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Aha! So I was a monkey until age 7. Yeah, there are reasons for why people don't do some things. Trying to be non-conformist can be very, we can call it, hmm, stupid. An unconscious behaviour of doing it differently all the time.

I would buy a monkey if I really wanted a pet. Monkeys are fun.

@Human Mint i love dogs, it is only that I feel sorry for those who have them just to fill a void they have in their hearts.

Who says that? There is a culture of picking up after your dog in most places. Owning a dog in an apartment is pretty silly confomism, but I get the loneliness epidemic. So all that work done for the dog is not in vain. We'd rather pick up dogshit and pay tons of money for dog care instead of talking to eachother as we used to do.

Owning PUG dogs is confomity! Why the hell so many people own those dogs? Poor dogs, they got mutilated through selective breeding. Ugly, dysfunctional breathing...

We have to understand the biological differences. We have to understand what generally makes most women happy and what generally makes most men happy. In this way people will better understand what these two genders are about and which gender eventually fits them best. These gender studies baboons create more confusion than clarity for lgbtq people.

Just started to watch the debate, the black woman is not understanding masculinity vs femininity. I had debates with such people, very intelligent people, but brainwashed into this samness shit. they just have to be ignored. In the same way we ignore people who promote slavery. It is just wrong, you have no clue of what you're talking about. What can I tell you more lol. They will recontextualize and interpret what you say how they want. They will come with that classic "yea but it is cultural, nothing too biological" etc. The outcomes show the real world. And the people who believe in that samness nonsense, they are probably single or in a dysfunctional relationship. Or they cannot meet the man they unconsciously desire. Because guess what: there are not too many of them.

@Natasha Tori Maru tragic to hear what happened to you, and you show that healing is possible. Unfortunately from what i notice, most women who experienced sexual assault will never completely heal. So we have to treat it seriously. I dated a french girl who got raped 10 years ago, still cannot have a healthy relationship. She will be forever stuck in rejecting masculine men, because they trigger her wounds. She told me that she is so sick of soyboys but she still gets drawned to them because she needs to have the situation under control. In Sweden, I would say the cultural patriarchy is over. In the business and job environment, masculinity still is the norm, because you cannot be soft in this dog eat dog competitive environment. And the economy is global.

I think there are toxic feminist groups that unconsciously push for the cultural castration of men. They push this last resort because they have no clue what is wrong with them, why are they so aggressive and abusive. Sadly they will realize that by castrating their masculinity, some of them become even more toxic and aggressive. The last thing you want to meet is a sick, hungry and wounded bear. It might look less capable of inflicting wounds, but actually there is a higher chance it will attack you compared to a healthy, well fed bear. They only way out of toxic masculinity is healthy masculinity. Not transforming men into some silly scared boys. They should focus on their female issue and teach women how to be women and let men fix men. Although Teal is a woman and knows quite a bit about men.

How about CBT?

Ok

@NewKidOnTheBlock Most feminists are women, so they have a hard time understanding men's problems. Menism can help men and I advocate for healthy men's movement not for eradication of feminism. 100 years ago women were not allowed to vote, they were seen almost like sub-humans. Of course feminism helped society.

And yes, society today has no clue how to build men. Most guys I meet here in Sweden are good at their profession: good programmers, good engineers etc. they are even very good at sports. But socializing? Humour? Emotional intelligence? Healthy masculinity? Relationship skills? Most of them suck ass at these ones. We failed men and if we don't fix this soon, I anticipate a century of alt right extremism, suicide and mental health problems skyrocketing, trash relationships and more.

Lol some of you guys here seriously need a girlfriend. No, feminism is not about hating men, it is about rasing women up. A developed guy is a feminist. Now that some feminist teenager girls with blue hair scream: "Men bad", that happens in every movement. You will always have some weirdos who misinterpret or oversimplify the movement and talk shit.

Yup, Leo and Teal. The Brain and the heart of YT.

Only if someone teaches them what and how to provide it. Our dear feminists and gender study delulus do not teach this. Because that might send a feeling of women needing men's help and reinforcing traditional gender roles. Yea, we got something better than traditional gender roles, we have some lost men who have no clue what motivates them, what makes them happy, so they fall asleep in a never ending boyhood. Women can stay single and enjoy their time with their girlfriends, but men suffer alot because of this post-modern nonsense. Men want to be heros and women desire heroes. If you don't let him be a hero, then he won't be a hero. He will be a villager, or even worse, a villain. Now some men want the statute of the hero but without fulfilling the duties of a hero. This is a recurring issue. This is why women complain so much about men. "You want to be the head of the family but you behave like the ass of the family." Most women complain for a good reason. They subconsciously challenge them to step up. Men want to do more for women than they do for them. If you don't let them do more, they will do less. That sense of duty of being the hero she calls when in trouble, that kind of "pride" motivates them to actualize, that pride motivates them to let down those videogames and shit. Men actually stay in trenches for months, eat rats, die there. Just so they can feel that sense of duty and freedom. And that happened in every tribe and country for millions of years maybe. That shaped their biology. To say they want to split duty and difficult tasks 50/50 with women is stupid. Challenge and duty develops men, not just talking about feelings and shit.

Yes! And this stuff is barely mentioned by anyone. Because it is against the post-modern, equality conformism. The mainstream talk about men vs. women is the Dr. K gamer GGG non-sense. Stuff that sounds good but does not fix the problem.

dude, "progressive" and "conservative" are relative terms. You compare the communists of the 60s with today's standards. Even today, communists might look quite progressive compared to the Taliban gov.

@Daniel Balan Communists progressed society to the next level. Ceausescu turned the rural Romania into an industrial powerhouse. He relocated people into cities, built a school system so people could learn to read and write, took women out of the house and into the workforce etc... He prepared Romania for Stage Orange. Orange could not happen in a uneducated peasant country, it had to go through Blue.

There are exceptions that will not fit those spectrums. You need to analyze each party/group or even individual in order to have the most accurate description. But this model is better than what most people have in their heads. They conflate leftism with socio-cultural progress, which is not true.

Diamonds have fake value. But a diamond from master Leo? Omg, I would put it on the wall.

Almost everything humans do is conformism. We don't even know who we are. We ask others. Another one: nice guy conformity. Trying to look polite and "perfect". And this is a contributor to the loneliness epidemic. We show a curated, fake version of ourselves in front of new people we meet. That makes it very hard to make new friends. Especially guys, because they are so afraid to not get ghosted and canceled.

I am happy that I am too poor to fall into that trap. I don't get attracted to such kinds of women anyway. Romanian marriage! Idk how conformist marriage is in the US, but in Romania? My God. It is fakeness and confomity to the Moon and back.

If you mean the stones, that is the holy scam. Artificial scarcity. Conformist culturally bumped valuation. It is valuable just because others think is valuable. Like wines.

Word. I will save this and send it to all the delusional hippie vipassana idiots. Not just family, even most teen groups. You could fit in but that would be no fun. You authentically crave something else, something more than small talk about furniture and stupid conformity travel talk or shit. Imagine sitting for 3 hours with some people talking about the logistics of visiting the Eiffel tower and how important it is to visit or or some shit. A conscious person will just want to focus those 3 attention hours towards something productive. They will notice you dont enjoy it, you cannot fake dumbness forever. 90% of the stuff discussed in large groups are pure shit. Waste of time.