NoSelfSelf

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  1. @StaraX Because Leo is not lame,man dont care about womens manipulations.Only weak individuals who manipulate are the ones who get manipulated by the womans beauty and the ways she behave, because you pedestelize her and thus she has influence over you, thats why manipulation is making the focus on a woman, thus she is the prize.
  2. @StaraX Because you are damaging to yourself and a woman. So you are being fake,lying,needy,desperate not seeing value in onself. Looking for ways to cheat the game instead becoming something of value. Looking at getting laid as something that will validate your already fragile ego and you seeing yourself as unworthy without it. He said all survival is manipulation,so how you survive doesnt matter.I gave an example so its obvious to understand but i guess not to hyperlogical types.
  3. You are manipulating the moment your goal is sex and you behave in a way that you start saying some random stuff to her withouth meantioning anything about sex(which shouldnt be the goal in the first place). You are manipulating when you dont really want a relationship but act like you do to get some sex. You are manipulating when you are asking her queastions that you really dont care about. You are manipulating when you learn some technique then use it in a way where you expect to get some reaction out of her, instead reaction doesnt matter your expression does. You are manipulating the moment you not letting her decide if she likes you ,but in your head strategizing the ways you gonna make her like you instead of being likeable and her choosing. You are manipulating when you behave in a way you know she will like ,but thats not really you. I can go on and on, but thats some of them... In simple terms you are saying it doesnt matter how you atain certen things ,drug dealer getting money is same as someone creating medicene, its all the same.
  4. @ArcticGong Standard is precisely made so no alchochol,emotion can lower it that's the poin,t because something that benefits you short term wont benefit you in big picture.Like if your only standard is looks then you fail long term,if she gets fat you are done,if she gets old you are done. In example of rejection you should get rejected so many times that by using mental gym you dont even see it as rejection you go beyond your thinking, to not fall into being a victim,blame your situation or women,but to push through in your mind to go beyond.Its purpose is to push through limitations you set on yourself.
  5. @strika well red pill is not allowed on here,so if you mention it and you know its forbidden you will get minimum 1 warning point ,he had 19 so 1 warning point was a ban because he chose not to delete part where he recommended toxic virus...
  6. @ArcticGong Im tieing what im saying to the original queastion, im glad you said the last thing, see your thinking is on a superficial level you see self help same as you see a woman.When one doesnt have game his mind is rooted in outside so there cant be really the growth you want, its like when you get rooted in self you start to see things way deeper you dont look at resaults outside of yourself etc. You cant just get there with few tips its 100s of mindsets and behaviours that alignes before you look at things from your own lense. Basically you cant because of superficial mind that needs reversing. You need to lift weights in your mind to get real resaults vs muscles(if you not an athlete). Its like when you talk with a woman where it comes from the message from superficial mind or "deep" mind is what makes it or breaks it what will impact the woman. But you cant impact a woman if you looking at the body and not her mind(that comes from your mind)...well thats more deeper thinking than omg shes hot i wanna fuck.. Thats why standard is looks and not who she is. Also im not saying go for "unattractive" go for 10/10 i dont care or 5/10(whatever this superficial ratings mean) it should not matter on bigger scale but all the deeper mind stuff.
  7. @ArcticGong I understood everything no need for clarification, i also knew you think women are beautiful because of their looks and that moves you, which also shows me that you have low self worth etc. Women are smart if i can see this they can see it 10 times more when you approach... She will imidietlly sense he wants me just based on my looks alone and he wants to fuck, okay lets say no or put him on my list of needs ill have this guy to entertain me category when im bored.
  8. @ArcticGong Your only standard is womens looks ,thats the problem you dont hold any other standard besides that,because her looks will detirmin how you gonna treat her and how you gonna move so lose lose... Also every standard is conciously made(if its your own) so it shows you have no standards besides looks which is harmful in itself... @StarStruck Delete that red pill bs or ill have to ban you unfortunately.
  9. https://youtube.com/shorts/ofIXfMQtGnM?si=daV9OVtSK78vnpcn
  10. @MarkKol Okay 251st trap of life:dont challenge someone if you dont know if you can win. Im in Zagreb,so you come to me since you are "challenging" if thats too far for you, then you should not mention me in such a stupid way because fighting is not something you should mention, if you cant even win fight inside your mind...
  11. Nah you are saying you are going to become a loser for life, asshole doesnt care about a woman like you do.
  12. @rd5555 So the solution is that you "deal" with your own problems and you can express them,but the way you express them it wont come off as looking for emotional support(because as a man you dont look for it from others but yourself if you stand behind the statement you said) just you talking... just like you would talk about the thing that happend to you this morning and offering it, not like now its your turn to understand me and give me emotional support ,like an emotional male would demand.
  13. This is some game here,one that has zero game is in constant reaction and believing in every lie mind makes,so to get out of the "loop" one has to learn fundamentals of the game so you can then built your own world, i would recommend topic starter to watch movie Wanted(2008) but one needs a little game to understand it..
  14. Elaborate more about what is a problem to you ,because there is a big difference of what you think a problem is vs what i think a problem is. Also, usually a problem is not a problem because if you are looking for solution then its just a stepping stone, if you see it as a problem and need emotional support from others its a feminine trait...talking about your feelings dont change things for men...
  15. @josemar We not gonna do that 🤦‍♂️
  16. What kind of connection was it,based on what exactly?
  17. I ate so much meat today so its all cloudy 😁 i got brief point, but whats the conflict in short summary?.. and whats the process to find the deep desire (the dreams?).. Im drawn to this topic so if i dont get the response ill look it up tommorow..
  18. @Schizophonia When i say you I meant topic starter now i see the confusion.
  19. @Sugarcoat Yeah the opposite that older women approach him to have sexual interest with the topic starter,then knowing what younger vs older think so his focus is them and what future holds that's all charachteristics of the mind with no game,its a coctail of many things. No worry probably nobody gets what im saying since nobody learns game here only pick up.
  20. Exactly why tf would you want women to approach you..
  21. @Sugarcoat From his Pov mind is creating all sorts of distortions.
  22. @Sugarcoat Its worse to assume they approach you because they want to sleep with you, so you play imaginary scenarios in your head making yourself feel better because you actually not doing anything to grow yourself. Already knowing what young or older think and how you are the man of the party.
  23. @Lila9 Nobody made you feel that is okay to be you and show parts of yourself without fear of judgment and encourage it to the point that your facade is melted by the impact of security and leadership... #nogamearound
  24. As a man you dont ask yourself that queastion,you are focused on giving love and leading her there.The more you give love(it can be in many forms) that has an emotional impact, she is the one who is going to say it first, then again you use it to lead saying: " i dont want to tell you that i love you i want to show you how i love you"...then show it to her without saying it. If shes not saying im missing you in first phase and i love you at second you dont have any impact probably because you focused on those queastion instead of giving and leading...
  25. You actually did whats needed to change bad habit to good habit you cant change habit if you dont see it as the thing its not benefiting you anymore(sometimes even with forcing yourself).For me it worked precisely for exercising forcing myself until it became a habit but better way is seeing how it hurts you so you stop doing it.