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Hi @Santiago @SFRL @zoey101 Thats right ... Be balanced in treating Her, which means, Do not hurt Her by not giving Her any time or place in Your life, and in the same time do not hurt Yourself by giving up all Your life and activities for Her Drama or selfishness, and be aware that if She wants to be with You that much maybe because She loves You not because She is selfish ( make sure about that !!! ) You did Your part and You gave Her time already last time, Now its time to have a discussion with Her about Her behaviour, When You will be discussing this topic with Her be honest and do not let Her play on Your emotions by Her drama, and remember leaving Her for a duration of time from time to another is healthy thing for You and Her in this relationship, everyone needs space even if You do not have trip ... Have a nice Trip, Without Her Of course Sorry to hear that ...

@NoSelfSelf Some people are looking to be completely selfless in life ( like there is no self ever, No Myself, Yourself, Herself ....etc ) ... and thats impossible

I think it is impossible to achieve the completely selfless state as long as You are a live, in some cases there are benefits of dealing with life from a self perspective ( Not selfish ), and in the other cases there are benefits of dealing with life from a selfless perspective, but it is impossible to be completely selfless in life, ( I am not encouraging anyone to kill Himself or Herself, Do not commit suicide ) Warning, because even when You are using language You are saying Me, He, She, My, Her, His ..... and these about self, So You can not even think, Talk or write without using self. I think the right way to live is a combination of being self in some cases and selfless in other cases, and that will be beneficial for Yourself, and for everything around You. I think if You are looking to be completely selfless in life, You are wasting Your life, because You are looking to achieve something that unachievable, ( I am not encouraging anyone to kill Himself or Herself, Do not commit suicide ) Warning,

You are not alone,

I think it is impossible to achieve the completely selfless state as long as You are a live, in some cases there are benefits of dealing with life from a self perspective ( Not selfish ), and in the other cases there are benefits of dealing with life from a selfless perspective, but it is impossible to be completely selfless in life, ( I am not encouraging anyone to kill Himself or Herself, Do not commit suicide ) Warning, because even when You are using language You are saying Me, He, She, My, Her, His ..... and these about self, So You can not even think, Talk or write without using self. I think the right way to live is a combination of being self in some cases and selfless in other cases, and that will be beneficial for Yourself, and for everything around You. I think if You are looking to be completely selfless in life, You are wasting Your life, because You are looking to achieve something that unachievable, ( I am not encouraging anyone to kill Himself or Herself, Do not commit suicide ) Warning,

Hi @DMM710 Then, How can You prove them ? without science ...

Well I know that most of people treat their daily life in a wrong way like : 1 - They say They are going to die but when They are dealing with daily life they treat their life like they will never die. 2 - They say pain is temporary but when They are in pain They deal with it like it is an endless pain. 3 4 5 .........etc I understand that But When someone say that there is no reality ( Now ) and nothing exist ( Now ) that looks so wrong for Me. And Maybe I am the one who is wrong

Hi @Nahm When You describe everything as a dream, illusion, that means it exist.

I am not religious , Ramadan start today What do You know about it ? Advantages, Disadvantages, anything You want to say ...

a Powerful wisdom that changed many in My life Was mean Do not Use the word ( problem ), Use the Word ( challenge ) and everything will go well ... I read it here in this forum, and it was very powerful. You can share the most powerful wisdom that You discovered recently, Rule : every member can share only one wisdom, Choose the most effective one and share it with Us ...

The Five Seconds Rule By Mel Robbins Very Powerful

Hi @Lelouch How are You ? Not alwats, Be careful, This can lead to crimes, Think gain ...

Hi @Peter Zemskov, How are You ? I think we all compare ourselves to others all the day, and this comparison extend to all parts of life, and thats normal, The competition and comparison does not create envy, what creates envy is the mindset of some people ... They have to understand that there will always be some people better and worse than Them in any part of life, and the situation of who is better and who is worse will not stay still, it will change all the time, So why envy others, and by the way what is the benefits of envy ? What can We gain from it? it has no benefits.. in the other hand one of the benefits of competition and comparing is knowing who is better and who is worse and learning from each of them ...

Hi @Peter Zemskov How are You ? I think there is a difference between Competition and envy, There is nothing wrong in comparing Yourself with others and compete with others, but Envy is the problem and it is wrong.

@Empty You are kidding right ? because there is not such a thing in islam ... hahahaha

Hi @Deepu How are You ? Do not try to escape from Painful memories, Face them, and they will go away. everyone has his or her own painful memories but no one lived all His or Her own life remembering painful memories, and painful memories are powerful lessons You should be happy You learned alot from them, Do not escape, Face, because You are the stronger one. Best Wishes

Welcome to this Topic I am searching for self actualization Movies List, Well in self actualization there are so many topics, The topics that I am looking for right Now is : 1 - Purposes of life because everyone has his or her own purpose in this life 2 - Love and relationships 3 - Suffering 4 - Money, Businesses 5 - Beauty of everything in life 6 - Dreams and sleeping 7 - Morals 8 - Artificial intelligence ( AI ) 9 - Psychology, Mind control, 10 - Personality Types and Crimes Thanks to all of You

@moon777light Where is She ? I am everywhere

Hey @Quanty hahahahaha breathing !!! again !!! I mean He wants to talk with a girl !!! Hey@8Ball First thing dont make any bold action tworads Her Now, Do not ( Important ). Do not be boring because No one want to be bored neither You or others. does she have a friend in Your floor ? or a friend that is Your friend in the same time ? Remember that there is a chance that she will not be into You and she will reject You, do not let that fear You or disturb You. I do not Know Her, You, the building or the situation but hmmmm : ok maybe this will help You 1 - Make a personal conversation with her for 5 seconds ( do not request this conversation, make it seem like You and her in the same place accidently, be sure that there is no one else in the place because You do not want to embarrass Her, You are just trying to open her eyes towards You ) the place can be in the stairs or something like that, Tell Her "bad perfume You are using, Bad smell, Do They pay You to use this perfume ? ", Maybe she will attack You verbally saying " Your perfume smells bad too " or something like that, do not be angry, You can laugh and Say " I know thats why I am using it ", Be sure that You are the one that ending the conversation not her ( Important ) 2 - Make an accident and pour Your coffe or tea on her, and find a way to not care about that and maybe blame Her for it, ( do not be angry ). just think and I am sure that You will find many things to do, but the most important thing is have a nice time and laugh if You understand what I am saying, even If she will not be with You, at least You had a nice time and laughed , Do not be angry if she will not be with You, No one can be with every one ... Love Your life

@zoey101 Thanks

Hey everyone 1 - What are the best work management formulas that worked for You ? 2 - What are the Hints and suggestions that You can share about this topic ? Have a nice day everyone

1 - He has to focus on the conversation if the conversation was important, and by the way focusing on the conversation is a kind of respect to Yourself and to the people that You are talking to, ( Focusing on the breath will just make the situation worse because the brain can only focus on one thing at a time). 2 - Why most of the people here are looking for escape from their problems by similar activities ? then they always fail to escape because they can not, I do not Really understand. When a human start to face His or Her fears and problems that will make Him or Her stronger and that is the first step in the proccess of defeating these fears and problems.

" Are You trying to forget ?, Are You coward ? "

Hey @thehero How is Your day ? Think about this 1 - Are all people has the same point of view about all topics in life ? of course not, Different people have different point of views about most or large amount of topics in life. 2 - Because of that dont try to seek for approval from people because most of the time You cant. This is the Mindset

Hey@QeenB How are You ? 1 - Do You lie ? 2 - Do You care so much about how the other people are going to think about You ? 3 - Do You look for perfect answers and perfect things to say ?