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@Sugarcoat Like the word says you connect with another person through common experience,similar thinking,likes, like you get another person how they are through yourself , then something clicks where you two start to have chemistry where you start to create something(im vague i know)where only you two have ,that person brings something out of you and you out of them,its like a bubble where you two play inside it just flows,like you known that person for long time but it could be only 3 hours... you must have that with someone you are different and elevated self around that person, it could be a sign you connected.. i dont know if this makes any sense...

@Yimpa im curious how did you realize that and what did you do after that?...if its a loaded response i would appreciate it in the dms ?...

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Losing your sense of identity that's what you lack to connect with others, you saying losing it,but im sure you didnt have it strong in the first place because you want to connect with others and not being connected to yourself,people cant connect with you then...based on what?

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I did you basically worship hotness as something special that is going to determin how much you worth or something,too much emotional care for the world,caring about women when she didnt do anything,low self esteem not seeing yourself beautiful(internally),reactive not proactive in general,naive worldview about dating and women,impacted by teachers not yourself i can go on and on... There is alot of stuff packed underneath that ...but main thing you worship hot women because you dont value yourself and if they give you validation you will be valuable so you afraid in that moment to not screw up because you care about her opinions which is all bs..her opinion is the thing that will make it or break you will you be a winner or a man or loser or a weakling... And most importan thing is you cant value yourself because you dont know yourself and you want her opinion of you because you dont have it for yourself, because you not a man influenced by everything but yourself as i said already...

What does being loved do exactly? What does accepted do exactly?

@something_else I can do that when im playing lower rated players but no calculating is always needed out of the opening yes you can blitz moves, but you need to calculate alot still when i get tired and cant calcuate relying only on my intuition that's when losing starts...on the highest level they calculate alwaye expecially when they see critical position they can calculate for 1 minute...no matter how good at chess you are it will never be just intuition mybe if playing 500 points lower rated than you...

@CARDOZZO That makes sense until you say delighted to love, be delighted to love yourself like you love women i dont see where is such a delight coming from...tell me where and why is delight there? I would say i love women like a love pizza nothing more nothing less ?...

@itsadistraction Its a feeling at first then you must back it up with alot of logic... If you make a move just because it feels right then you will not go far as i said. I ignored the topic and just spoke about chess... I hope you play chess to know what im saying...

@CARDOZZO It all makes sense what you saying, but you doing everything based upon how to cater to women,so its dishonest you wouldnt do any of it if you not doing it to get something from women, so its a manipulation and your whole behaviour wont match of a man because he doesnt care what he should be for a woman,rather what he is to express it and see if shes into it or not, if shes not he moves on but with your thinking it creates not loving women actually, because like someone here said they wont meet your expectations so love ends... That's what im getting from this lack of real men making books about dating rather something it will be acceptable for the masses...(again need to read it its my impression)..

@CARDOZZO Mixing teachings in dating is not a good idea like in other categories, sticking to one is best that resonates with you, or similar teachers because its all about creating your own style not having them all...then at some point have to drop all of them to make your own game...

@Tenebroso Yeah im with you on that one, not loving doesnt mean hating its priority thing so both parties benefit in the end...nobody benefits if the focus is loving and not creating from man's perspective...loving is for women... Also havent read the book so i dont get the whole point...

@itsadistraction you should think before you post, i said during the game making moves based on your emotions is sure way to lose...everything has to be backed down by logic including if you have strong intuition about the move... Strongest player on earth sometimes spents 30 min checking if his intuition is right...

@CARDOZZO im openminded to give it a try but reading it to get inspired is where ill draw the line..

Somethins really missing inside this chapter, loving woman with all your heart is bad idea ,you should put that love into building yourself there is no time to love a woman...if it works for you go for it..its not in me... @The Redeemer its all about the man but nobody is talking about it...

@FelinezLooking for tips and your whole foundation is messed up it doesnt work like that, you cant look for a nice rooftop when house can collaps with a single wind...

@Consept then i get what you mean, im 2000 bullet and can tell you all that intuition is many many positions seen and preperations,so intuition is like mind remembering things happening in the past,or you could be a genius where it just comes to you which we are not ?... On higher level they calculate 10 moves in few seconds in bullet, anticipate moves the same way so on higher level calculation in bullet is important..

@StarStruck Yeah also if you like close to your all time high rating or playing player thats titled or in front of a crowd on stream,(when you make stupid moves and wanna break stuff also ?)you get this pointless gitters that all come from not wanting to lose then when i got rid of that bs, i got automatically better(like you said more stoic) so higher rated or whatever doesnt matter... Valuable lesson from that 1:30...

@Consept If you play chess with feelings you wont go far ?

@mr_engineer You cant get the women you care what they want and think, you are their puppet they can use when they bored...you so red pilled that you actually dont want women at this point just pretending...

@mr_engineer developing myself to get women is a losers thinking.Winning thinking is developing myself for me, so she can then see who i truly am,so she can come get me. Positioning is not about proving or developing certen criteria so she can like you its being and showing who you truly are to yourself ,so she can then see your value and moving her towards seeing your perspective,your life your version of everything not what you need to be for her so you can get her.

Women will use you for your money with that thinking... Trying to decode women behaviour is waste of time,you need to become a man and man dont look to decode her but himself...

@integral Exactly! Good point if he challenged her like that, she would show her true colors that she cant cooperate and be ready for a healthy relationship..

@integral What!? Dude dont walk on eggshells around women be glad she will break up with you ,shes losing.. this shows you dont value yourself... Ofcourse you challenge her when shes disrespectful how can you even allow it? Im not using this as a manipulation im telling you how game works you are upfront with everything and then shes the one who's gonna adjust or not, she can do whatever but gonna show me if shes worth my energy/focus/etc ... If you still naive that dating=love then you need to wake up... There is love if there is benefit... If she doesnt benefit she is out of the game and vice versa..