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How many of you here agree with Gabor Matè? He argued that ADHD is strongly influenced by childhood trauma. The average psychiatrists say ADHD is genetical and trauma creates ADHD-like symptoms.

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Yes. This too. Even Leo who says he can live alone, is still spending thousands of hours here talking with you guys. In my case, and most probably Leo's case, the need for a female partner who understands me and appreciates me. I just cannot. I need it. And if you are not asexual or some similar special genetics (which I think you don't) then you need a woman. Yes, women are Maya. But our biology screams for them. Straight men with normal genetics need women, prove me wrong. I don't care how enlightened you are. Many enlightened monks end up sexually frustrated and lonely.

oh, that’s a tough one. A bias toward the truth JK. A bias toward psychedelics. Just because they worked perfectly for you, it doesn’t mean they work for everyone. I wouldn’t necessarily call this a "bias," but you do tend to use generalizing rhetoric when it comes to women. Which could get you into trouble. When describing aspects of the female mind, it would be better to avoid the short, sharp remarks you’re in the habit of making. Especially these days, when many men are actually more emotional and easily offended than women.

She is not a teenager, she is a mature mother. But it is very easy to see she had a rough childhood. She is full of trauma that has to be addressed. We cannot hold up our opinions just because we have some people around who did not address their trauma and insecurities. This is not a psychotherapy forum nor a woke shithole. It breaks my heart to see sooo many women traumatized and broken by this retarded society. This is exactly why we need to pursue truth and slowly fix society with it.

Yes. It was on my thread about human biology that Natasha shared. But that was only the drop that filled the glass. I think she was burned out by constant arguing with the users here. I personally do not spend lots of time here mainly because I met dishonest people here that make me lose interest in contributing. Male/female discussions made me spend a bit more time here and it is there I saw Emerald fighting hard. Now idk, we have to keep a balance on the forum. Between masculinity and femininity. We cannot just give up truth seeking so everyone feels included. In that case, I am am outa here. We are not children playing in the sand. We are a philosophy forum. But on the other hand, we cannot just let any asshole attack and insult people who diverge from the status quo. In that way we only will have some autistic circle jerkers who are dogpiling anyone who dare to critique those who dominate the Internal power dynamics. And in that case too, we can lose serious people.

It is a privilege relative to being forced to risk your life and attack a fortress. Or defend your own.

Of course, no problem with women who wnat to be tough and become soldiers. But they have to be sure that this is who they are. Not doing it because of ideology. Historically.. laying bricks and getting paid would be privilege

Arguing is ego.

It is too hard of a truth for then to swallow. They just don't want to accept it, because it makes them feel crippled. But they live a even more crippled life if they try to be men instead. And by doing this, they bring the whole society down. Those office jobs and shit are not real life. Real life is laying bricks the whole day in freezing cold for years and working with some gross uneducated men who bully you. If a woman is doing that, she won't be a woman anymore. She would just be a man with pussy.

How can these studies be taken seriously by the science community? https://www.iflscience.com/women-may-be-better-hunters-than-men-latest-research-argues-71719?fbclid=IwdGRjcAVDwIpjbGNrBUPAZ2V4dG4DYWVtAjExAHBkb2YFc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMzUwNjg1NTMxNzI4AAEejzx-QWBPu-rHAOLh9gF7Nd_lLminTbgNE3AKpcxyw0a4fnnLQ8KIPOwr4n4_aem_JsU8rcpx2Fp_xWn2xfOXtA If this can pass as science then science is just religion plus some fluke luck discovery by throwing shit at the wall and see what sticks. Better suitable to run the animals down to exhaustion? Woke dude, men can run marathons (42 km) faster than women. And I can imagine how excited women were to run 20 km after animals with a child in their belly or right before they gave birth. They usually had lots of pregnancies during their lifetime. Generally 4-9 births with 3-4 years in between. Try physically compete with men who are physically stronger and give no births at all.

Aha. It can be like that. Our men today suck ass.

I won't watch all that nonsense. What was the challenge about and why did women win?

This is a philosophy forum not kindergarten. Those who are not resilient enough and open-minded enough to endure debates and accept defeat will eventually burn out. Do you think I felt good when I had to admit all my insecurities, biases, wrong behaviour? It hurt like hell. But this is how you become an adult. By enduring hardships. Now of course sone here talk shit and behave improperly. This is why I don't really spend much time here. It is this subject that attracted me here. One of the few places where it can be discussed at an advanced level.

I hope she will charge her mind. One subject is one subject. There is plenty of good stuff to discuss on this forum other than masculine/feminine shit. I also am part of a leftist discord group who is all for men and women being the same..i realized that there is no chance in changing their mind and we completely avoid the subject while having very fruitful conversations about economics and similar nerdy stuff

Relax. I did not make a complex critique of the study. I just made a comment on the arguments of that "Ocowoke" researcher presented in the article. Such recontextualization, putting words in people's mouth, moving the goal posts, whatabaoutisms and side tracking makes me lose interest in arguing with you guys. ✌️

I've had this protest that Emerald has, a few years ago, about this forum. I had to accept that this is how people are and we cannot silence people. People should be free to express their opinion. If the quality of the conversation goes low, so be it. Accept the situation.

Good for you lol 😆

Lock my thread if you want. It feels like we consumed it.

Leo and the moderators are doing a great job. This forum is not an agenda dictatorship. Anyone should be able to say whatever they feel as long they are not constantly insulting others or constantly coming with ridiculous conspiracy theories or such nonsense.

Good luck and take care of yourself! Thanks for your contributions!

I wish the same to everyone. Don't take anything personally. It is not about you, we do this in order to have a better society where people's needs are met. No matter if they are man, woman, non-binary, attack helicopter, alien, alien attack helicopter.

Women will be safer in society when men will be more mature.

men in the West are having it hard right now. Loneliness, suicide, fatalism, burnout.

Of course you could say the same about men. I also do solo bikepacking. I recently did a 1500 km 2 week trip sleeping in the woods the whole time. BUT, I am a 6.4 foot tall man, with kickboxing experience, had an axe at me, and I did this in Sweden. I exposed myself to a much smaller risk for something very bad happening. But the risk was not 0 of course. I assumed that, I assumed that if something bad happens it will be my fault. I won't blame society because they did not kill all the bears in the forest. We can cry and moan as much as we want about men's behavior, we can raise the sentences, we won't solve it like that. Instead that will create even more hate and sexism. We solve it, again, by understanding masculinity and understanding how to create a culture that builds mature, strong men that meet their needs and are not putting women in danger. And even then, women will simply not be completely safe. This is life, life is more dangerous for women. What can we do.... we can minimize it as much as we can but women will still be less safe than men. Survival is brutal. Imagine the people of a city state from 2000 years ago crying about the injustice of being invaded and enslaved. Like, yeah, survival is brutal and unfair... All you can do is train your army and try to defend yourself.