NoSelfSelf

I thought not knowing is to avoid trap of thinking you know things but you actually dont or you partialy know it and miss steps in between...not knowing allow us to not fall in that kind of traps...

@Leo Gurawhats the good for the world? My view of good world is bad for another person...because everything is so interconnected you cant make everyone happy many people will benefit but many will suffer...

@Leo Gura my only way to contribute to society is through life purpose i dont see any other way and life purpose is selfish kind of thing...how can i do anything other than becoming politican which im not interested in becoming...

@Leo Gura im doing that sticking head in the sand when it comes to politics i have belief if i want a good life ill make it not somebody else what im missing?

You didnt progress cuz you are stubborn and wont change your views on how relationships work...

You can have it but it will take you decades of work to get it...you cant be perfectionist(and have all this identity problems) and get it cuz you will sabotage yourself...i understand you cuz its similar to my experience...

What should one do to ace life not just live and have good life but ace it..? I struggle with making compeling vision...any tips?

@Leo Gura I feel that i cant fit in society and had a lot of suffering because of it....its good that i dont mind to be alone...what should person like this do?Try fit in?

@nikolay mybe she liked you but because it took you so long to make a move she lost interest (that could be one of the options)...

Thats like saying that world champion in boxing can outbox his way to being good at singing

I think it comes from not being able to control yourself so controling others gives you the illusion you are controling everything... To purify i think you have to be satisfied with yourself then controling others wont be necessary... There has to be healthy control meaning you are not pushy...so the order of the system is going well....

You cant

@kieranperez yeah we can do it but one condition so we can make it even he runs on his knees ill run normally

@Serotoninluv Hes a good example of whats not a weakminded person he continue with his purpose even though everything was againts it he could of say well i cant do shit now...he found a way...so its not just his talent that made him great...

Thats what im saying thats so weakminded...personal development showed me that anything is possible and faith and belief is always a backbone I changed so much that without seeing beyond my direct experience wouldnt be possible

I get what you guys are saying but i still think its weakminded way to look at things

@Leo Gura thats what i meant you can change and why is there a limit to how much you can grow if they say you can even change your dna... @Consilience why is there a threshold? @kieranperez i dont want to argue with you give me source of what you are saying i read it wrong then

@kieranperez you can change your muscle type if you didnt know...from fast twitch to slow twitch and vice versa

@Leo Gura no we dont but we can work around it and find a way there is always a way...

@Leo Gura @kieranperez believing that makes you stay in your current state...thats why i do personal development to go beyond whats given to me...

Isnt this victim mindset?

You are lucky if this is your biggest fear

@Leo Gura how? Self inquiry can take you all the way...

@MM1988 lol mybe he killed the next hitler