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Or at least it has elements of Blue: -us vs them - black and white mentality. -cultish dynamics - people like us believe in things like this; I was wondering if Spiral dynamics measure some cultural aspects or the level of consciousness... Because we see behaviours in excess of Green that are typical to the levels of consciousness we find in Blue people.

Yea I mean Yellow is Yellow because of a specific level of consciousness not just advanced cognition. You cannot have pure Yellow without consciousness. You need to be aware of biases and meta thinking not just to be introduced into a academic fancy culture. that won't cut it. In the same logic, it is not enough to be introduced to hippie Green culture and be a healthy Green. You need the consciousness. If there is a critical mass of mature Green people in your friend group, you will be dragged along towards higher consciousness. because you need the love. Your ego will give up selfishness for love. But if enough low consciousness people join the Green group, a lower consciousness woke culture will form from the healthy Green. Like a cancer, like an ugly mutation breaking from the healthy Green.

If your are not born asexual, or aromantic (if there is such term), you pretty much have the need for romance. You can ignore it or cope with it but it is there. And no amount of spiritual shit will make it dissappear. Spirituality cannot change your biology. We naturally crave specific things depending on our biology. Crave for intimacy, love, romance, apreciation, purpose etc.

Careful with these assumptions. Some people simply are not born for that. I always think of an old friend who never managed to embody that masculine figure, even is everyone around pushed him for it. And he tried with all his strengths to achieve it. He now is a a kind of feminine hippe straight man and works much better for him

Yup, as a broad rule, we humans call evil those things that fuck up with our survival.

yes, Evil doesn't exist as an absolute entinty. But "evil" as what we society call evil exists as a social construct and people like those are relatively more "evil" than other more conscious ones.

Epstein and his gang are objectively less conscious than us here for example. That is just a fact that makes them relatively more "evil" based on what we society perceive as "evil"

LOL I was judging my grandparents dog when I was young because he was biting me. Later I learned that in romanian countryside culture they were beating the dogs and shit so they become more aggressive towards foreigners. But all they were doing was mostly traumatizing them for life, biting everyone.

I saw some trans women that look quite convincing! I mean some will notice but if you do it well and find the right doctors it might work. Another option would be to opt for a queer identity so people won't try to put you in the "man" box. That might mean you can create a kind of confusing appearence and people will not categorize you instantly. Personally I am very masculine so I want to be perceived as a man, but I get it. For people like you, being perceived as a protector and leader and safety net might not be what you wish.

Making fun of conformist people.

ah yes. What is better than some dude blocking the entrance somewhere completely unaware of what he is doing.

I hate it. They dress like: "look at my ass please!" and then you look at their ass and call you a pervert.

@Leo Gura i just want to say that you need to be careful with the 3 minute reels. I know it is hard to put the idea into context in 3 min but if I never knew you and saw your reel about "how socialism will never work" I would say: "a yeah another neo-liberal nuthead."

results of social media profit maxxing.

I think is just like any other cultish group think monolith. It is based in ideology and ego. But we have to be nuanced in perception. On some fronts they are right, especially the chill mature center-left liberals. Regarding taxation and economy the right is just a bunch of brainwashed selfish devils. They might not push your children to identify as zebras and submarines but they will keep you poor, stressed and miserable.

Yea, I mean as a conscious hot woman, life is not great. because your needs are of a higher realm. You won't be satisfied just because some dude pays for your living. And finding a conscious guy can be a challenge, but if I was a girl I think I could manage that lol 😂. I would do date factory farming. 10 zoom dates per day. Speed dating would be a joke.

I generally agree with you here, but I won't say the healthy women are attracted to the "boring" dudes. They are attracted to dudes who make them feel safe and are mentally stable and usually those dudes tend to be kind of boring. But nobody likes boring people. It just happens that the boring ones are more stable and ok and women rather take that downside than choosing a dumbass pickup robot or unstable player. That is so true that women with trauma self sabotage themselves, seen it so many times. Tragic.

There are rich, kind, attractive guys around. It is not like if he is rich he automatically has to be a simp or ugly

It is awkward that we even have to discuss this. You can basically have the world at your feet right now as an attractive woman. You can find a rich, smart, kind guy that will fix your survival forever. You can buy hinge premium or whatever and screen through 10000 guys all-over the world until you find the conscious, rich one who can't wait to take care of you.

@Natasha Tori Maru I mean like the effect of any ideology and group think. It makes you blind. I think we will solve this soon, it will just hit a critical point. In the same way as neiliberalism will soon hit a critical point where people will just have enough of it.

I don't care what you want, I look at the results. The results are weak, if not negative. You can't help men because you don't understand men, you don't want to, you don't want to accept the harsh truth about men. You want them to develop like women. LMAO Matriarchy is a social system where women—especially mothers—hold primary power and authority in the family, community, and often political leadership. That power can show up in different ways: Family structure – inheritance, family name, and lineage pass through the mother’s side (this is often called matrilineal, which is not exactly the same as matriarchy). Decision-making – women have the main authority in household and social decisions. Political/social leadership – women hold the dominant leadership roles in society. It literally took me 10 sec to debunk your claim. No offence but I can't take you seriously either,-

You have to mention that culture influences these roles quite a bit. For example mothers who teach their girls how to cook but not their boys. Such stuff is silly, anyone has to learn to cook. But yes, the asymmetry in relationships is influenced by our biology.

@Rafael Thundercat please ignore me.

Older, doesnt't matter. I don't want to go again on this nurture-nature argument with you, agree to disagree.

men take security and safety for granted, women don't fathom how hard it is for man to fulfill his romantic needs right now. Sex you can get yea, if you take that pickup train. But for a conscious man, sex is not enough. And NO spiritual and psychedelic bullshit can fix that for you, you can deny your romantic needs, but they are still there. If you are an introvert man, non-conformist, above average in consciousness, it is brutally hard to find a woman who will match your romantic needs. For such women it is the same thing, but I see women being able to cope with that much easier. I don't see any toxic lonely women influencer, but on the mens side, oh my God. Note: i don't think this problem is mainly because of feminism! I blame it mostly on: turbo-capitalism and retarded urbanism it created separating us from each other, no third places, social media and dating apps, videogames, individualism, but also of course feminization of society and whimpization of men, but not as important as the other causes.