Alexop

Here's some insights based on empirical input and personal study. Here’s two points: Immigration. I start to notice how these people, especially the leftists here, say one thing but do another or are not able to actualize their wishes. On the one hand they want to compete in the empathy contest and help as many refugees as possible but on the other, they don’t actually want to have them in their lives. They just want the feeling of being the morally superior ones. There is a neighborhood called Angered on the outskirts of Gothenburg. When it was first built, it was mostly Swedes living there, after some immigrants moved in the country to do the work they did not want to do anymore, they started moving out from the neighborhood, because it started to be painted as “problematic”. Now these kinds of neighborhoods are 95% immigrant background even if the flats are still nice, some are well renovated and the areas are full of beautiful nature and good public transport connections. So dudes, do you want these people in your lives or not? It is more like: I take a refugee into my house but I keep him in the basement. They want multiculturalism, but as soon as they meet someone who is slightly different from them, they run away as if they saw a ghost. Anything that is too ambitious, masculine or has too much personality is ghosted out. With this soyboy, anti-personality, anti-masculine culture you cannot have a proper blend of cultures. Virtually no Swede hangs out with immigrants who did not perfectly absorb their pussy culture, not even living in the same neighborhood with such “animals”. They want them to somehow raise to their SD Green level at a flip of a switch otherwise it is goodbye. These double standards brought rise to the far right who is now fucking up the country with neo-liberal, anti-immigration shit. Thanks for that! They want immigrants but not too close to them, they want diversity but not in the way that “does not vibe”. Relationships are disasters. People are so individualistic and have so low social skills, especially men, that they just suffer from loneliness in silence. It takes ages for them to make friends, they basically make 2-3 friends in teenage years and keep them for life, because they have to stay years in a classroom together in order to open up. Masculinity and femininity talk is a NO NO. God forbid we talk about this kind of heresy. We only talk about it if we shit on the patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Women pair with men mostly because they want kids and need sperm and help to raise them. After a few years they separate and ping-pong the child from one parent to the other every week. I never in my life saw so many underdeveloped and boring men, I feel like talking to children all the time. Even fucking Romania delivers better men. "But Alex, at least they are not violent as your romanian machos" I thought the same thing until I had some talks with policemen and people here. Domestic violence is shit high. Those cute puppy guys become violent after years of frustration coming from not understanding the feminine perspective. If you don’t expect standards of quality from men, they simply don’t evolve. Call me right wing but just handing welfare to people without a strong culture based on dignity, healthy masculinity talk, and discipline paired with video games and all this bullshit escapism we invented makes people weak and lazy. If this nonsense continues, I predict women taking over most leadership positions, because somebody has to fucking do it, but most of them won’t do it because they want it. They do it because men are worthless and someone has to steer the country. As Leo said, women go for feelings, but feelings don’t always lead to truth, so expect some feelingcracy. These are just 2 points, there are more. This leads to the paradox of having the most socialist states in the world with the most pilled people in the world. Yes, some people can live well alone, but even those people still need at least a good romantic relationship or some sex from time to time. If you live in the US, I talk to you from the future, be careful with these excess of Green traps. I did not want to believe Leo until I moved here and experienced it myself. Let diversity come into your life, not only to your basement, socialize, make new friends, be open to divergent opinions, crack jokes, let men be men, teach people about Yin and Yang. Don’t identify with your feelings, don’t get offended by opinions, see the double standards in your social circle. Good luck!

This guy is a far right idiot. Most of his takes are exaggerated claims or fake news.

Watch your whataboutism. Where did I say Sweden does not kick ass in business? There are some lazy asses but they have a strong innovation and entrepreneurship culture. They suck att socialization, directness, honesty, emotional intelligence, letting men be men, while women are socially acceptable to be men. But, They kick ass in innovation, business, politeness, not violating people autonomy, space. Progressive policies, taming capitalism Etc

I already told you that living in some backwards village in Romania and talking with us here is not a very healthy way of living. It is like living in medieval Europe and talking with some aliens from the future. Rural Romania is so fucking backwards that you either leave it forever or forget about personal development.

@Daniel Balan you compare institutions and businesses created by swedes and romanians. These things are so obviously better in Sweden. I talk about social skills and relationships. Of course romanians are corrupt as hell, this is why I made the comparison in the first place, to show the paradox. You are too focused on the romanians from the countryside. Go and live in Cluj or Bucharest and meet some programmers and affluent guys there. They are quite ok from many points of view. The countryside baboons are beyond worse, don't focus on them. A fair comparison would be to find guys who at least had the possibilities to come to the city and modernize their life. Of course a dirt poor pre-modern guy from a medieval romanian village had no chance to develop beyond the macho baboon state.

@Daniel Balan Dude, of course Romanians suck in their own way. But in regards to social skills and masculinity I see a big lack in swedish guys. The romanians are in general still too macho and manipulative but România still has a culture of rite of passage for men. You cannot call yourself a man willy nilly in Romania. There still is a distinction between what is a boy and what is a man in Ro, while here... It is not accepted to make that distinction. You have to come and live here in order to understand. I only mean it in terms of social skills and masculinity. Which does not exclude the presence of toxic masculinity in romanians, there still is plenty especially in the lower educated tier of guys. Do not go into history, it does not jave anything to do with that. Men even 70 years ago were completely different. I sometimes meet very mature and serious romanians. They are like this because there is no momy welfare state to help you there, you have to fend for yourself. Yes they are not the most refined and progressive in terms of their education, theories and political knowledge but the emotional maturity can be impressive. I know it is a bold statement but try to see between the lines.

Yeah, I mean I love Sweden and I can talk a ton about the good stuff here, but those good things are already told by so many and they are obvious. I would say the good stuff here weigh more that the bad stuff and I think I will have a good life here.

It can be that. I mean the Vikings were not the most feminine people lmao

Yup

Sweden took waaay more refugees per capita than the other european countries. It was more like: "look at us you racists"

If you are not open to embracing different cultures, letting go of your silly cultural norms, then don't take in so many people from very different backgrounds lol. It is like me going regularly to japanese restaurants in order to signal my japaneseness but I actually hate that food lol.

they mostly bring problems if they are not handled correctly. If they take tons of refugees with very different cultural background than the locals and the locals are some easily offended anti-social pussies, well then you might meet some problems. But mostly, immigration is a net positive.

Agree. We had The Bible in the past, now we have Gender Trouble.

are you ironic?

many lefties are ok, it is the small "woke" minority that fucks up our image. The problem in Scandinavia is not neccesarly only about lefties, it is a individualitic, conformist, conflict avoidant culture that rose way before we coined "wokeism". Wokeism that came after 2010s just supercharged this culture, it was like putting salt on a wound.

of course we generalize, but it only needs a majority in order to create the country's cultural values.

Why are you spending so much time here? For almost 10 years you stay here and explain the same basic stuff to some newbie kids who, most of them, just search a community, not serious personal development guidance. Maybe thousands of hours spent here for what? It does not help your business in any meaningful way. Most people here are not serious about this work, almost nobody is serious about this work, this work is done alone. Not even paywalled discord servers and forums are serious communities, it is almost impossible to create a serious community around self-improvement. Okay you want a place where people come and get their questions answered. I would just pay some moderators to take care of that and focus on myself. Your teachings are top notch but it seems there is a dissonance between what you teach and what you do. You tell us to stay in solitude, to burn our egos to the ground with boredom while you spend thousands of hours here. You tell us that you are very introvert and love solitude but you are here talking to newbies all day? What are your motivations? And for you guys who search a sense of community on a forum, It is like trying to meet your sexual needs by masturbating in a jar. Peace.

Nice explanation. Actually, 10 years ago when I was a lost kid, I had no good rational tools to give me the direction in life. There were the feelings and intuition that put me on the right path. I discovered Leo 10 years ago, but I also discovered other clickbaity influencers at the same time. It was my feelings that told me Leo is more right than those fucks. Then Leo gave me the rational tools I needed in order to direct my life in a masculine way. However, for some people, feelings can be deceiving, they stem, as you said from unconscious thoughts. If lots of trauma and bad beliefs drive your emotions and intuition, then you can go very south letting your feminine side steer you. I really believe that there is possible to find a woman who is both attractive and feminine but rational and grounded in truth. Maybe they are very rare in our broken society.

Dude, I lost so much sex because of you. 🙏 Not just telling something's wrong with her, telling stuff that wake bad emotions. Like telling that society is fucked up in some aspects. Not just women, this new version of child guys can be even more sensitive to that. At least women are cute when they are innocent. The truth leads you to fapping. Thanks for the insight about escaping the matrix brings you more suffering than pleasure. No doubt people avoid us when preaching truth, it is actually a great survival strategy to avoid such freaks. Avoid us people! we are fucked up.

the camel and the eye of a needle. You cannot simply get truth, you have to be part of it. These people are nowhere near there.

What a buffon lol

This was a bang. I think my fetish is to watch this with my future hot philosopher girlfriend that is so intelligent and mature that she can switch from femininity to masculinity based on context. But probably, when I will have that experience, the alarm klock will wake me up, and will continue to keep my biggest passion, philosphy, for myself while telling all the kids around stuff that wakes good feelings in them so I keep my sex needs and survival in check Cheers master! Fuck that modesty, you are the truth king.

Great idea! Thanks!

Yea, some guys can have some pretty skewed views on this topic. It is mostly fueled by frustration but also patriarchal legacy. And that shit that Orion also advocates for, that men have to be served by women for some reason is retarded.

@Emerald no offense but it is pretty clear to me that you have some personal issue with this subject. Idk, maybe a macho guy hurt you or something. This level of closed mindedness is only given by a personal ego involvement all due respect, try and find the issue. Even if nobody said something about machos or some toxic masculine shit, you keep bringing it up.