enough reward in itself,the tougher it is the more your smile should form because it becomes that much more meaningful...

@MarkKol Ofcourse when i read something like girls get me purring like a cat i want to come with a tank on you ? you represent Croatia so dont want to hear that.... You purring for girls is reason for creating the American woman and she having an attitude...

@Raze If im attractive in my city what changes if i go to other country?

@Raze So game is how i am attractive to a woman aka demonstrating how valuable i am to her?

@Raze What's a mate value? What is game about?

@Raze That's possible so tell me what game is?

Learn Game ?‍♂️

@Schizophonia Go love yourself ❤ that will change everything...

Someone who accepts cheating dont value themselves, they will racionalize it to cope with the fact there is no self love present...

Everything you do,think in life adds up if you do weak things,think weak things,not grateful in what you have,dont work on yourself then when you get into a situation you are sum of all the things you did prior. If you think quality,do quality work everyday on making your mind tougher through senting it stronger messager/stronger actions then it will add up in same way negativity adds up.. With time you should be tottaly calm in situations because you dont feed it material to use againts you..

I dont see how you can fail and why does it matter if she likes you or not. You saying that, shows me your mindset is not in the right place for you as a man...

https://youtu.be/iyh6_hSxMvo Rosenfeld is all you need ?

Curveball=another thing to help me get to my purpose... Growth mindset if you will...