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@gambler Yeah its not always, but precentage when it is women's fault, why is man allowing it in the first place since you train people how to treat you ,so then its not her fault because you are the one who didnt set the rules that was taken in consideration.If you bring massive value then her behaviour is going to be right it is common sense, but if she cant see your value then you dont marry her in the first place.There must be taken in consideration alot of things before entering marriage but the ones who bitch dont even look for solutions just the problems.So dont marry nobody if you think its gonna fail since you wont put effort in it.

@gambler what brainwashing? Why do you think they always say women and children first? Man stands alone as his own strenght and support that's why there is no pity needed. Its strenght,we are not looked at because we suppose to be strong ones.

How does one get stronger bones,tendons if its not lifting with submaximal weights?

@mr_engineer Im not gonna waste my time with you good luck.

@mr_engineer I can already tell all those points is your fault lets disect. First point-she needs to find herself because there is nothing she can learn about herself through you! its your job to elevate her so she can find things about herself from the first date!but because you are looking at the body vs what's beyond,you cant do that because you yourself is on superficial level. Cheating-when does the cheating happens? During marriage? And she didnt do it before? 9/10 you are not good in bed.You chose to get married to the woman who has no integrity which you didnt pick up during the dating phase because you knew shes best i can get so you were afraid to drop her. Choosing a wrong man-how can you even say this low self esteem sentace she cant choose a wrong man i guess if you saying this she did, but if you truly "the man" there is nobody like you ,she will never find somebody better if you a man in this day and age. Argumentative-there is no arguments i say on first date im a drama free and i have expectation to talk like adults with gentle voice ill never raise my voice at you and transition to other things. To be your wife she would be argumentative so you cut her off, her being your wife is the toughest mountain she will clime in her life. Spreading rumors gossip she lost her respect for you ,because you acting weak bottom line but you are imagining this bs through somebody elses story, so you fing up already before you even got into relationship. Using sex as a manipulation- this could be many things you fing up most common is she can tell you are thirsty for sex and have no game so she turns the table to.run game on you, this will be exposed before marriage then you cut her off because you dont play games. Critical-critical of what nagging about what usually because you not fucking her right ,or indirectly telling you she dont value your leadership skills because you have no structure.(to the sexist part if somebody believes that then being under a boss is sexist,letting someone navigate a bus boat etc. To get you to certen destination is sexist. Being control freak-because you have nothing under the control.she could smell you are weak because you were potraying a role that you are a man ,then she found out you werent so now shes mad because you dishonest. Keep them coming if you want

@mr_engineer Okay lets not talk in phantasy realm, list me things what women would do so you can say its her fault.

You can tell a true master if he teaches you to think for yourself and talks about things you never heared before.

Well it could be that man initiated divorce,also if women does it its man's fault because he's the leader he chose her,he detirmens the direction and everything else, how the thing is going to happen and where the marrige is going. From first step you made towards marriege it can be traced that you f up somwhere. If you lack self accountability you aint no man.

You cant ruin reputation when you dont have any, also this thing you wrote shows you have low self esteem,low self worth,low belief in yourself you cant attract nothing with that,so before saying its ineffective look at yourself first. You cant gain pure muscle mass without fat fast it evens out in the end.

@MarkKol

Wrap yourself in plastic no game no gain 🤯

Sweet photos since i only been im europe. Im surprised there are not like 20 women fighting over you letting you take those pics 😏 got lucky.

For once, lets put the classic quote you hear after the infamous queastion: what is the quality you are looking for in the guy? I love me some nice guy who treat's me right,behind us. So my claim is they are right, but they not specific about the thing they claim they want.Disclamer:its not about giving them what they want but the understanding,so you can choose what You want to be. I was contemplating yesterday what is actually someone being charming what is charm ,why is it attractive.So the basis of contemplation is attraction.So charming is being super nice,great manners,gentelmen like behaviour.Like someone saying:so what can i do for you today? in a prince like medievil voice with a kiss on the hand.But if charming is being nice and nice guys finish last whats the deal? Then it hits me that alot of charachters in the movies,tv shows,anime that are the most interesting are the villians or gentelmens.Villians that are in the beggining center of evil that later on when bigger evil comes become good in the eyes of the viewer by fighting along side heros.They are still evil but they are doing good by fighting bigger evil.Then there are characthers that are super nice like the main charachter in the netflix show gentlemen,where he is super nice but has capacity for violance to do things that are criminal. Those polarizing figures that makes us hate them in one moment and love them in the second, makes such a deeper impact because its more meaningfull than being just one sided when they do good we respect it more. With that thinking why does a regular nice guy repell women because hes not polarizing behind the niceness is insecurity,no dominance,no assertivness.Where charming person is attractive because behind those great manners is a person that is capable of being an asshole,being evil,selfish.Its like a sweet base in a coctail where the bitterness of taste behind makes it blend so nicely. Narcissist wins with women(not in the end tho) because he has alot of charm ,then his super selfishness makes women hate him in one second and love him in another, giving ups and downs vs nice guy just one constant where women cant feel that sexual attraction wondering why. So when they say they love a nice guy its the charming guy who is polarizing.The detail is that you can be nice and be dominating,be nice and give asshole like behaviour behind it.Nice way of dominating,leading vs direct no fing around domination,leading. Now that is a killer combo like a guy whos nice and can kill everyone that breaks in the house to save a family. To finish it off...people who believe they are introverts are usually like down because they think they need to be loud extrovarted, which is more of charisma.Charm is more suited and the strenght of an introverted like guy, where you attract with nice manners that is backed with strenght where loud mouths strenght is being charismatic.Charisma can be be in charm but its not a main part.Charm can be in charisma but not the main part. Thread to make you think what to implement in your game cheers. Thanks for reading.

This is it! when i saw it,immidietly wanted to share since there is so much confusion around this(as a guy just starting who hasnt found himself ).If one is dealing with a woman and she cant feel gentlness handling her ,she will interpit everything as agressive and disttasteful.But again if someone looks to be gentle to get her in bedroom then its a big fail and natural asshole(non integrated) succedes because he could fake charm, but since he has backbone it works. This is mindblowing because asshole must have charm 😂

Because you are judgmental, that is an instant turn off because indirectly she interpits you are going to judge her the same,discussing politics is a bad idea or anything where you going to be 2 oppositions fighting eachother thats a big no,you directly judging her calling her disgusting thres nothing playful about it,when she knows you well you can use it,but then she knows you not coming from judgmental place. Dont be judgmental in any way or talk about nothing that will not create intimacy in the end.You are showcasing to her that you not mature with this approach.

Post specific message and things you did on a date where you got that reaction so we can asses it.

@gambler To avoid all this stop caring about what other people do and just focus on what you want to offer to women/people, without asking anything in return like a perk of being around you.

@Tenebroso Please spare us your pity and hate you have over yourself nobody want a negative feel sorry for yourself attitude massive turn off for women/people in general.

@bambi Swearing and leaving nasty remarks is enough to get 2 warning points,also he has history of women hate on here so thats also in the picture.

@Twentyfirst Stop watching manosphere videos it will help you alot.This is all just unnecesary clutter in your mind.What you gonna acomplish with this? Change someones mind nah let people believe and do what they want focus on your path be gentle(man). Nice guys im talking about dont look to enforce things on others if you find what you dont like just say this is not what im looking for it wont work out peace. Ofcourse be what you wanna be but not in this thread,its thread of niceness for a change and for me too 😄

@Princess Arabia I fail to see where you picked up the slave part, since i said shes the one choosing if she wants to follow based on who i am.Like in a restaurant there is 10 items you can pick now you can choose if thats what you like or not,you not gonna come and try to change the program. This is interesting topic we unpacked it has alot to it and definately its not a slave relationship since a man gives a free will for a woman to choose by giving her many options to give her choice if she wants to get on board or not. With a man you finally feel free because you can be what you want because its encouraged it goes againts the scope of the thread.

@Princess Arabia Only thing i see the problem is that there is no leader and follower,if there is no dynamic like that i dont see how does a sexual dynamic would work, it would be like friends with benefits unique type of relationship.Like i said before same as any work or job enviroment there is a program of how things are.So in dating phase man has to show the experience of how its like to be with him long term,so woman can decide to follow it since its the thing she also wants.If man is transparent with his personality,skills,character,life style and doesnt change it for a woman she then can get on board or not easier but whos transparent nowadays?

@Princess Arabia Yeah best strategy to grow yourself the best i can so one can be the best version of myself.If this mindset shift doesnt happen guy always needs to fit in the womens narrative.Thats extremely tough to do meanwhile she cant really see for who you really are.

@Schizophonia Im intrigued @Lila9 💯 @Princess Arabia I see, my job is not being concerned about how things are going to be percieved by others,that's the manipulation of myself and the other person at play.My job is to present myself the best way i can and give other person free will to choose without me modifying myself for that person.But to find the balance of how im going to play my strenghts,so the women who love what i offer can benefit from it.Imagine if i have really well crafted dark houmor but many women dont like it so i wont express it,but that one women really loves it thats my aim.Me being me and other person loving me for being me its bottom line of the dating game.

There is much more to this that is spoken here,shes free to express what she wants without immidiet criticism.Alfas dont control women with absolutes if you are nice doesnt mean you automatically are weak aka beta.Your comment is exactly why this thread is made there is different approaches.You can be charming and tell her things elegantly or you can be agressive dominating its different ways of doing things. Yeah behind chilvarious man is many many layers that make that nices really attractive its more to it than just be at service Sent link of that video so we can experience it.