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Thank you for clearing things up...i have intuition that life should be like you say,and my enviroment is complete opposite im glad i stayed for 3 years now

@Leo Gura Yeah,you have different approach to enlightment than others thanks for clearing things up...everything should be included is the key...i thought that if its an illusion dont bother investigate...

Great answer..i love investigation,research,invention/progress...but with enlightment i dont know what would i be investigating making better when everything is perfect as it is and another thing how would i know im helping someone with advancing science when getting rid of ego is only real help you can give..

@Leo Gura What would be "perfect" scenario to make it openminded,even if im fully passionate about science i couldnt do it because they dismiss the nature of reality...

@Monkey-man im looking its empty ??

There is no life purpose its a label for helping someone with your passion

@Jonson Because you want to prove your worth to someone hey girl im cool is not being cool,do you try to impress your classmates i think you dont...

@Shin Krav maga? I need to watch out for my balls thats why you ejaculate threw your spine ??

Its not possible to be bored there are millions things to do to master to discover im not just talking about life purpose there are million fascinating things to do...i havent been bored since i was 10 y old why? There is so much it sucks(you cant do it in a lifetime)for example watching psychology of people asking queastions like how to cook how to be stronger how to be better at this,dance sing new language...even staring at the walls and sit with emotions is not boring im mybe to harsh

Well this work is all about coming back to that "presence" and "have it" forever....no quick fixes...whats your Lp(im curious)?

I wish i know what are you talking about sum it up in 3-5 sentences explain me like im 10y old

Let's put aside non-duality for a moment and talk about selfconfidence(maybe most important trait you can have)...Nobody ever told me clearly what it is even google says something vauge like believing in your abilities(but dismiss deeper psychology) I came up with this after contemplation,: - Thinking for yourself and see how much your thinking,actions are influenced by other people at large they influence your decision making,your beliefs,behaviour...you have to shut down the world and just be with what you think is best and just take what world say to elevate your ideas) - Knowing where you are going,what you want and why, without letting anyone to make you change it(with negative thinking and telling you what is right for...they are just showing you that they dont believe in themselves). -Finding your authentic self and embrace it-saying what you actually think(have your conversational style),wear clothes you like,and behave like you want to... -In other words dont let others influence you, but you have your path and vision and take full responsibility for your actions... -Now i can see why so few people have real self confidence they are like everybody else people with self confidence are rebels they look crazy and delusional to "ordinary" people because they do opposite of what they are doing... Conclusion:people with self confidence are leaders of themselves and others they dont follow others they dont watch others how its good to live life or how to behave they are bold and look arrogant to the average eye because they dont follow social norms... This is deep topic help me to expand it...

@Deep Thats why so little people truly grow and have confidence in their abilities....

Adjust? Live with more passion still elevate your skills,knowledge..raise your conciousness help people with your lifes work explore,invent inspire there are infinite options...if its truly gone you wouldnt ask how to adjust because everything is good as it is...

He did this in "there is no free will" video and enlightement videos and do nothing meditation

@Shin Why everyone can't see this we are nothing special @Joseph Maynor You come from perspective of enlightement i see what you are talking about true confidence is letting everything play out by itself ,but here im talking about illusion what is self confidence for someone who didnt hear about iawakening...even when you are enligtened you are not confident in navigating illusion of life...

Mooji is the best what you talking about?

@egoeimai be kind enough to take time to see that im not talking to you..

@BjarkeT Yes thats true,but knowledge leads you to a certen point where you have to drop it to grow more...

Intelligent is the one who destroys all knowladge system because he sees its limitations and that its just a game you are playing,fooling yourself you are going somewhere but in reality you are ignorant as the other person(and thats not an excuse for not learning anymore)....

@MarkusSweden Story is great...you are good at it (but it striked me as depressive)

@MarkusSweden This story sounds depressing its should be like this its so beautiful i feel the love for the first time its perfect as it is... just a joyful dream

Because you dont know when and what next thought will be..."you"thinking about elephant is just thought arising in conciousness and you observe them with interest thats why you say its mine like you watch wall inside your bedroom and think to yourself its mine but its just a wall standing there...

Yes there is a positive suffering when you meditate,self-inquire,learn..and there is a negative with worry,anger,control/neuroticism...

I think that is called meta belief belief about the beliefs they are also super tricky,its best to drop them for now...(in the end)