NoSelfSelf

But when you want the fear to come it wont come

@cirkussmile It seems like "you" have control over it but there is no you thats why its called illusion

10 months non stop meditating

Losers work on a job they dont like winners work on a job they dont like but they are creating a better life from it...

Man is the one who leads make things happen and girl is the one who follows him girl is more vague,indecisive man is clear direct and if polarity is uncerten then there is no sexual attraction...

Book multiorgasmic man forgot the name of the author can look it up later...

Because you are used to fake fasade now that hes becoming more authentic you dont like it because that shows you how much you need to work to get rid of all social conditioning and ego doesnt like it...

You swim? Did you realize that kicking in swimming is same as in martial arts :D?

Nothingness is like space,and in the end you are space going threw space

Its an individual thing you start with what you can then go for 20 min then 1 hour then how much you want...

Mans job is to have a purpose mission going threw challenges,if shes your goal you will mess it up they like you to be you and have your passions so continue with what you are doing and have fun with her thats the point of relationships..

Ive been struggling with fear for long time and after meditation/self inquiry fear left.... and now i know whats freedom-absence of fear...so its working and you can do it too im nothing special

@egoeimai my pleasure ?

Hes great hes actually talking about enlightment thats why he was/is effective with his teachings

Mine too watched him 4 years ago

Everything is included in this inifinite reality...after enlightment you still do everything you did before(mastering yourself),or you go live in a cave idk..seeing it as an illusion doesnt mean you dont learn it make it better etc

@TheEnlightenedWon Yes but after the storm of ego has passed(purification)

This is my opinion on how to do do nothing technique(maybe also mindfulness meditation etc.) You are not trying to do nothing thats also doing something you should let go of the control completely what i mean by that..?You let your body do what it wants to do if it wants to sit,if it wants to walk you let it do what it wants to do without controling simple as that..thats also with thoughts(i assume you meditate frequently)...your mind wants enligthment,resaults sucess progress etc.No you let go even if it means you are looking lazy and there is no progress and soon enough you will get resaults you want..this problem ive seen on latest Leo retreat and wanted to tell something...(resistence is coming up because you still want to control if you let go there is no resistence)

What about big picture understanding of life for that you should be little encyclopedia at least (didnt read whole conversation)

there is no building up to it stop controling anything if engagement in thoughts comes let it be there...and this will get you biggest resaults if you also figured out where are you precieving from

@Torkys Exactly and see how hard is not to control because if you have job or something and no control means not doing it(if that is its course of action) then you should not do it...

Sry to say but bad day for you at a office you still dont understand this work its complete opposite of what you are saying

Thats the tricky thing nobody can tell you how to find it values are yours, whats the most meaningful 10 things you value the most in life...

Its funny the idea of loving yourself its like there are 2 people inside of you one that needs to be loved and second that has love for it...there needs to be 2 for one to love another..and dont be a person be yourself

I heared that sungazing is for collecting suns energy and if you do it right that is enough for you to live of without food...