Alexop

You just described Sweden. I have a feeling that these countries are ready for a change. Mature women just have enough, they feel that something is very wrong. They have enough of utilitarian relationships and mother-boy interactions. People start to have enough of the extreme left nonsense, they start to see their flaws.

@Natasha Tori Maru yes. And when I tell this to the left mob, they call me a cockservative. I see it like this: build the sword (masculinity), then refine it (feminine side development). I was on a romanian leftist discord server, most of them don't even understand what we mean by feminine and masculine. I just cannot relate to them, this topic is so fundamental to our survival that it is completely unacceptable to no study and understand. If your relationships are shit, your life is shit.

He did not say pedophiles or whomever are "bad". Bad relative to having a healthy society maybe. From God's perspective they just ARE, they are not in a specific way. He even says everyone and everything is Good, everything is Love.

yaha... We forgot long ago how to build those men you want to see. We either have macho jerks with autistic behavior or uninspiring weak boys. This is why my favorite candidate in swedish politics is a woman. It seems like it is harder to build good men than good women. There has to be a serious step by step system that builds them up. No doubt why all those "savages" from the tribes had a rite of passage system for men.

I took 100ug once and had the same feeling. Just constant anxiety and fear. SInce then I did not dare to take a full dose, just 50 ug at a time. I think I will try mushrooms instead. I had serious problems with social anxiety in my youth, maybe this can have something to do with it.

What do you mean?

https://cluj24.ro/video-protest-pentru-drepturile-femeilor-la-cluj-de-8-martie-mars-de-solidaritate-impotriva-imperialismului-si-austeritatii-281941.html It was a mixed blend of everything possible in the Green political sphere. Some pro-Palestine, some anti-racism, some feminism. They already got massive backlash even from the most progressive political groups. Even the so called progressive political party called USR is a neo-liberal pro-market party. Most of the protesters were some kids who copied what they saw in American media and politics. Reasonable center-left people are virtually non-existent in Romania. I would guess 70% Stage Blue nationalists, 25% Stage Orange modern neo-liberals, and very few Green, woke-leaning youngsters. They even chanted in english, just to see the mindless conformism of Green. This will be just fuel for right propaganda.

because people do not care about Truth, they care about "how this "truth" can help me survive?"

It is more than that. it is creating an identity that fits your perosnality. Most people who are attracted to masculinity choose the woman identity because it fits their personality better. It is like having to choose between a warrior character and a priest character when you start playing WoW. There is no such thing as a woman or a man. We create these identities, social constructions, because it helps us survive better. The same way we invented money and we gave them value. These post-modern people who say these identitites do not matter and we are just writing in the sand do not understand the issue. They were given ideas that they cannot handle yet. It is like giving a shotgun to a child. Very bad idea. I saddens me alot because they paint a very bad picture of the left. This is why I don't really want to say I am a leftist, because I don't want to associate myself with such weirdos.

She was very paradigm locked into "men and women are not so different". She came with very long posts that had a lot of content but little substance.

yes you are right. We see a big difference in political views between men and women. Dating today can be a purity test. Do you have the "right opinions". If not, sorry bud. Just so I become clear. When I mention dating I mean relationship building no just hooking up. I don't get this hookup culture, I don't get too much value from sleeping with a woman 2 times then ghosting each other.

It is harder to date right now. I don't think all our grandfathers had to learn pick-up and shit, they just were part of a system that gave them opportunities to date and prepared them to date. Churches, third places, extended social circles, friends of friends who had a some cool single girlfriends etc. i don't know how it was in USA or Australia but in Romania it was easy to date 25 years ago. You did not need all these nonsense techniques and shit. Men challenged each other to be funny, masculine, interesting... They had their brotherhoods On the counter, it is possible to date today, maybe easy to date for a developed serious guy, but the bar is higher, women don't depend on men longer. If you don't come and offer some serious value you are dismissed. The standards go higher, and the candidates are worse.

@Natasha Tori Maru I get them, maybe because I am a man idk. The feeling of getting rejected my dozens of women in a row or knowing you are a virgin at an age you shouldn't feels like nothing else. It feels you are the last piece of shit in the world. You can sell anything to such people if you just empathize with them enough and call out the "external evil". Just saying they are some stupid pricks and moving on is a naive, low consciousness approach (I say it rethorically, I know you didn't). "Stupid" people usually have a sad story to tell.

@Oppositionless i should call shamans to wipe my ass too.

Yea me too. But the mature ones used to be 35 plus.

Green can be especially conformist and echochambery. I invte you to meet Scandinavian people. At least those redpill movements I can understand because it is composed mostly of frustrated sexless kids, but I have higher expectations of highly educated mature people. I hanged in many Green groups and I don't feel great there. It feels like I am walking on eggshells, you have to have the "right" opinions in order be welcomed. It depends what personality type you have. If you are very feminine and agreeable then they fit you well. But I cannot just stay an talk feelings and shit all day, not having a personality, not influencing the situation in any meaningul way, just being an emotional automaton.

Both redpill/blackpill/incel ideolgy and post-modern nonsense prevent healthy relationships. And one triggers the other. The more post-modern nonsense you'll see in society the more women hate and redpill. Both these camps prevent men from developing into serious healthy adults. Women also, but especially men. People are not so stupid, they see every day through personal experience and andecdotal evidence that men and women are different. You come and tell thme it is not true and you'll get solid backlash. In any big movement there is some truth, big movements tell some truth, otherwise they would not become so big. Even though that "truth" can sometimes be very toxic. Germans chose Hitler because it told them the "truth" of how opressed germans were at that time. I hope this idea does not get misunderstood.

I think this community is as healthy as a self-help community can be, but it still is limited by it's times. You just cannot create a healthy self-help community today. Maybe only with super-aggressive screening and paywalls, but even then you cannot be sure. You cannot create ANY healthy community focused on big stuff like spirituality/truth today, communities are about survival, ideology, power games, ego... not Truth. This is why serious philosophers do their work alone in silence, far away from the apes. For me anything that involves more than 2 people (myself included) that has a higher purpose than basic tasks like collagues doing ape work at work or some buddies playing sports, any purpose that craves openmindedness, emotional maturity, ambition form others (creating deep friendships, philosophy, self-improvement) has a high chance to piss me off, make me lose patience. Because I have a very disagreeable personality and you simply cannot gather too many serious, conscious people together because they are so rare nowadays. This retarded society we have nowadays creates braindead people not truth seekers.

Pair Dancing, climbing, running, archery, fixing technical shit.

It is like being a policeman. You have to deal with the garbage of society, but it is a job that has to be done. As a philosopher you have to deal with the collective ego of society, you have to point out the evil in people and they will fight back, exactly like criminals do. They will mock you, ignore you, hate you etc. you will have to calculate how much truth can people endure without backlashing on you. Are people ready to hear the truth about human looks and genetics? Are they ready to hear the truth about men and women? Of course academic philosophy is full of shit. It has to be, everything mainstream has to be full of shit. Otherwise it will shed too much light on the collective devilishness of society.

Lol, women blaming/incel nihilism YT influencing is a real industry already haha. I mean I get them. I think I am above 80% of guys in looks and social skills, I am 30, and I barely get any attention from women when I go to events and stuff. Imagine an average guy in his 20s who looks childish and inexperienced. He will check himself in the mirror many times a day so he makes sure his isn't invisible. The world is fucked. The secret is to not care and try anyway. but in order to not care you need somehow to burn that karma by having some sex and relationships. I noticed women talking friendly to all the guys they meet at the dance events or similar stuff but they dont get locked in/sexually attracted. "It seems like they don't want cock anymore" - to quote a friend who was frustrated about this.

I did not say that. That is your interpretation of my post. Most people, like 99.5%, men and women are not interested in Truth based on my standards. These people who spin up shit in philosophy circles do survival not truth seeking. Women tend to be more intuitive and trust their feelings. Men use logic as a compass, women use intuition/feelings in general. Now of course you'll meet some very intelligent women who will be able to swing form their masculine side to their feminine side and they seem that they break all these generalizations. But what is the chance to meet one?? Hell, what is the chance to meet such a guy either? And some guys say that women who are so much in their masculine side, in their conceptual/abstract/figuring out side, are less attractive. And I can understand that, because they bascially behave like a man. But I don't fully hold that statement until it will happen to me personally. Truth seeking is done alone, people in groups do survival. Show me a group of people/organization who does not do survival. If you get involved with other people, I recommend to not expect them to do truth seeking. This forum is maybe the most uncorrupt community in the world, this is very unique and is due to Leo's huge efforts to keep it as least corrupt as possible. And still, you see lots of cheap chatting and shit here also. And talking about truth is not the same with seeking truth.

The past years were rough for me because a serious change in my understanding of the world was happening. Especially since diving deep into power dyncamics, biology and masculinity vs. femininity. This went much deeper than I thought and were the missing pieces that are starting to complete the big puzzle of how reality works. I say “starting to complete” because I am always open to going deeper. I was quite confrontational here on the forum and in other places, I even annoyed Leo by erupting on a user. But now the big resolution is close. The big AHA moments and insights I got recently: -You need to be born with a specific personality trait and brain structure in order to successfully pursue truth, otherwise you are just licking your balls, you are chasing your tail. Specific deterministic factors have to happen in order for you to reach Truth. You should be born with this trait and experience heavy suffering. That trait will determine how you react to that suffering. Most people react by finding cover. I reacted to the suffering as a challenge to be embraced, for me it was the beginning of the hero’s journey. I was born with this trait and those who were not, should just be let alone in their mental masturbation. If they alone don’t realize that they were not born for seeking truth, let them be, don’t tell them this. Sorry to blackpill you guys but this is how it is. Blame God. God is blackpill. At least these people should just stop watching news and politics if nothing, because they won’t understand shit and will fill their lives with suffering. -If you don’t understand masculinity vs. femininity you are FUCKED. I mean you cannot properly understand how reality works because you don’t understand yourself. It goes beyond relationships. This will affect you even if you are asexual. This is one of the most problematic things with my generation and Gen Z in the West. They are being brainwashed into not researching this topic, and they will live a life of silent suffering. If modernism sucks ass with their stupid materialism and science, post-modernism will be even worse, because it will confuse the shit out of people. At least modernism gives you a fake base, like religion does so it keeps you away from nihilism and cognitive dissonance somewhat. -Spirituality is not enough! I don’t care how much you meditated, how many retreats you did and how much psychedelics you took. This connects with the first insight. If you are not born for Truth, you will just pursue some Stage Green spiritual non-sense. If you are not a born contemplator, the same way a cat is born with the instinct of licking her fur, you are mainly wasting your time with spirituality. If your are wise enough it will help you, if you don't build a spiritual ego. But without a good philosophical base, there is a high chance you'll build more ego with your enlightenment experiences.The same way if a hard ass Christian has an NDE, he will become even more fundamentalist. “I saw the light of heaven, The Bible is so right bla bla bla” And even if you reach the end of suffering through enlightenment in an Eckhart Tolle moment, you will still be affected by not understanding how relationships work, how nutrition works, how politics work, how your psychology works, how other people work and God forbid losing your health. -I lost interest in socialization. I mean I don’t even care about making friends, and it feels good. I just go to my activities: dancing, boxing, climbing etc. do my stuff, have some laughs and some short small talk then I go home. I realized I am very introverted, if the conversation is not about stuff that stimulates me intellectually or emotionally (mainly masculine-feminine dynamics with a woman), I don’t give a fuck, I feel like I am wasting my time, I get very very bored. Especially in nowadays social environment where everyone is so childish and get offended by anything, Don't like babysitting everyone I meet so they don't wet their pants. Don’t socialize in the same way you do it on this forum, don’t expect anyone to follow truth with you, socialize for fun! If you can’t have fun by talking “normy” shit then it means you don’t need to socialize that much (take this advice carefully!). -I stopped fantasizing about finding a woman that will satisfy me. I am sure you guys had that fantasy of finding a woman who will philosophise with you and shit. Forget it! There is a high chance that will never happen and it is completely OK. Most people, I mean MOST, no matter if men or women, have no fucking idea how reality works. I literally contemplated thousands of hours alone at home and in the forest in order to understand all this stuff. I was laughing alone because of the epiphanies. How many hours did you partner contemplate alone? Don’t expect a woman to make you happy and don’t push this philosophy shit on your partner if you see they are not interested! She can eventually make you happier by enriching your life with femininity, but stop dreaming of a relationship where you both pursue truth and shit, because you might live an unhappy life in this way. A lifelong carrot and stick effect. Hell, that might happen, but don’t long for it as socialist activist longs for the end of capitalism. Don’t long for very low probability things to happen the same way these woke people live a life of suffering and taking bags of pills because they hope for a change that will never happen. "But Alex I am philosophising with my partner and it is awesome". Yea you are bullshiting yourselves together. This one was too honest, I am very sorry 😐. There is more but enough for one post. Thank you Leo! Thanks Teal Swan, David Deida, Ken Wilber, Byron Katie, Gabor Mate, Helen Andrews, Eckhart Tolle and more.

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I think there needs to be a whole course for guys on how to satisfy yourself properly with masturbation. There are some specific technical details like how often, which mindset, porn/no porn etc.