NoSelfSelf

Hows higher self not also an ego ?

@Jannes You are lying dude ? you dont have sucess with girls@flowboy just told you the truth and you went in defensive talking about society and stuff and what you should be for a girl cmon ?

Im curious why do you think women are some angelic force that is so above you that they control what you should be doing?

@Ingit Bottom line is you dont like yourself so why would a girl like you? so you push her away...overly dependant on a woman not dependant on yourself! thats the root issue... As long as you dont become the person you are meant to be and become no1 person in your life source of everything and that woman is only a desert in your life this will repeat...

Dude you have no game!look what you are saying all in your feelings ?

@Razard86 what a mindfuck you just sent me ? i hope i wont be like that when i got the game you got...

1.Not being a freethinker,trapped in societies,parents,authority world to the point you dont know who you are and what to think,following everyone but yourself...really hard to do takes alot of energy thats why its an easy trap 2.Using self help to avoid failure and pain not seeing that pain and failure is best form of self help(supplemented with knowledge second to experience) 3.Trap of self confirming bias-just confirming what you already know in your own way and not expanding opening mind you think you already know 4.Paradigm problem you use information that dont suit your own paradigm and your needs but using information because its a best new thing (its exapnsion of point 1.) Stage orange person using stage turqouise insights and pretending he is above his level losing years instead of working on his level to get to next level...losing years of life working on things that is not for you at that time 5.Trying to help people and despretly making them think deeply and losing alot of time making them grow instead making yourself grow.. 6.Like point 2 using spirituality as a way to avoid fear,pain,dissapointment not seeing thats necessary to grow... 7.Creating a false self instead of being authentic self using self help as a way to be something you are not instead of turning self help knowledge tailored to your own settings(computer refrence) 8.Making stuff about other people instead of about yourself...reason you fail is you not seeing this. . working on yourself not possible as long problem is out there(Red pill,gender wars example for dating) 100% accountability everything else you wont grow 9.Quick fixes-Whats the fastest way,whats the thing i should do to make it work not seeing you have to become student of that thing its like asking how to speak Japanise tell me one tip and tommorow ill speak it...meditating 20 minutes in few months expecting enlightment 10.Coming full circle you have to be your own unique individual with your own vision your own ways of being self help could easily make you biased towards their ways the ways of the guru and a teacher so being really mindful of where hes taking me whats his agenda and does it serve my path and my own way...you could start thinking your unique path is wrong based on someones teaching but mybe its a right thing to do FOR YOU! and its on you to see it.

@Razard86 Im saying I AM the game so that means that im the one that uses strategy I created IM playing game with myself not playing games with a woman! If you think about woman you are already losing its all about you and what you gonna do,how you gonna move in your way and show her yourself that you created and discovered for yourself not her! Where 99% of "game" online is what should guy do for her what technique should he use to get her what way hes going to manipulate her not seeing that hes abondining himself and not running his game hes running someone elses game in his mind being a sheep and like you said guys think girls are stupid they can smell it they cant see they are the problem because they dont build themselves they try to build game to cover up their own problems which you can fake for few months and then what?...

@Preety_India If they seek control then they are narcissistic, man doesnt want control he tells you how things are and who he is , then its on you if you wanna follow it,if he forces it on you after you dont want to follow it then run thats not a man thats an insecure control maniac! @Razard86 playing games is lower form of game theres bigger levels its like enlightment understood by the mind is lower and being enlightened is higher you dont see that you are using game to get women(already losing) instead you being the game its all about you it gets connected with spirituality...

@Razard86That saying doesnt make sense to me why would someone with game play games ?

@Preety_India i know answer for myself but wanna see other perspective what does man get from her being dependent on him why do you think man needs dependcy from her?

@Preety_India What does a man depend on the woman im curious?

@Razard86 if you see it clearly how would you say where does game begins and ends?

Best thing i read in this whole subforum

@Razard86 its not like you are hiding it from her, like if she finds out its over,you just dont need to tell her stuff that doesnt serve any purpose out of the blue...some stuff she doesnt need to know and some she can find out when time is right...

@Roy exactly!

@Razard86 Mind aswell tell her then that she doesnt exist and that her relationahip with her mother is same as a coffe table ?

You dont need to say it i dont see why would you tell that...

You are still manipulating while trying to be masculine for a woman she can see that wont work, whole paradigm is bad from the start...

https://youtu.be/5N9xARPfJYY Simple stupid you are not brain because what you are is not material and something thats not attached to anything you are like space...

Because you dont get turned on and off by the womans texting doesnt matter to you girl loves texting and good texts becuase it turns on their emotions thats why they read those romantic books...

@Weltesche because you are asking me about it and ego is important part of getting enlightened only thing that blocks the vision of awareness is ego attachment...

@Chrisd Nobodys talking about it they assume others have same conciousness level to see what they see but their ego will determen how much and how things will be shown to them..

@Weltesche pls quote me and others in replys so i see it...you could go that route but you will go through real hell to change thats why not many do it..getting into higher states makes your suffering less and less and withouth suffering its easier to change your disfunctional ways of beings...

@Weltesche ego can be changed but theres no you to change it program of ego changes with experiences and level of conciousness its really messy process because it fights againts changed...