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@BlessedLion I decided I'm out too. I'm done with the Forum. I've seen all tge development towards wackness too, you nailed it in your text. At this point I visited the Forum only for cringe. Time for something new. @all poka poka

Blyad, you are truely an idiot who thinks he is clever

Amen. Just what I pointed out one year ago. The higher the monkey climbs, the more it shows it's tail.

Don't listen to the other guy. Accept your desire to want to talk to these girls and what else not. If you feel like you need to be better for doing that, then improve. What it is you find out in overcoming the problem. Don't make it harder as it is.

@Spiral Wizard bra, consider "doing shit like this" is rediculous -- and you are cheering to this nonesense

I know the pain. Just don't let them do it. Undermine their action until they are halfway reasonable. If they want to leave you pressure them to go even quicker, then walk in front of the pack... Ohhh wait, I have forgotten something.. you get the idea. Or you play into their fear and make them go even earlier. Make only sure you don't come with them. WHAT you are ONLY 8h before departure at the airport? Oookay, if you feel comfortable with it... Haha. Have fun.

please don't infer from you to others I would change the forum rules, to prevent such nonsense threads in the future

You read this "wisdom" in a Pickup Forum from the early 2000s? Instruction unclear, I ignore 99.9% of women, but get no results. Please give more Insights.

Wow. This is all hard. You do so good, but cannot earn a decent living?! Is it like this: Younger people compete over the rare good jobs? Reminds me of India, only India is even harder.. People with a masters degree in CS can hold a job. Meanwhile in Germany people hire anyone who can code hello world - Love to hear that!))

Happy to hear that! Only one thing: A Psychiatrist is someone who gives you drugs. I recommend you to see a Psychotherapist and talk it all through. Maybe even join a group therapy. It may seems tedious, but it's the real deal. Drugs are not the real deal. They can help in very severe conditions as a first aid to get you going wirt therapy - that's it. Every treadment has it's place.

... which developed because of biological differences. I hear this all the time, but I still don't understand it. Spectrum - doesn't that simply mean do what you want? And I don't see even Conservatives in the West holding anyone back. You might don't call yourself non-binary, you are just a dominant Woman in her relationship.. Instead of just doing what everyone desires for themself they talk abstract ideology from Universities they have not studied deeply..

this thread in a nutshell:

I had to smile at the part with the Patriarchy. Ahaha

@CARDOZZO Brat, I praise you for your posts cuz you share worthwhile stuff. Let's talk about specifics. The biggest learning for me is to let women be how they are. To not want to change / improve them. They will grow on their own with love. Also, a woman may has different goals and viewpoints than the man in a romantic relationship. This is not wrong, it has to be that way. Why fight against reality? I found even if I succeeded in making her improve I drove her away, and rightfully so, I'm so happy I finally learned the lesson. An important corolary rule. Without boundaries the whole relations would not work. A woman wants EVERYTHING of a man. Time, Attention - but the man has to have an Agenda so the woman feel valued if she get's some of it. If the woman get's everything very easily, you drive her away and it's right cuz she needs someone with a purpose, not a slave pet human. Law of attraction?

@mr_engineer Do you want to achieves some of your goals to get ready for serious dating? You've been with a woman casually I suppose.

This is what I suggested yesterday. How old are you roughly?

You have to start your Singer/Songwriter Career - the first Album will be called "Lacan, Cazuza and me"))

Interesting! Very. For fresh perspectives like this I keep lurking arround in the forum. I always thought that in Middle East the Women is not supposed to earn more. Which country you life in? Are the men feeling bad cuz of this or are they just happy to have such a woman as partner? What are examples of the jobs of men and women? Why is it like that - men are less educated?

This escalated fast. When it comes to women everyone is a expert. We all should look at our younger self before trashing @mr_engineer . @mr_engineer : Please read "The superior Male" from David Deida, comtemplate it and don't let youself getting dragged down by this negativity. Don't ask! Purchase it, read it over the next days and I assure you it'll be worth it's price more than 100,000 times. Doesn't this sounds good?))

Now we getting to the root of the problem. Me, me, me. I want - I need? How about this: What do the Girls want - do you even care?

The Aliens have a open regular table in every major city (just google for it). I stopped meeting them tho, cuz they drink too much alcohol.

Of course, you have to appear safe and interesting. I just assume that you don't want to harm anyone (haha), so the thing is how you project that? You socialize a lot, without wanting something immediately beside communication. Go to places you like regularly, over time you get familiar with other people who go there. I for example go 4 times a week to a nearby forest and it's becoming a scene of people I'd never normally talk to. People much older (50-80+) or younger (0-20), people with dogs, women riding horses, people enjoying nature and collecting food in the forest like berries of mushrooms... over time you meet organically women you like. It's much more rewarding to me, even though it's indirect and takes longer. But if you 'get a match' it's usually a pretty good one. You need do find out what it is for you - the Gym, a Club, a inner City place, concerts at a certain place, nature... Cuz chances are you sit on your computer and phone too much which makes you too weird IRL and the women feel rightfully repelled by it. It's a feature, not a bug. You have growth to do and then you get girls as a bonus among other things)

@tuku747 Talk is cheap, go do it for 20 years.

Mathematics is a very worthwhile tool-set (financially), which is increasingly harder to get. So to me it's the other way around. If someone is very good at higher Mathematics, then the probability of the person being a genius increases. We pay good for it, but most people hate on Math after High School. So 'we value math' is a arbitrary statement. Yes we do, but not so that they all say: YEES, this is the most important thing to learn for a majority of people. There is a constant need for people who are good at math.

yikes edit: On the other hand no one would care for a relativistic quote. At the very least it makes you think