NoSelfSelf

The more you are focused on yourself the less you gonna focus(give a f what she does)on women.Its lack of game that's the problem, you so consired about her that she is the number one thing in your mind.No wonder you feel like that, because its a message that you pushed yourself back for a woman.

@Schizophonia "Adapted to how his own world works" big difference

Locked for no substance

I would be absolutely terrified if this happened to me,dying alone is laughable 😆 My bad if this is not on topic if its a problem ill delete it...

There are many, but good one is that i created all the suffering,all the "bad" things in my life,that im the creator of everything, even when you get scared 9/10 its you who created that fear conciously and now you put it there to make you scared.All the laziness created by me,all the procrastination, i can name 100 things its all my creation without me even conciously seeing it now i see it.(but ofcourse you can always see it better ,see now i created the excuse to not see everything 😂)

You cant just decide from now on im going to be a man doesnt work like that,you wont find it in you,you are not built for it,takes time and precise effort.

@Consept But my argument is that there is no such person on earth which is not a saint that is like that.Point is even if you look whats best for the group you are doing it for yourself ,since you want the group to thrive if you didnt want it then you wouldnt do it.Its all a deception so a leader should think of a group as part of himself,even if they give you money its not just about the money one has to see does it benefit my morals,my beliefs,my values to take that money at that moment.Its not like one being self centered does evil doing that's tyrannic leadership.Hitler was amazing leader but his charachter is fucked up.My argument is that self centered leaders are really effective and get the job done,empathic ones which is called concious leaders as i rember who work alongside you to get to the goal does things concious but at some point if he doesnt get self centered people will just sucumm to their human laziness.There is a split that happens where empathy is needed for it to not all crush down but we cant deny self centered leaders get you to places empathic cant.

@Princess Arabia So guy wasnt self centered he basically saying hes centered in the happiness,program,standards placed on him by others, that's not what im saying. @mrPixel You need someone to show you your power then you dont need anyone,then others just help with showing you possibilities that you havent think off, so you can tailor it to your specifications.

I think different one cant lead others if one cant lead itself. If you have vision its your vision,your aims,your goals.How well you can lead yourself towards it thats how well is your potential to lead others. If you lead others but cant lead yourself you will always lead them to a level you can lead yourself. So leader has to be self focused because then group will always sway you in so many directions that is not actually the aim. How can you lead a group when they themselves dont know whats best decision for them and if they do everyone will have different wants? How would you propose the no self centered leader i dont know if any leader in history wasnt self centered? Probably Jesus is the most non self centered leader so that leaves us with saints as best leaders? Btw your post reminds me of netflix show How to be a cult leader thats a good watch to distinguish bad leaders.

Im always a party pooper since being part of community, being accepted is nice but it actually hurts you the moment you think its the thing that helps you through life,that you need people,need support,need to follow and worhip someone that will always more hurt than help.Initially its helping but in long run stunts the growth by giving you things that one should give itself.One has to fly on its own.Appreciate yourself, we are just people expressing shouldnt be something special. @Zigzag Idiot now i noticed we used same analogy different directions 🪽 surrounding yourself with actualizers yes but they are their own individuals going in same direction, that's how life is if one wants to grow, or how i chose to see it..

He's talking about succesful men and what they do, what will that help you in anything? What that has anything to do with you? I wouldnt listen to this guy.

@Danioover9000 My source is fitness school i attended, will check information later.

@Javfly33 Great feature of a man is that a man doesnt care about what you think,gotta say, man is his own culture. Man cant be wrong because man is right for himself.

@Javfly33 You are lying you dont talk to women plus what is your argument even i dont get whats your aim...

@Javfly33 You can tell me all that but when you see a woman you want, you are scared to go talk to her,then you dont know why,then man creation would suit you really well.When you want to improve and have millions of excuses or emotions hinders your ability to push beyond your limitation, then you wish you were constructed being a man.

Dont listen to me women hate me, but you didnt make it intimate when you were talking, like who cares about some psychopat you should infuse her or you being a psychopat and tease her that she could be having dead bodies under the bar counter, or she must be thinking that psychopats drink the drink you are drinking and transition from being silly to being something else to show who you are, rather having some conversation that doesnt have nothing to do with you and her, going in the intimate direction.

Your foundation is feminine so you will again find a way to be bitter towards women,since shes the main focus in your mind.You writing this thread shows how much women bothers you(in your mind).As long you are feminine and as long you dont create your own brand to market yourself to women you will lose.Women ghost because there is nothing about you that entice them to see you.I didnt hear anything about you that would invite women in.Your writing is coming from, im not good enough attitude.

@Schizophonia Having a counter move for any move 🧠, remembering a video that suits the situation is sometimes better than text reply.Voice messages would be dope to have on here to sent 🤔

@enchanted https://youtu.be/OJ62RzJkYUo?si=5xxS7cluf6e2B-dM

The more you worship Bob the less you see yourself,the less you see yourself the more his knowledge wont even work for you.So your mind f you over by thinking someon's a legend beside you to keep you feeling worthless..

19:20 im done with internet today

That's exactly the reason why there is so many mentally ill people because both parents are not involved, or themselves had passive fathers or mother..its not an excuse tho if you over 18

If rejection hurts so much,why do you need a woman so much?

@Majed I assume it goes smooth as a butter after that 😉

@Majed I dont use crazy openers, i say what i say always and she either says that sounds good ill take your number,or she says no and some excuse why...