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@Breakingthewall thats a recipe for a girl to run game on you there is nothing up to a chance alot of wasting time and being a doormat followong what you said... @aurum i said something more deeper than that you missed the whole point ? and getting laid alot doesnt mean you have game i mean you can have alot of money how did you get it? Selling drugs ?

Amazing points! Where you are losing is making it about her ,doing those things for her and not what you wanna do and express...thats why you are needy and feeling like you need to go above and beyond for her because you feel lucky to have her(focus on her)... Invest in your attractivness and share it with her (like you are doing)... You have great points but mindset is not good even tho you are winning you are losing...

@Realms of Wonder Yeah shes influenced by who you are in that moment if you manipulate you are losing because trying to hit the jackpot aka being needy and desperate? @Thought Art Point is to see different perspectives because i think this is the best one...

Why is she beautiful you dont know her ?

@human679 First clue is stop being something for a woman be it for yourself otherwise you will always be needy and worship woman...

You have already lost by this thinking anything you go foward will be short term and fail...

@Rubywoo Please leave that guy alone before he falls in love...

Game is not about woman game is about the man his own universe and creation you do it for yourself not a woman... When you stop gaming you stop your growth basically... For your situation you should have told her at the beggining you will date multiple woman and see if shes okay with that if not move on... But if you have game(im not talking about manipulating pick up game) you will have woman wanna be with you even tho there are multiple ones...

How does selfishness ruin you life exactly?

Your inner game is bad because you talk weak to yourself simple as that focusing on IOIS,rejection,woman 3 typical strikes and killer of you!

It depends what works for you i used it before in sports and really helps but its toxic and burns you out now i pace myself and work on me and gradually make it harder and harder.. Feels good to know im the driver not others in what im doing...

@Aleister Crowleyy Men dont care about other men...

@IamYou half truth that wont lead to absolute truth and you hitting wall over and over again ?

What if there is no author but only article being made?

Its possible for the one who believes ?

@Someone here there you go yes! thats Game and reason you cant get laid ?

@Someone here Thats not what i was saying but i agree

One of the biggest mindfucks is finding out that every knowledge was just a perspective from the book author in schools etc. You thinking you have the truth by memorizing the information is a joke ? you think you can get the truth by thinking is a joke i think i wasted 10 years of my life with that ?

@Mulky Nooo dude thats what you thinking...its has nothing to do with woman if you think that you are done you wont go nowhere just a fake front of a male...

@Someone here Yep you define yourself and probably through your own understanding you will realize that you cant do stuff withouth being tough so you have to be one because you have it in you to beat the odds and the game of life if you can beat it ? But becoming a man because of others and what you get will never make you one it will always make you feel weak but you dont like it...(beating a dead horse by now)

@Mulky Then idea of getting cheated and used by a woman is just an idea when it happens just make sure to say its just an idea and move on doing what you doing ?

@Someone here you are not a man,you are a guy...dick doesnt make you a man ?... See the way you are typing shows you are not a man...man doesnt care about social norms and what they tell you to do... Main challenge ? you made it look so easy there...man picks his challenges that are the worst for him to grow... Man is defined by his actions and if you dont like work then dont do it not everyone is made up to be a man... Shedding old fashioned ideas of masculinity lmao you should embrace them Those are loser friends you need to lose.... Then dont retrain them but dont expect the benefits of being a man... You want the benefits without work wont work... First step to be a man is to communicate with yourself by finding your own voice and shutting down voices of everyone else...

@Someone here You are not a man,thats your first problem if you think you are something you are not you cant become it... Depends of where does it come from do you need that family or you want that family around you... If you depend on family as identity,support,validation,care what they think about you,trying to impress them then you are not a man... Thing is if culture said that you should protect family and that what man should do then you are not a man... Man stand on his own morals and principles thats why there are such few real man around...

Many ways to describe it...one that i like is being a constant.... meaning nothing moves you from the core of who you are and what you are about.... Second that really helps hes all about himself not a follower but a creator he influence others.... Its all a mindset game man is a strong set of mindsets and rules he follows for himself...

@Jannes Cool congrats!