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@Wilhelm44 Yes thats freedom with lover case f...you choose what to give importance to, so be careful what you give importance to ,if you have some goals in life to apsire to...

@Consilience You did good asking for number, props.... next level is not giving a f about if she doesnt reply or if she does something(easier said that done) you did things your way, we forget to give ourselves a pat on a back ...you can meet thousands of even better looking girls in your life you can develope to get better we forget that also?

I dont see anything "bad" even ending is good ...you said what you wanted if you meant it (and that she felt it)..then its good not just another obvious compliment you are sexy(the place it comes from is important)... I see that your problem is Logistics you go for numbers and stuff where if you want action you need to have place near by or car to drive to the place...setting up how you gonna make things happen like a strategic motherfucker ? And btw this feeling you got that you bond dont buy into them they will pass and make you weak imo if shes 9/10...

You can construct anything lol i dont see value in this

@Wilhelm44 Everything is "equal" only ego mind gives importance to stuff..and you give the importance or whatever to stuff... if you dont then its equal....its a game basically ..

Whats the point of this thread? How can we know if you can do it or not ?

@trenton yes

I understand you completely and what you going through because i had similar experiences ,if you want you can pm me with specific things you wanna know mybe i could shine some awareness ?

You dont need pro basketball shoes when you start basketball

That's againts forum guidelines

Start yes...your old self will thank you for it...just approaching and getting rejected can grow you...

Because self is not material or can be seen

To love ?

Being the strongest i dont know about that but being able to fight is really important and having capacity to defend yourself and others you care about...thats why monks started to practice martial arts they saw that being just spirtual is not enough they got used and robbed often...

@flowboy Interesting , if you are in some position of authority you should automatically start to behave like a fake nice person and not tell people how it is...in dating expecially if you dont shake someone badly they wont wake up i mean he said hes struggling and if he continues doing what hes doing it will get worse...my posts triggered you because you have work to do...i was in his position and still working on stuff i said so i know where hes at....self respect,self love and knowing what you want and stay behinde it no matter what, not having scarecity mindset is what i told him to have....and telling people to give up their position is not nice withouth knowing my intentions...

@Cepzeu im really sarcastic person but here im really not ??....ok she opened up a convo for open relationship because its already a high chance shes sleeping with someone and you are not doing it for her...you like her more then she likes you..."im open to whatever she wants for herself" thats a really bad one you putting her above you and you are willing to disrespect yourself and do whatever she wants so you can keep relationship going thats saying alot to her and she cant respect you or want you...you are her simp thats why she didnt call it quits but keep you around...you are not willing to walk away like you said it...if you had a self respect you would dump her the second she brough that open relationship stuff up...kill the beta inside you or it will kill you tnx for reading...

@Cepzeu theres so much work that you need to do based on what you wrote there that i feel you will negate everything i say because thats how it works

Core problem is the belief that he thinks hes not worthy

So much delusion packed in one post i cant even start it hurts ?

@InterruptReQuest let me know if you find something,what i wanted to open your eyes that if you heal trauma in 2,3 years thats really fast imo...

Several years is nothing, ive been healing from bullying for a decade and still has an impact here and there but million times better...

I had "bad" symptom of what you talking about its not even funny having that and to deal with girls...

@OctagonOctopus i dont really know i assume its different experience,like i said lucid dreaming is like having virtual reality on your head while astral(i imagine) is that you have a body and movement like you have now in your human form ?‍♂️ now i remember i had one astral projection(for 10sec) but it was blury and i couldnt go through the roof with my body haha another time for 5 seconds where some creature immeditely attack and hit me so it made me twitch and i woke up ? it was different than lucid

@Preety_India You got it all wrong im not saying that you shouldnt approach women im saying that automatically man approaching a women says that shes above you and if you are not aware of that you will continue to put her as a prize and start doing stupid stuff to prove yourself...you projecting not knowing male psychology ive studied female psychology so much that you would be disgusted ? dont want to argue you have your stuff i have mine...

@StarStruck you started to like her more than she likes you so she put that shit test to see what you made of and you saying that like a nice guy made her pull back(thats all my theory) from that i wouldnt text her 5 to 7 days...but you do you...