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@Applegarden8 rewrite the queastion its confusing its like 2 parts of it

@Past-Philosopher-562 Your last sentence for example is part of this being too emotional,caring too much.You caring about another guy for example makes you weak. There is a million things i already told you not being 1.not being authentic-being more than he is 2.Approval seeking -wanting her to like him..3.way he talks like saying you so beautiful 4.dont have boundaries because i would walk away there 5.no self esteem so he is taking her to a game that could cost alot to impress her but he doesnt know her i can go to a 1000... What physique you talking about?

I mean she sees him as a loser,a friend by the way he talks/behaves, look the statements average male says then put it in the context,since he doesnt believe in himself he behaves in a way that he wants to appear as confident and guy with game(putting on a fasade, but he comes off weird/cringe because he is needy to get her to like him,so that makes her go towards a guy that is not doing those things, to disrespect him further because she knows he is a loser that will put up with that,you basically teach women how to treat you all the time... Im not saying its okay what she did,but its necessary for him to become a man,to wake up most of them dont...he probably wanted to prove himself to her after this instead of walking away..

@Emotionalmosquito Man doesnt care what woman does that's precisely my point between male (senting message like you) vs man who wont look what woman does to somebody else and then according to that moves...

@Rafael Thundercat then i totally missed the point

@Applegarden8 that's not the point of the thread,point is if you for example have dark humor and it rubs people the wrong way, change in this case is to stop having dark humor which compromises your growth in that style of humor and not being 100% authentic, for the sake of fitting in that particular group or persons ways..which digress your growth because in my case growth would be to stop looking for approval and fitting in ,but to grow in who you are as a person 100%, which peer pressure and social conditioning not allowing, but ironicaly would make you most charismatic... But topic starter thinks you should change for others so you grow(if i got it right)but its good topic not easy to discuss because it has alot of nuances...

I see it like this, im not changing for anybody, because me changing for someone means im looking to be liked and accepted by them, aka. approval which is me not being able to unpologetically be myself(i struggle to be 100% me just because of some underlying persisten belief of wanting to be accepted still 🤮 but it dropped significally since when it drops you are like totally peacful and not trying to be more than you are)... You are not changing for anybody, but sometimes you are choosing to change it for yourself because you see it would be better for you why? Because then you can more easily see which people are for you or which are not and you can grow in your own direction,otherwise you are pulled by enviroment to tell you in which way you need to grow,but maybe thats not your way,social conditioned way to be(alot of self awareness needed here.) Balance is needed in a way that you only slightly adjust which part you gonna show to certen people,but thats still is 100% you. I was thinking about this the other day still havent got to the deepest essence...

@Sabth You dont understand the deeper reasoning behind being grateful, its to elevate your mind otherwise your mind will do whatever it wants negative wise ,since you are not grateful,so be grateful for a hand that writes and internet you have, if not remain in negative states that reflects your ungratefulness.

Cause of depression,negativity,self pity etc. Be grateful to be able to have eyesight start from there...

1.Having resource to get the knowledge i need to grow 2.For not being sick 3.To have ambition to be more than i am

You underestimate that only a handful of people are coachable and willing to follow instructions, not being stuck in their ways. Its a crucial skill to leave your pride aside to become good at something.

@Buck Edwards I mean this could be taken in million directions, you could be having adhd, i had it fixed it with meditation and enlightment work,there are places now where they give you games to play and you look at screen with central dots that helps with focus,it could be your diet,you need to find out what makes you stressed, it could be part of you that keeps you in confort zone,if you exercise your nervous system,too much screen time, i dont know your life so its hard to tell...

I bough zeolite,researched it before Leo mentioned it bought it tried for a month,now im having a break since you must take it and will get back at it,so i cant tell yet how much i got resaults for detoxing mind...that is only option i know... Edit:be more specific on what you mean by detoxing mind since i dont know what type of detox you refering to...

You have to dive deep into understanding of yourself as a person, the more you do the more sense of self will come ,you tried psychadelics on weak foundation as an ego...

Its hard to find a man nowadays, you cant offer nothing to a woman so its same on the both sides..

@Princess Arabia Im not missing ,that's exactly my original point i was making, but im not gonna lie to myself that every woman will want to sleep with me,so i have to add a woman in the mix because im not made for every woman,so i dont have the ultimate power...

@Princess Arabia Fine by me,you just gave me 100% of the power, where i saw that woman's power is in the choosing(deciding) and veting a man, as her number 1 right and priority so she doesnt regret later when its too late..

@Princess Arabia Its very simple ,you have to display who you are and she will be down or not,by her own free will deciding , giving us the hints from the way we display who we are(game) everything else is loser manipulations and adding extra pressure for something that is not that important in the eyes of a man.

@Vrubel @Danioover9000 i dont see anybody got banned move along 🙏

Yeah,dont change anything about them they will change if they see your worldview is amazing, the way you present it to them. My number 1 is: Wanting to get laid as your endgame will lessen your chance of getting laid.

@meta_male So since you liked goverment ill use it again so when you are wounded your goverment is fear, being ashamed,you 100% ruled by excuses then your whole system is ruled by those things and nothing else can work even if you try to get better. Crazy part that i found out is that mind is in the power position ,like lets say if somebody that has money and you need money, you need to see what you have to do for them so they give you money. Same with the parts you need to look at each part and give it something so it can work. So last part you get rejected crazy thing since you didnt help your parts they will say fuck you,you didnt come when we needed you so they wont help you,but when you did help them then all parts come together to help you with rejection its crazy how mind works... So that wounded part needs attention and you giving the attention, things it needs for it to work again...

@meta_male Yes that's exactly how it goes, the connected interaction between all of them is really deep so they all work together withouth conflict is my aim. The wounded part should be that part that is sabotaging collective, like "im not motivated" this could be wounded part but key is not to take care the wounded part by itself, you need to see all the parts that caused the wound in the first place, so you can take care of it, its like a blockage of action and for system to work fluidly,you can only know by the direction you are going to know if its a wound, if i understand your wound meaning.

@meta_male Right now im working on the conflicting parts of myself ,so it was funny to read it here and if curious the reason why is there always a conflict, its because in your game there lacks order, every part its doing its own thing ,because everything must be connected to a larger system for it all to be connected ,every part must have its own job that fits into other parts, for example your goverment inside your mind has a vision to have this great relationship(for example) then your marketing team needs to know how to market yourself to that women,then with your studio you will know how to display your personality with how you talk ,your senat will explain her the rules of the vision of that relationahip,it cant be like one part doing one thing, then other parts doing different things, then its a conflict of interest...

Thank you!,all the threads i opened,the things i saw in them,the horrors of the namecallings,decieving trolls,neverending debates that only lock button can save but at what exact moment? Split decision betweem giving 2 warning points or 20 ,all of that so i can have comfort that ill be having extra cookies waiting when i meet myself thank you truly ❤😂

@Schizophonia I know best how is to have trauma,so it never went through my mind to not seek help from someone that is better than me,so i would ask a friend to teach me how to hunt basically, i dont get it personally how would me not asking for help benefit me, but to look how is someone better than me .. Friendship is something bigger for me than hanging out with someon, there cant be a woman there who i saw for 20min override friendship. I guess thinking for a little bit the thread starter thinks he is not good enough so he thinks that he needs to do certen things to get a woman so if she doesnt respond(to his perfectly crafted haircut) he will get mad,with that surface level thinking it has to be really surface level friendships...