

NoSelfSelf
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This is great actually dont change it! You only need to know how to read and asses people by learning how different peole are,seeing patterns which comes with experience with dealing with people etc.
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@Gianna Everyone has their own "game" they are playing on another to get what they want...but i understand what you are saying didnt want my man patrick get the wrong idea....
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@Gianna If guy wants sex and wants it on second date its great if shes not up to that then he should find another girl not trying to take her "seriously" only making him jump through hoops and give unecessary effort in the situation ? he leads if he wants sex and shes not up to that then on to another no playing into her games(if you noticed im biased towards male perspective ?)...
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Complicated...it seems to me that you didnt know what to do with this girl not clear in your intention just hoping something will happen, if you do something(take her here do something there)mybe something will come... focused on the girl too much instead of focusing on yourself your vibe and direction you wanna lead to ...this is all part of experience its not ill do any better ?...
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NoSelfSelf replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This is so tricky because realization who you are in present moment makes it stick there are no steps only how much your mind is truthful will help you see it so seeing that you dont know anything helps but wont make it stick you will only get some flashes of conciousness.... -
Where i would look for that is from rsd luke he specialize social circle didnt study his stuff but im sure its a great place to get the info...
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@Michael Jackson You know what you doing but you think we dont know and you are acting like nothings happening so ignore that and keep on going stop replying and making a drama out of nothing and we cool...
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@SamC You have to be with a girl that turns you on thats it..thats why appearence is important imo if she doesnt turn you on then things wont work out ?♂️
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I had bad experiences where mod bans for minor thing and doesnt care... in this case times you out for 20min then if you want a clarification why he did it he adds another 20min just for me asking about it, it can really be awful ?
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I mean i dont wanna be harsh but you wrote this like you took a walk with a dog and described it in most unpassionate way possible ? thats my take on it put in some passion man! probably in sex too...it sounds mechanical and dry...i could have wrote it with more compassion haha ?♂️ And great job man not for having sex but for becoming better at dating etc.
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@Kid A Yeah you get your own idea how it should be than how it actually is!
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Are you learning from your refrences? You take alot of action but beware if you dont adjust to the reality you wont get much resaults...if 40 chicks said there is no chemistry that means its something in your vibe that is turning them off something you are saying not chemistry...
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I could only assume you havent find your value and know how to demonstrate that value...I mean its too complex thing to just say what is it...
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@somegirl ohhh...that sucks i hate that using the power in male/female dynamic where there is no win win so its lose lose...
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Try pming also
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@somegirl Classic problem of desires he wasnt using you... and treating you like his potential gf but you wanted to and felt hurt and in your mind had a movie that wasnt reality because of catching feelings ?...
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@Michael Jackson Not really its all over the place referring to the title and be careful with your tone....
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Game never ends! Scared of other guys because your game is not great What girl would go for a another guy if you have amazing game doesnt make sense...
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@bloomer focused on yourself mean you are going to talk to girls because you want to not influenced by somone or i should be talking to girls...further more when approaching you dont come to them to get them you come to them being yourself showing them what you are all about and if they would like it and not manipulating if you want just sex you should push that not having some secret agenda... No its not gaslighting you just dont see how its not about yourself because you put them beyond yourself...
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NoSelfSelf replied to Jahmaine's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Mission acomplished -
It means putting yourself first! your actions,thoughts,emotions wants are coming together you are not trying to get people you are true to yourself... Analogy:you play with your toys and you are so focused on it that nothing else matter and you are having fun in your world and now other people want to join your world and when they are in your world they play by your rules because you are most attractive when you focused on yourself only... Game is not for her game is for your own self is good saying...
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So he wasnt clear from the start that hes only interested in sex and nothing serious?
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Thats a pure torture and waste of time and energy dont let her beauty pull you in so hard treat this as something fun nothing serious my opinion...
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NoSelfSelf replied to Tudo's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Depends on your level of conciousness at 0,7 it was hard ? -
@Illusory Self Only critique i have is that you texted her with would great to see you sometime soon(unsure asking for approval) you dont do that every text has to have purpose behinde it this one is just lowering your value so if you gonna say that set a date... Doesnt make sense if you vibed and she doesnt wanna see you mybe something was missing i dont know try look situations with the eyes where you put emotions and attraction to the side...