LessonsSavesLifes

@LostSoul I am assuming you are not in debt. if you feel it is toxic enough for a change then change your environment. You are 18-21 maybe? You have the most value thing right now. TIME! Use it wisely, you can not save it, you only spent it. Saving is your best friend currently. Get a job for the mean time Go though your finances and make a plan Right place to live, affordable given your circumstances. ( may need to get roommate(s). ) Finding your purpose at a young age should be a priority, not petty problems even if its not your fault. Be careful not to fall into a victim mentally, the higher you climb the personal growth ladder, you bump into people who simply don't have the desire and blame the circumstances. Make a plan and take action. Your are young so take your time, you are in the exploration stage , it may take years but try your hardest to speed it up. Some people find there success at age 35, no shame , will all have are unique personally journey. Book I recommend that will motivate you with money is a book by Felix Dennis " How to get rich" love this book , currently making a theatric movie trailers for books for my youtube channel. That can hype you up too to take action, before you read the book. Also recommend Leo's life purpose course, he will answer most of your widely ask questions because your not the first to have this problem. Good luck bro.

Not a coach, but I can refer to a coach I hired a few months ago that got me great results. ( Of course with lots of work ) I did about 6 months of online 1 hour a week calls . Genuinely cares for you and won't waste your time ( unless you don't take it serious) His name is Denton Fisher, you can find him at his youtube channel King Mentality for personal growth advice. Email him, he will response though he is busy. He charges 100$ an hour for 1hour or 400$ for 5hours , Not sure if he raised the prices. He has real results, I consider him a good friend and has helped me at my lowest. You will have his personal number, and able to text for any questions in your journey. He works with very successful people and is on the come up tbh, I knew him when he had 5k subs on youtube and little audience. His tik tok has been blowing up, I'm happy to see him so successful. Healthy No Bullshit dude, he may offer a free 10-30mins call to interview you first but maybe he changed that due to high volume. I highly recommend coaching over online courses ( I do still buy courses/online products) because I personally see more results that way, I can be lazy . Yes I know it expensive, any coach worth while is going to cost $$. Its truly is an investment. Can't pay? WORK WORK WORK, take a job that pays and SAVE , come back and purchase . I'm currently in the saving process again and about ready to hire another coach to help me launch my own business on the website Upwork. His team charges 5000$, yes again thats a lot for me but its an investment. I was also lucky enough to get a referral from someone I trust. Honest online coaches are getting more rare, so even if you don't go with him, find one that has real Results . Good Luck.

@assx95 Hire a coach , online or bootcamps , whatever you can afford . problem solved assuming you will put in the work

@Raptorsin7 can you share more about your experience with the LP course , I've almost done , about 70% done but I still don't see how I make money and a career even tho leo said to ignore that . just been in a rut lately , would like some insight if you got any

His name is jmulv and is the perfect example of of a stage red pickup artist compared to a higher stage pua He helps his students to get good at having sex with as many women as possible in the shortest amount of time how? he tells his students to lie and drink while on the field He's said this himself in one of his videos. Cares mainly about looks rather then a girl's personality and character. I've met some ex rsd coaches who genuinely have the girls best interest at heart and doesn't just fuck anyone, not just because there attractive. Coaches who care about long term success with dating for there students. idk let me know what you guys think.

@Zega from what I heard todd wanted to more of the pie because he felt he deserved more ( which is understandable)N they didn't pay him. whatever he still stayed as part of the team. Rsd then wanted todd to collab with other creators who todd didn't want to colab with . Todd got mad and so did rsd . the grey area is that rsd screwed over todd and eased EVERYTHING he had that involved rsd . Don't know if its true but it is interesting

@TheAlchemist i dm you

@Leo Gura correct me if I'm wrong but I believe I am seeing a new up coming pickup artist evolve in a stage yellow fashion, He meets the spiral dynamics criteria this is his development in a nut shell over the course of 10 years 1) enters stage solid orange, does pickup in a selfish matter because the fear of being alone and that women are just sexual objects. gets falsely accused of rape, goes to court and believes he will go to jail and muster up the courage to kill himself, and to his surprise lots of friends and family are there to support him and gather enough money to hire a decent lawyer. There was no evidence and he is freed immediately. 2) He learns his family and friends genuinely love him and realizes that he's not just a utility to them. The next he works for rsd and continues gaming, his game changes completely and starts to genuinely care and love for women and see them they as people and not just a puzzle to figure out. He games with having good intentions and gets more results then ever. aka enters stage green ( he leaves rsd after a while) 3) Decides he can now lead the pickup community in the right direction by attracting the right audience regardless of the sub count. An audience that doesn't embody toxic values and dirty addicting emotions but rather the opposite. This is where I see the evolving happening because I can him get upset at where the community is at as a whole and wants to think long term and wants to lead based off conscious values. I could be wrong tho his name is denton aka karisma king

your welcome

Pickup is very orange, I know. Over the past 4 years I've been researching videos left and right but have slowly stop because I grew and finally came to a realization that chasing pussy was only making me unhappy. I was ignoring the journey and focusing on the end result. I started to go against some the strategies I learned even though they worked because deep inside, it didn't feel authentic to my core values. Soon I found a channel that seemed much more healthier then then others and it stuck out like a purple cow. He has criticized the heartless puas and shares more of a green vibe type of pickup. I'd say he's 25% green and 75% light orange in his style of pickup. What do y'all think? thanks for your time !

@Dan Arnautu My thoughts exactly, I stubbled across them during his creation of the simple pick series he made and have watched almost every video he's made. I once made a comment stating he should review Jmulv's youtube infield and replied that jmulv and his audience is toxic and doesn't want his viewers attack him (guessing bc jmulv and his viewers are heavily orange )

“Your woman knows your weaknesses better than anybody. She knows where you will falter and give up. She knows the degree of mediocrity you will settle for. And, she knows your true capacity as a full man, a man of free consciousness and love. Her gift, if she is a good woman, is to test you with her darkest moods, over and over and over, until your consciousness is unperturbed by feminine challenge, and you are able to pervade her with your love, just as you are here to pervade the world. In response to your fearless consciousness, she will drench your world in love and light.” i think you already know the answer to your question deep inside .

I f you were wrongfully terminated, that should be addressed and you should take it to court. I'm not the one to give legal advice, you should contact a lawyer/attorney that handles this type of stuff. Post on the Legeladvice sub reddit too.

I wish I could give you some advice but I shouldn't be the one to do it. by chance have you considered taking Leo's life purpose course ?

if you're asking this question then most likely you haven't practiced the fundamentals enough, give this channel a go. He's (Karisma king) a healthier pua in my opinion compared to someone like AMS who has dark orange and unhealthy pua practices but they both work.

a lot of energy ? lol not really, you can go out and approach for an hour everyday for a 3 months straight and be 10 times better then you were the past years of your whole life, not a master but definitely better. pickup is great for facing your fears if you have anxiety around women and social interactions because you will most likely get rejected back to back , even if you're good looking. the only labor it really takes if you're emotional labor

So apparently , he's been doing inappropriate acts to women and and few other scandals but is just now getting flack for it . I just wanted to get your guys opinion because I just started reading his book "Do you" I really like and book and it's only getting better with every page but should this act destroy his credibility ? Idk what do ya think

I work at the YMCA and met the CEO , I asked if would give me advice (19m) on my entrepreneur career and he suggests that I email him and that we could have breakfast . I'm nervous he might not come through / what should i ask him??????

@aurum no I don't have any business but I'm learning a lot right now and just got REALLLY invested into personal development. 1st it was all about personal development and then PUA with girls and now I realized that if I want to do real development , I need time and lots of it . That's what lead me to the "search" of my journey as an entrepreneur and becoming financially successful . I working on YouTube videos and developmenting my online business with print full and esty . Im reading books and trying to work diligently and develop healthy appropriate Financial habits that will help me with my future goals .