NoSelfSelf

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  1. @hikmatshiraliyev If she still wants she will again contact you with hey whats up or something and use that to set a meeting...chasing her will just make it worse
  2. By not sure about her feelings is that shes not sure if she likes you/dont really like you because of things you did i assume...you said you dont want to meet anymore so...
  3. @Leo Gura are tuffles good for growth or too weak?
  4. Being awake will make self actualization even better(more smoother) i persoanlly put enlightement first because with all this traumas in body ill need 2 lifetimes to make something in the world so its a personal choice...
  5. Got this easy insight that all behaviour and life is conditioning if you want to lose weight you condition yourself to eat healthy if you want to be a better communicator you condition yourself to listen there is no magic trick if you work randomly and think someday you will become great at something....its all conditioning...all development is conditioning....if you have some better insight feel.free to share...
  6. @ajasatya thats true @Tightrope Walker tnx man hardships built us into a better men...
  7. How can you help yourself when all you see its pointless and want it just to end?
  8. @Tightrope Walker I can shut down my mind completely until there is complete silence then when i try to use my mind its all going down from there...i see that i cant do anything about it and thats more depressing cuz i worked on myself so much and people who didnt have better lifes thats f up...ill have to work improve etc it requers mind and i cant really use it...sometimes i cant even say something or think something its just blank and how you suppose to improve like this?
  9. @Tightrope Walker thats all nice on paper but actually accepting what is...is hardest part cuz what is is everything is pointless and just work for what?
  10. Wait for what? If you are psychologicaly ready then there is nothing to wait
  11. @Serotoninluv After that there is no stage no progress etc. ?
  12. @Leo Gura Thats what happens when you dont release the videos about how to turn a girl on ?should we expect topic on this or forget about it?
  13. Yeah because if you dont take action on whats being said you will only feel worse not better...
  14. Yes working on energy blocks and breathing ,posture is important too...
  15. @OneWithAll not everyone is unconcious there are many that are developed and its actually good to spent with unconcious people because you can learn alot...and thinking you are superior to them is a trap lack of development on your part because every behaviour and act, you could have easily fall into and its not far from you and any conciouns people...
  16. @OneWithAll you misunderstood there is no conflict between solitude and relationships you can have both its stupid to limit onself in anything @Pilgrim its not manipulative to be a challenge that creates excitement that is understanding of how attraction works...giving eachother what we subconciously desire is good otherwise you pick the other (in your word non manipulative way )that wont be interesting and will fall apart ...
  17. @Preetom i think its not problem of marriage but who you marry and who you are and how do you understand opposite sex its a complex system that people just get into not knowing anything about it cuz of arrogance..
  18. @MM1988 yeah fucked up thing is you will suck even more before you will become confident masculine that you really are...but like shin said practicing things that we talk here will make the process easier but it will still suck...you have to do what works fail at it until it becomes second nature...i also have to do this so i know what you are experiencing...
  19. You are looking in a wrong place women dont want you cuz you are no challenge,have weak energy,dont appear confident,beta...thats what you have to fix otherwise you will get same resaults every time...Biggest thing you have to be a challenge and you are easy...
  20. You will intuitively know who you are and that you cant be seen but you percieve everything..
  21. You can meditate,you can meditate with inquiry deeper is realizing who you are as an observer who cant be seen...