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I understand. I still look into going travelling now and again, I have these sudden urges to drop everything and travel. But that in itself seems a problem to me. I’d feel like I was escaping something.

@VictorB02 how old are you? I’ve been thinking about doing the same, but now I’m 30 I also wonder if it’s too late for travelling around. My fear is that although it’ll be fun and exciting, I’d always have to come back home and start again. I might grow as a person but I could just grow internally at home. Inner game won’t be fixed by being in a different country. I could be wrong. I’ve got friends that have gone travelling and they always come back happier people

What works for me is simply leaving my phone in my car after work. Not even having my phone in the house. During the day I use it, but when I get home I’m done. You’ll have a few hours to do other things and you won’t get distracted. When I look at my phone the next morning there’s usually not much I’ve missed.

You must admit, that there is a lot of shit on this forum too. When this forum first started there were some great questions being asked. Now it seems to be dumbed down a bit...

There's so much more to life than relationships. These young dudes are lost in a fog of internet and porn - which makes them think about women constantly. When you mature a bit more you realise how pathetic it all is, and that there's much more to life. In a way being young sucks because you don't know any better, and chances are their father is clueless too.

If the internet didn’t exist, this black pill victim shit wouldn’t exist. Everyone’s getting on with life, and they don’t fall for this crap. Take a week away from the internet and see how you feel. You’ll probably forget most of the ideologies that you’ve accumulated. Go outside and do other things. Take your mind completely off women and the unfairness of life. Genetics is something you ain’t gonna get around. You have to accept it and move forward.

People who are all talk but cannot listen. Fascinating but seriously annoying.

I know this is an old post, but I recommend you never even start drinking caffeine beverages. It feels good at first and it does make you feel alert, but after a while you will experience burnout. Then you will rely on caffeine to get through the day. Then you will realise you need to stop but you struggle because you're addicted. I've struggled with caffeine addiction for years now and I wish I could stop. I've tried going a while drinking only water, then I get a bored, flat feeling and I feel like a cup of coffee would elevate that feeling and it does to a point, but then I'm addicted to caffeine again. I seriously wish caffeine never existed in the first place, but here we are. Some asshole goat herder had to start this shit off. Caffeine and coffee exist because we are working too much and not sleeping enough. If we all worked less and got decent sleep there would be no need for caffeine.

Fearlessness, humour, resilience, courage, and strength. Some men are born with this, other men have to learn it.

That being said, why suffer needlessly? We’ve got it soooo good these days, so much freedom. Why complain about it? We should be celebrating the fact that life isn’t as hard as it was 100 years ago…

There’s literally no resilience these days with kids. They can’t handle criticism, they spend more time online than in real life, they look up to the wrong people, their parents are probably clueless but powerless too. Everyone living their lives digitally cannot be a good thing. As helpful as the internet is, it is not real life. The things that put hairs on your chest are things that happen in real life.

I would probably end up joining

Ask him - “why haven’t you got any humour?”

Ask him - “why are you so miserable?”

Not just YouTube, the whole internet will toxify your mind Try not looking at a screen for a week and see what happens

Right… Scotland… is there the same amount of beautiful women walking about on the streets as London? No. The bigger the city, the better for learning how to get better with women. So yeah, obviously Scotland is cheaper to live than London.

With prostitutes, yes With mentally stable women, no

This is laughable. What borough of London were you living in? Tower Hamlets? Even Tower Hamlets you pay something like £1000 a month for a room in a shared house with a bunch of misfits. The cost of living in London is fucking outrageously expensive. A lot of people have to work 2 jobs simply to pay the rent and bills. To live in London comfortably you need to be earning at least £80k a year, and good luck with that… Obviously if you want to become a player with the ladies then you’re gonna have to move to London. Towns in the UK like where I live at the moment nobody talks to each other unless you’re with family or friends. Meeting new people in a town is difficult

@Butters how old are you dude?

Yep, most guys aren’t gonna be wearing a top hat and wear a fur coat. It might gain attention from people, but it makes you look a bit silly.

I do understand that approaching is important, it clearly puts hairs on your chest. It takes balls to do it. Yeah you’re right about Mystery and all the other top PUA teachers, they either had a shit childhood or some other serious issue underneath. I used to like Tom Torero and he was getting laid like a rockstar - only to then commit suicide a few years ago. This just tells me that even if you are banging hundreds of chicks it doesn’t mean you’re mentally sound.

100% agree. It’s like, if you feel good about yourself and your life and you love life every single day then that is SO attractive. If I was a woman I would find that attractive. Why do 4670073 approaches in the street if you can master inner Game and love your life?

Don’t ya think it’s funny how most men never need to learn this stuff? Most men never need to learn PUA techniques or all that shit

Buddhist rats? What does he mean by that?

By asshole I mean a confident guy that has humour and thinks he’s the shit. This is what men respect, this is what women get wet over To me, frame just means you’re an awesome guy that everyone likes, has something he’s really in to, has a passion for something, especially if it’s a cool thing. I swear, the more you focus on getting good with women the worse it gets, you constantly focus on getting good with women and you forget about the rest of your life. This is why you do all this when you’re young and dumb. I know men that are good with women but it’s natural to them, they never have to think about it or put much effort in to it, and they don’t have a clue what Pick-up is or need to go on a massive journey to get good with women. In fact, most men never have to go through the ‘pick-up phase’ because it’s fucking weird. Over here in the UK approaching 4000 women on the streets or in bars is fucking weird.