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@sarapr @Serotoninluv @Outer @Joseph Maynor We have to go way deeper into Epistemology and Ontology. Of course from a perspective of an ego, because everything beyond would be senseless. 1. Is there some reality to observe? (I would say yes) 2. Can we observe it as real as it is? (I would say no, but we can observe it to different degrees) If you say No/No I would like to ask you about this: How is it possible to write a sentence on a piece of paper, drop it and go away... AND someone you did not know find it and read what you wrote?

@Marinus I tell you what. I'm the same. One on One is my style of communication. The more people, the less clever is the conversation usually. Of course, there are exceptions to this rule. There are Teams that are kind AND effective. But that is not normal. Most of the time it's more about who is who in the hierarchy and not about getting shit down. It appears that I'm more sensitive or driven. If there are too many people I shut off for protection. The school was obviously not easy for me... I thought that I was the odd one. If someone had told me I could have trained to cope with that years ago... Because this was what I did later. I went in demanding social situations. Now I can tolerate it, but it drains my energy so I try to sneak around meetings (monthly work meetings are the worst). This is what you should aim for: A little better every week.

@brugluiz Hello brugluiz. Before start I would advice you to pursue something else as a business. I would also drop cold-approach because it does not work. You still want it? Let's dive in. There are some things that I can tell you now -- and you don't want to hear them:) 0. You practice the cold-approach. While it's a useful technique to learn, it's hard and brutal. That is the equivalent of a huntsman back in the days who hunts the prey down - and even he wouldn't do this every day. And as the huntsmen had the chance he dropped the spear and the bow and did something more save. You do it because you have absolutely no other options. What do you think about this metaphor? I frame it as a bad mindset. Think about it. There is a deep truth in this. 1. Let's think about your future success. You rocked a approach with some canned material a 10 HB and you got laid (too much slang:D). Everything is perfect. I guarantee you right now you have to pay for it. Money, Time, Nerves or Health. Nothing comes for free. Be prepared. You'll face serious problems:) (For further understanding Read 'Way of the superior man' from Richard Deida) 2. Pick-Up Artists rule at approach, ONS and STR. They tend to suck in the LTR. Why is that? All the wrong girls will respond to your techniques. I assume because you're here in this forum that you're more interested in sophisticated topics. While I don't know nothing about you, me and my friends don't want to go to the club or some shallow art-crap with our GFs every week to show off. But you attract mostly that girls that want shallow action with that technique. You'll have to pay your dues. It's maybe interesting in the short run, but you'll get exhausted as a books-person. That's why it is likely not a good way to create a LTR for you. And your clients. Even if you get a LTR it is likely to be not one that is suited for your needs. You ape a different personality... (Read 'The Truth' from Style a.k.a. Neil Strauss) 3. You said that you are often in your mind, which you can cure to some degree with sport, healthy food and meditation. But did you ever considered that this is a feature and not a bug? I can't be in a club without a good dose of alcohol, but this may differ according to your location. This is why I don't go there. I find that night clubs are temples for unhealty habits of all kinds. You'll meet unhealthy people who will advocate that their bad lifestyle is cool. Everything is upside down. This is how it has to be in order to make fun, but they'll assimilate you like the Borg if you let your guard down. You are maybe one from a different kind. I say socialize more to make yourself (and your students better), but focused highly on study and career (see also point 4 and 5). You'll thank me later:) 4. Whatever you want to do - learn a real craft besides it. A real craft is anything that is very hard to learn and maybe boring and that is guaranteed to bring you money in the mundane world. You wanna be a PUA? Do it. But learn to make your own website, accounting, social media advertising. You can make a apprenticeship in the health industry (teach your clients what they should eat and why). All of this can rescue you when your business is down. Bottom Line: Everyone want to be a Artist nowadays, so where do you would assume the most competition? Mark Twain once said if you are on the side of the majority, that you are likely to be wrong. If you do the hard tasks you'll get no fame but a lot of money, which means that you can save a lot to boost you 'real business' idea. Everyone loves the people which do the obligatory boring tasks efficient. You are guaranteed to get a job - even in a serious crisis. (I took most of it from Aaron Clarey) 5. Be on the run. Miles Davis survived 30+ years in the jazz world (normal was 5), because he changed every 3 years. Adapt to changes and change you style constantly to what is working. Look at the Zeitgeist. Don't stick to what sounds nice. (I took all of that from Robert Greene) 6. You have to make everything in your interaction as organic as possible to make any interaction work (i.e. be fun and / or effective). 7. You'll cause trouble as a side effect of you mission. Try to reduce it as much, but don't compromise the mission. If you want great attraction you'll have to handle strong rejection. This is a law in human relationships. Note: A hookup is not your mission. I mean the pursue of Truth.. cya

@ajasatya Boy, I achieved Enlightenment the hard way. I had to go like 7 times a week to the china restaurant to get enough fortune cookies. And now you shit on me as I point out the real and only way? "Be on the lookout for coming events; They cast their shadows beforehand." "You will marry your loved one." "A good way to keep healthy is to eat more Chinese food." "If winter comes, can spring be far behind?" You see. Thats just the tip of the iceberg!! lol.

@Marinus No. I and maybe you think too much. And too quick. People tend to don't understand my thought process well because they a. haven't had the same experience and b. are unfocused. For you is it stupid obvious stuff that 1+1=2. Sometimes it helps to dumb yourself down when you are with people... You have to adapt to your circumstances. On the other hand you can take it literally. Many people are just bored and like to make some fun.. @Charlotte I disagree. Maybe it's like that for you, but not for me. @ajasatya While it's true, it's so wack to spit out these wise one-liners. You waste your talent. Go write fortune-cookies @Shin This is gold. @Psyche_92 It's not that great if you have no choice. If he goes now straight to loneliness he's likely to get bitter and resentful. But I agree that solitude is so good.

My friend, you seem to make yourself a lot of pressure, which is normal. Most people DON'T get to know new people, because they stay with the old friends. This is a real skill to develop. This was a big problem for me. I was into reading books about all kind of things - starting with 1000+ pages fantasy novels. I don't know anything about your school, but back then was 'Harry Potter', 'Star Wars' and 'Lord of the Ring' very unpopular. Everyone even the teachers thought reading and fantasy especially was crazy. To them I was crazy. Every time I was bored, which was constantly, I grabbed a book. I read in school between classes. In class I read all books no matter what subject it was because I was so bored. I read at the family party. I read on the run. It was my kind of self-defense. I had always friends, but I was the silent freak in public. I talked to a therapist years later and he, a well read, direct and very intelligent person, told me that I should be ready for a life like that. No one to talk to about what you really care about. With the growing Internet culture it's way better, but in general you may don't have people to talk to in your life. But he gave me some cheat codes, which I want to share with you. 1. That I should listen to podcasts, to substitute worthy conversation. 2. That I generally should bond with people in events (hiking, in class, help someone move to an other flat, protest, make money, do sports). 3. Go find a club. 4. Now the biggest: Talk about stupid shit. That's right. For example your GF takes you to her new friends house. You go like: "Wow, you more like the artist type. I really like that furniture. There is it from?" or you say obvious stuff like "We need an other chair" or "We are 4 people, so we should get comfy in the car". Verbalizes some thoughts.. 5. Don't take everyday conversation serious. If someone asks what was your day like, you DON'T tell him about you reading on this topic. Rant about that your internet connection is too slow or something, show a little bit of emotion. 6. There is a time for anything. Don't be too smart on a party where everyone makes consciously stupid jokes. The reality seems to be that most people want just to goof off, nothing inherently wrong about it, but this is not my way. So it COULD be that one part of your alienation is that you are just not like other people (too intelligent, too introverted, to much social anxiety, whatever), but If you acknowledge that.. you do better because you have different demands on you. Less Pressure. Generally is socializing a strange thing. You loose money, time and nerves. But you need it from time to time and it gives you some of the most precious moments in life. Laughing. Meet a really interesting person who is a friend friends brother. Different world views. After all very rewarding I have to say.

Don't stress yourself.

You can find a lot of these on reddit. I don't know what you expect... If you could specify your demand I could give a better answer

Give me proof.

You are welcome. Yes. No. Again... I don't write as a hater. I think (which may be wrong) that I know from where you are coming. Since I was 15 I was around socialists and activists. I read fuckin' Karl Marx and Adorno at 16. I demonstrated. I got vegan at 18. I heard this phrase over... and over... and over... and over. I think we, the west, is far from this. And we're far from being doomed. We have to do work, but we're (if you want to frame it as a we) doing quite good. I mean you can participate in social revolution as a writer. But please not with these cataclysmic stories. There is the bright future I see

Hello Wyatt, I study sociology and started to spread the word. I told a Professor because I would say she's yellow. She is very open minded for new theories. But I have to confess that the general sociology culture in my university is somewhat Blue. There is a group for every believe system. I'm one of the few 'in between', after I've been stuck in one believe system for 2 years. A problem is that many people work unscientific, but frame it as science. At the same time they reject mysticism, yoga, meditation and so on as wack. However, I feel there is a change in the culture. Maybe we'll soon enjoy more yellow science. Thank you for your Input. I'll read Campbell and Manning. I feel that the next western terror regime will be a green one.

I think that's just you opinions on how the future will be (which may be based on facts). I could of course be wrong. If there are so highly plausible, then show me statistical proof that the future will be in any point like you said. You can't. For example + 3 degrees. What if people adapt with technology that isn't developed yet? What if this catastrophe leads to people change their ways? Then would something you think of as bad bring something good. What do you want to imply? If we are too positive, the new 'nazis' will win? No I will not dedicate to the struggle. You make this shit up. Yes, there are bad things and I'll do what I can. But I'll never again concentrate on the bad things like you did in you blog post. The self-righteous Intervention is almost certain to be more harmfull than what we have. Look at Irak. Look at China. Look at Germany (1933-1945). Grindelwalds "For the greater good". I think you can do better with your talent and your drive. Write for the purpose of make things better. I like that. But I feel that these kind of educational pamphlet won't really work outside of a educated clientele. A short example: If they would should everyone the vegetarian due to the unbeatable arguments that it's cheaper, on average healthier and easier to produce (= some translate this to be better for the planet as a whole)

@Erlend K Hey Erlend, congratulations for publishing your first article! Your writing is technically good and I would like to have such a great vocabulary in english. I also have to say that the theme is way to pessimistic, dark and fatalistic in my opinion. Why do you want to write about this? You'll get depressed. Why not change you perspective an look at the good things that also happens? Right, people want to read this. But most of them read this not to change their habits.

@SelfHelpGuy If you don't get of bed to work on your vision, then this is not what you REALLY want to do. You kind of want to do this.. It's as easy as that.

I didn't posted it to insult him. @Feel Good What if some are aware of it but discuss anyway on a lower stage? Now everyone seems to be such an expert in spiral dynamics. I mean in general. I think you are damn right, @Feel Good. But Honestly. Think about the dynamic. "Oh, so you do activities that I interpret as low conscious, means you're on a stage below X. Stop what you do to achieve a higher stage". Again. I think you can't solve a problem on a higher stage as it is. I would like to discuss that further with you in pm by the way. @Cortex Good luck.

@Cortex ...you seem to have the mindset to be a mainstream celebrity! This is not a compliment.

@Alexop The Truth is that it is hard to get paid by delivering soft skills and advice. Most of the coaches I watch needed a minimum of 1 year to accomplish some money.. and they prepared years. Be aware.. So if you want it really bad I suggest you make a website (or a profile) and find interested people on reddit and coach them for free on skype. This'll give you a base

@John Iverson Need more context. Who is she to you? What means numb in this context?

@FakeEnlightenment So what?

What do you think about laying taro-cards or throwing coins for I Ching to 'forcast' the future? I frame that as a tool to boosting your intuition. No more, no less. That you can 'forcast' the future seems to be a hoax from meanstream media or carnival folk.. WHAT DO YOU THINK? I would like to know. And.. do you use Taro or I Ching yourself?

I mean it really in a realistic and positive way, not at all bitter. Sometimes I laugh about how absurd things can be;)

Yeah, you have to deliver truth on the right level so the knowledge it is useful to them. No wonder that they can't value that if you kick randomly different things in rapid speed. But I think also it is true that one has to questioning everything - even what you learned at this website. I can't stress that enough.. I would think about how you can integrate your knowledge without alienating people close to you... I would not make a big thing out of awakening.. except you want to be a public figure or something... After all -- if you are right, then people will come and ask questions by themself

Does anybody knows Supreme Mathmatics? I want to share it with you. Mathmatics got famous due to being used by the Wu Tang Clan. It's a concept that helps the individual to actualize. It is so easy that a 10 year old can learn and use it, but deep enough that you could use it your whole life. There is a keyword for every number from 0 - 9. 1 - Knowledge 2 - Wisdom 3 - Understanding 4 - Culture/Freedom 5 - Power/Refinement 6 - Equality 7 - God 8 - Build/Destroy 9 - Born 0 - Cipher You use that as a tool for difficult situations. For Example: You got to have Knowledge (1) + Wisdom (2) to develope Understanding. This is the base to influence for culture (4) (...) Here is a song from Lord Jamar on Supreme Mathmatics And it goes on! They say that everyone is god, not that there is a external god! It's very spiritual, but I don't want to go in detail now But, as every relatively widespread religion / philosophy, it got some weak spots. It was developed in the racist climate of the US of A in the 60s, which translates into a kind of judo racism against whites that may or may not appropriate any more.. What do you say?

Even as a man with only a moderately healthy vegetarian diet I know the struggle. I feel that it would be ideal to eat only high quality meal. But you gotta be social, aren't ya? I'm the only vegetarian in my family. Only my uncle eats vegetarian because of health issues. Everyone asked questions like "Do you wanna save the animals?" "Do ya think you're better than us?" At first I thought they would be interested and told them what I researched. Turned out they just wanted to make quokes because don't you know that vegetarians are weirdos? In my family are persons that are literally told, that they'll die due to eating to much fat and sugar. Don't think they would change their ways^^ What I did? I just keept it on the same level. Made a much stupider joke on them. And again. And again. Don't take their shit to seriously. Chances are they take their shit not seriously as well but want to make fun. This was years ago. Nobody has a problem with my diet now. They accepted it. Long story short: Don't take it personal, because they don't know what they do, but if they annoy you, be double annoying (in a funny way). Sad but true, but sometimes you can solve problems only on the same level they were created

Hello folks, i'd said some bold things in the past in this forum about what I would and what not. It went not so good. Life Purpose: Build a community with real estate property and it's own economy of teachings and goods. Some kind of a village for artists, that inspires to great work, but also a healthy environment for our future kids. I've basically four sticking points: - finish university (brute force on some papers) - earn a constant income with my skills, which include webdesign, illustration, writing, statistic data analyse, rap, kung fu and yoga. - choose two or three of the above skills to acchieve mastery - and learn every day - create a healthier social circle Question: How can I destroy my distractions? This Journey is so far off from mainstream, that NO ONE of my peers or family gets what I want to create. Greeting SYY PS My Distraction are mostly Internet (Netflix , HBO, Youtube, Music), toxic relationsships or bad habits (alcohol, talk too much - do too little, gossip, read a bunch of books). Basicly not doing the right thing at the right time. I need desperatly a big win