NoSelfSelf

You can still enjoy everything even better than before

Everything is happening inside the conciousness thats the point

@Raymondo Good point mybe it has something to do with that...

Soon after i watched new video i set the timer for 10 minutes and 5 breaths in i feel big changes but after 2 minutes i start to gag i dont know why and if this is normal for begginers...?

Ive been having lucid dreams lately because i noticed when im dreaming and from foggy dream i enter lucid dream its real like when you are awake..so my queastion is can we create lucid dreaming like memory something like photographic memory where you can see your memory so clear like its happening right now?

@PsiloPutty thanks,with that we could go back and fix our childhood traumas mybe?

@starsofclay ohh now i get what you are saying tnx but no they suck ???

@starsofclay im talking about can we have vivid memory when we are awake

Seeking is a thought inside conciousness that you are watching

You are growing thats the sign of growth

@Dodo Why

I just found this topic: what i experience most of the time is that im lost in the crowd im not interesred in drinking partying anything that most of the people do i dont feel lonely when im alone i feel happy im struggling to express myself best way i can do it threw sports...best i can describe that im trapped inside society i have no interest in,so i dont have purpose....thats my ego hope you got some idea...

Yes its the most biggest part of self actualization but we didnt achieve anything its not a achievement

@Leo Gura why they want to establish a ruling authority(fighting for monopoly)?Does priests know what they are talking about it seems they try to explain metaphors(from bible for ex.)from perspective of the ego?Im also curious about people who listen to some religious leader(from christinity for example) and they start to help everyone in order to be a better person and they talk only about religion in every aspect of life...

This is tough i think try to work on not being too serious and open your body language(be approachable) if you care for people some while care for you back..

Yes i thought im eyes who are watching then i dropped it because it sounded silly

Im planing to start doing serious research(to develope big picture understanding of life) and to start of i want to understand social behaviour,communication,relating,everything around people(interacting etc) what advice would you give me what traps to avoid what experiences to seek?

Hahah tnx @Nahm My own self biases,self deceptions, previous wrong assumption can make this alot difficult if i take your route...the game is how i see it? Then i can say for example im the most humble person i deserve to be treated with respect(how is this not delusion?)i want to know how it is not only how i see it...

@Staples Any link where can i start?@Dan Arnautu Yes thats the "right" way to look at it but what exact traps are in my topic?@alyra i know that but i always forget about it tnx

When?

@Nahm nice description tnx@Key Elements thank you i understand it better now

@cirkussmile if its a journey it has to have a destination what is the destination ?

@Joseph Maynor @Key Elements so enlightement is end of self actualization? I heared its just the beggining

Higher intelligence is when you get sudden insight about something and usually you dont follow it i heared(didnt reseach much) that you ask for something and then you leave it and in few hours you get that answer out of nowhere thats higher intelligence at work..

Trying to be charismatic is why someone is not charismatic...charisma imo is when you are 100% authentic expresion of yourself and you dont change for anyone because people are constantly trying to control how you think feel and act and if you submit to their way of thinking acting etc. you lose your authentic expression..