NoSelfSelf

I read between the lines, im not surface level,im looking at things beyond whats being said. I dont need you to explain me things.

Im saying that if women found you sexually attractive in general then this queastion wouldnt matter.If a woman is acting differently then how they normally act and its not your everyday occurence, then its a possibility of them seeing you as a target for something.Im not saying for this situation since i need more information.

You are asking that because you know you are not sexually attracted to women in general,so beware of women who are foward like that, i wouldnt be surprised its agenda driven.

Because you are not focused on yourself.You should be busy making things happen with a woman progressing things further rather than men.Because you are not focused on yourself, you then place women in your mind above yourself, then you are reacting to things you have no control over.From that point you have mindsets that are based on feelings which causes judging yourself based on those feelings.

This is low quality thread,add some subtance or it will be locked.

All im saying dont look to fall in love and dont look for a woman to fall in love with you,other than that its on you to seek what you want to get and state it,but making sure you are of value.I hate when regular guy demands things from women while being nowhere of value.Power shifts when value exchange is higher ,so who gives more value can demand more.

This shows why love is conditional and falling in love is a foolish idea.Falling in love is for women by recieving things.Yeah transactional doesnt mean material,it can be for example spenting time,that's why its called spenting time,giving attention its all a currency.

Realest thread in years.

You are mixing situations topics i like to stay in one lane to finish...

So you can get rid of a woman you fell in love with? If answer is yes then you are 100% right.

I dont know how can you be logical and objective if you fall in love with a woman,if you have that talent go for it.

Im telling you how it is when its stripped away from the fairy tale of love and feelings.Its transactional and if you wish to get things in return be of value,have structure,instructions for your vision.If you want it to be on random by following feelings,love then logic and strategy fails just wait for it to unfold ,without asking queastions why this happened or that since love and feeling are unpredictable.

You must be clear on your expectations of her,dating is a process to see does she fit into your vision. You must plant the seeds to communicate what you like and dont like,how you live and what you want.In a way that is not forcing. You dont force her to give you things,she will give it based on how she sees you and your influences. You give at all times, but if she doesnt follow instructions on your expectations of her, choices she makes on her own, then shes not for you. So she will give based on who you are and some of them just dont give at all so you choose if thats okay. Ofcourse its not you just giving "love" is conditional,unconditional love is for yourself.

This is really complex topic it takes alot of time to become aware. Mind will always create problems no matter who you are so its about active thinking and not just reacting. At this point its really tough to explain that inner direct experiences, its like one cant explain it clearly, its key to see it for yourself.How you see it is on you.

Have undying spirit ,there is no doubt in your mind that you can go through this.Keep building it,mind of matter matra.That's all you have control over use it, you got this!