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That's exactly in different words what i was looking to say about this.Being nice is taken for being soft but actually they are not soft,its strenght that is expressed nicely if that makes sense.Yeah you dont need to be loud agressive to be magnetic, its the more i contemplated i saw this and wanted to share since there is more extrovarted approach.Bragging about the women success is screaming insecurity i hate to see that.

@Rafael Thundercat Im not doing this for a woman its all about me becoming better.Resault is me.

Easiest example i can find is this actor. Interesting blend of charm and charisma.Since im biased because of the thread it looks to me he has more charm than charisma,but his charisma is high.Still i dont know how they work together.

@ItsNick Are you proficient in cocktail making?.I started to love making them also would like bartending to up my social game.If so any direction you can point me for a begginer?

Complaining and bitterness is all ecompasing through every area that's why one hurts himself in long term with short term fix.But you on point.

@Sugarcoat You can literally give him all that and he will still find a way to say its not working, i actually tested this some people just wont grow and too stuborn.

@Sugarcoat Actually he did, he went to talk to women didnt work out then he resonated with red pill, took those videos to heart and now find every reason to hate dating through everything,so that video is just another proof, you put another nail to his heart you so mean 😁

@Sugarcoat Now he will never become a nice guy god dammit! 😆

now it all makes sense

Only players can be that smooth 😂

@VictorB02 Yes become my teacher im willing to learn 🙏 but now im on vacation till next week so we can start on monday.

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@Tenebroso Its so uncomfortable that i have trouble to sleep at night. @Schizophonia Point of the thread is that you dont be a one trick pony,its not just fun its many things combined.Thats why niceness alone is not good ,being only toxic not good.Create persona that suits you.

@Princess Arabia Amen. i never judge women so you know in the future, its deeper reason behind why i say certen things and judgment is never the purpose.If i judged a woman i would be talking shit on threads adressing women.

@Princess Arabia Exactly the point is what is the reason behind it, for a man if the reason is to enhance apperance like build muscle to attract a woman is a weakness and feminine vs enhancing his apperance because thats how he will better survive for example fighting off the attacker its all whats the reason.

@Princess Arabia Where we are splitting again is that you think if someone is born with a penis automatically means hes a man.No man is made,man has zero insecurity,man is self centered,self reliant rock that nothing can shake.In todays age i think there are more enlightened people than men.Im talking in my experience the less feminine i am the more secure i get in myself,its a hard process,man is so many layers of skillsets,mindsets that takes years and grueling work its not like you become a man with age. No man talks bad about a woman or have insecurities around a woman. My queastion is then why would you want to enhance your apperance? I think dress appeal is and why women would buy it instantly if they like it,because it promises if you wear me all your insecurities will go away thats bottom line of it. Same why women prefer a man because if shes with him she feels way better than alone he enhances who she is and how she feels about herself.

Ofcourse you need to be direct and say what you mean so she can understand.Point of being direct and lead is not to waste time.

@Schizophonia I adressed it in a thread nice guy without substance is nothing like your first point.Nice is not the problem in itself,problem is that you dont have traits beyond nice and niceness is just a fasade for insecurity. Nice=charm women want charming guy whos effective...so they tehnically saying truth but not complete truth.. I didnt know you make videos link me...

@Princess Arabia I used that example to show a point of the workings of the mind.But when you mentioned it im not sure there is a woman secured in herself like you are saying ,like even Jennifer Lopez admitted that shes not secured in herself so there is enhancers to make them feel better, thats feminine thats why masculine is secured in itself and thats attractive to women.Its not that im saying women being insecure is bad its how feminine works,outside orianted to feel things and care.If im wrong and you can point me in right direction.

@Lila9 Well thanks for sharing that intimate part of yourself .I get its you wanting to be seen more than just a figure and its tough when all the males you surrounded with are driven by their bottom half.It takes maturitiy for a man to see you deeper so you can say "he gets me".Ill look if your books recommendation have what im looking for 👍

Forget about the red pill ideology as long you date women on your terms there is no problem.

@Lila9 Hey, you know a book that dives deep into why books made for woman impacts them so much, since when guy reading it, its like reading starts without a telescope ? Im 99% sure there is no such a thing but mysteries always attracts my curiousity 🤓

@PenguinPablo My point is pure egoic but internal ,which you control vs you giving others to say how your ego is shaped. It took me years for outside to stop influencing the internal foundation still in the process tho...

Thats called being defined by the external that's not masculine behaviour.Outside is now the thing that will determin your self image your confidence vs you defining yourself.That's where real inner self growth really starts. Its like a woman putting on make up to.feel better about themselves its good when you are emotional.

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