Carl-Richard

It's one of those cool cross-cultural things you can engage in

I doubt you make a distinction between perception and consciousness, but I'll say it anyway: Your bubble of perception is an illusion. Perception is limited human bias. Consciousness is beyond your bubble of perception.

8 threads a day?! I post like 3 threads a month ? It's obviously that which people are reacting to. Creating a thread makes you the center of attention, and you usually harp on the same point over and over again. Besides, if you want to talk about deception, insisting on using averages is exactly that, as it evens out the nuances

But you have to be careful when you say that, because "God" and "ego" are not the same concept. After all, you're calling them different things.

But you see, you're making distinctions between the personal and the transpersonal all the time yourself, e.g. "you don't see" vs. "God always sees". I'm just pointing out this distinction in the realm of choice.

See the progression from thrash metal to djent

Two days ago, after travelling with a plane, I went on an evening walk, and I noticed I wasn't wearing enough clothes, but I figured "meh, I haven't been sick for a full year, and I'll only be walking for 10 minutes, I'll be fine". Then I woke up the next day with a sore throat. You know what I will not do again? Take evening walks without wearing enough clothes. Now, did I choose the entire causal chain of the universe that lead up to the point of me going on that evening walk and being a bit daring with my health? Of course not. That was God's will. But can I choose to not do that in the future? Yes of course. Or to make it even more clear: I both did and did not choose to take that underdressed walk, and I both will and will not choose to not take such walks again. Again, these are different notions of choice. You can say that one encompasses a more contracted personal level, while the other encompasses a more expanded transpersonal level.

Both of your guys' perspectives are valid. You're just getting caught up in semantics. It's true that you do have some degree of control (one notion of control) over what happens to you, and it's also true that everything is God's will and that nothing is in your control (another notion of control).

That's from the perspective of your current life. You'd be surprised how easily you can adapt to new habits if you just try. I believe there are virtually no limits to what you can get used to.

It's the threads.

Because of your human conditioning and bias ?

And this was discovered while tripping?

Firstly, if you and her agree that it's not cheating, then it's not cheating. Other than that, my stance is quite liberal: unless there is a genuine possibility that you'll break up with her because of watching porn behind her back, then there is no reasonable difference between watching porn behind her back and simply masturbating behind her back. So if she wants to call porn cheating, then masturbation is also cheating (unless you guys somehow agree that they're different).

What do they say — the thing about relationships that last is not that you were perfectly made for each other, but that you put in the effort to make it work. If you have a habit of making yourself a slave to the hedonic treadmill, it will manifest itself in every aspect of your life, and you'll never be satisfied. At some point you have to take control. But of course, I haven't met your girlfriend.

Yes, and you're the only person who gets this amount of personal preferences being expressed about you (except Leo). Maybe something to think about.

There comes a point where the format invalidates the message. You're way past that point. No person who is at peace will spend hours of each day screaming at their top of their lungs. You're by my estimation still in the beginning phase of the spiritual journey, and I suggest to start integrating the insights, focus on yourself, see if there are bases you're not covering, instead of trying to teach other people who are obviously not open to your efforts.

What does that mean? You awoke just once?

How many times have you tripped? How many hours have you meditated?

Haha it's like the inverse of Plato's Cave: you emerge out of the cave and get blinded by the golden Sun vs. you descend down and get blinded by the golden shine of the Earth

Or when you finally strike gold (or you're about to), you're appalled by the fact that you have to sacrifice any notion you have of yourself as famous.

Stop saying

You'd be surprised.

I'm natty brah

@Yimpa Wow ?

Awakening rocks your boat and it takes time to get stable again. And it looks different for different people. Just give him some time ;D