NoSelfSelf

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  1. Cut those people out of your life and make room for someone that values you!
  2. Why do you care if he didnt respond it means hes not the person you are looking for simple as that...is good to be vurnable but trauma bonding is not for everyone...
  3. @aurum Becoming friends? Thats worst possible advice you could have given.... so manipulative making yourself so below her and wasting your time and energy 3 big nos of the game?
  4. @whoshearts She showed you what she is if you looking for relationship then 100% move on nothing to sort out here shes not for what you want...
  5. @whoshearts Cool but she will do to you what she did to her bf you cant never trust her if you still wanna... go ahead ?
  6. Evil is everything that doesnt serve you! but rather damage your self agenda the more damage to your self agenda the more you(ego)call it evil!
  7. @Someone here I mean it wont work because of social anxiety start small then ? lol that what they want you to believe they are sexual alright my friend...
  8. You tried 2 times try 100 then see if its not working every girl you see have had sex with a guy soon rather than later...
  9. Things exist only if you think it exist..thats how mind is.... everything mind produces is taken to be true and then you say i experienced it like that...stuff happens only if your mind tells you without that theres no human experience...
  10. At the end of the day you have to do both and why put happiness on anything happiness is happiness materialistic pursuits are materialistic pursuits.
  11. If thats my girlfriend i would told them have a nice evening and just left or just leave without saying anything... She doesnt feel danger of losing you then this things happen.. Basically told you in drunk state how she views you sober for some reason dont know the whole picture so cant tell for sure...
  12. I would say Mr.Locario and guys he works with but they are pro masculine and judgmental wont go holistic in that area but they will go deep in the game side...
  13. @Preety_India 100% not the problem is always a red flag even if im 100% right im sure im contributing at least 5-10% to the problem at least ?‍♂️ Even if im gonna give million dollars to people ill make problems ?
  14. @Preety_India its pointless to give you advice at this point because you never see yourself as a problem(this is self development not global development) and ofcourse we will assume stuff its on you to see if its applys to your life or it does not..immedietly attacking someone and having triggered attitude is a problem that nobody want to deal with if you cant see that then we cant help you..
  15. Do you understand what would happen to this forum if there are no censoring ?
  16. @Preety_India then something you are doing is turning them off look back and see when did they start losing interest and see the pattern
  17. You need to look for compatibility right from the start and looking for your type of people that wont drain you it seems to me you are finding people just for the sake of finding them and for sake of socializing...
  18. What do you say to them and how do you behave around them? I dont get why they are laughing ? maybe you present yourself to be someone you are not...
  19. Shes using you for attention think about it if she asked you for a date would you say hmm mybe we should talk more on here ? if shes attractive as you say and shes moving the strings(making you to wait) she will put you in a place of a loser she can have her way with...tell her this its nice talking with you and we had some funny exchanges text me when you are willing to grab some drinks with me (have a nice day)..then never text her again in your life... If she says something else just dont respond...
  20. @John Iverson If hes gonna game your girl and shes okay with that then shes not your girl accept that.. In this situation she wasnt okay with that and he coming there didnt seem jealous or anything imo... Its a good test to see what type of a girl she is... You never go there to do something you think would be good to do like fight him etc. you do what you wanna do and usually just chilling and like that guy move her from the guy if necessary...