Alexop

@Leo Gura yes, it is a balance between meeting your needs and staying away from sickness.

It depends a bit on your personality also. If you are a spicy masculine person, just being around normies and holding your handbrake on all the time is not fun. It can feel like you sell your soul to the devil for the sake of conformity, meeting needs and not hurting others. On the other hand, there are people like Eckhart Tolle, who is very developed but also authentically feminine and chill, he has an easier time being around normies.

If you tune it well, it is smarter than virtually anyone you ever met in person. It is amazing what good job these AI people did. But you have to tune it, because the default GPT is very feminine and politically correct so it does not incubate extremists and to not traumatize you with too much truth.

Yes! That's it. Had to learn it the hard way. I had an ideology in my head in the past that I have to be honest with people otherwise I am a lier, but no, you just cannot be mask off all the time. That is femininity basically, strategically holding back your honesty in order to get the best outcome for everyone.

Yea that makes sense. As Stage Green comes online, the feminity bias kicks in.

I don't dare to give you an answer as I did not live there. I think it goes towards that if it is not already there.

I've spent lots of time among Green people the last years and suppression of/misunderstanding masculinity is one of their biggest weaknesses. They are culturally castrating their men then hating them lol.

Kind of. I mean even some boring dude from Sweden is better than a shit life in a third world country as a woman.

I think most of Scandinavia is like this. it is the pinnacle of this problem, as this gender blind ideology and underdevelopment among men is the highest.

This is why you either run away from that kind of society (eg. Brazil countryside) or forget about personal development. It will only make your life even more mizerable, because you now will know how bad your life is and how much better it could be. haha Not that the life of a leftist woman in Stockholm, Sweden is a lot better, it is a bit better but not with much. If she wants kids and a relationship, she is basically forced to accept a soyguy that she is not really into, but there is nothing better she can find so she takes him. She will basically have to raise the children and the man. The man is usually a boy that helps her around the house and with finances. He will get so frustrated because of the sexless, non-romantic relationhsip that will eventually become passive-aggressive then actively aggressive. Not to mention the gaslighting and toxic positivity, pretending everything is "ok". The easiest way for a woman to be happy here is staying single, which many do from what I see. Because many older men buy women from Asia lol.

Interesting, so many types of shitty men.

Traditional countries also suck at these dynamics, not as hard though. Many men there are some macho jerks who treat women like shit.

@koops exactly

Yup, this is why they are millionaires, because they focus so much on making money. I saw a reality show with a millionaire from Sweden, he is like a complete child, from the way he dresses, they way he behaves, the way he talks. But yea he knows how to survive in this capitalist dog eat dog madness. Man, relationships are so important to the average folk. no yacht, no Lamborghini can replace that. You suck at masculinity vs. femininity/social skills/ inner work etc. you are fucked for life. The average folk will never be happy by moving to a cave.

@Leo Gura yes! I am the other, I am the Trumpist fool who spams X, I am that virgin incel who live with his mother at 35 yo. Once in while I feel like sharing how special this work is on your alien incubator forum. I'll do this work until I'll grow a third telepatic eye sir! I mostly relate well with people regardless of their development, but my relocation to Sweden affected me a bit, as I am a quite masculine and spicy person. People are fragile here, and it's not just me who said this, dated a French girl recently and said she feels exactly the same. As masculinity vs. femininity is a huge passion of mine, I have to keep it for myself, I think that is the biggest problem. This country suffers in silence because they don't understand this subject and it saddens me a lot to see it.

Ocean view on one side and a bird's eye view of the city on the other. So you can remind yourself how superior you are to the plebs who live below.

I will look for cave prices in my area.

very few people do serious development. My post is just a reminder of that. Even if I build a YT channel and talk with people and shit, I will still have the same perspective. Of course there are unmet needs in the middle, this is the core of serious work, you give up survival treats for truth. This is why people don't do the work, because they love their survival nonsense. And if I point this I am not instantly underdeveloped as you think, I am different than you, different personality, different survival situation. This conformity nonsense in spiritual community is stupid, we cannot all be Eckhart Tolles talking like we are some feminine sedated sloths. Look at Peter Ralston, I am more like that, we are not the same. Put a spicy introvert at a table with 10 extroverts talkin about furniture and shit and see how well she/he feels. And then you judge the introvert for being frustrated or some shit. No, they are DIFFERENT.

You get it. She projects her worldview onto mine and perceives it as judgment, frustrations, underdevelopment. People pointing stuff about others = underdeveloped behaviour all the time Basic hippie positivity ideology.

I love women, they are amazing. Those who brainwash all women to become men should burn in hell although poor them are forced to become men when they have less and less real men in society.

Yes, that's it. The traps of Stage Green are no joke, you can basically brainwash a whole country into this no personality conformism. It is amazing. And this is a big reason why Sweden failed so hard with immigration. They just wanted to help them but they actually do not want to live close to them. They just hang out with their old pathetic friends they met 200 years ago. It is very hard to make friends when you don't open up and show who you are, when you don't show any personality, because you are basically boring as fuck, like talking to chatgpt. They were taught early on that showing personality is not acceptable.

Indeed. This shows how backwards our country still is.

I am more reactive to stuff and spicy, always was. There is a genetical component to this, be careful of categorising everyone based on your genetics. Just because you are calm and feminine does not mean automatically you're above those who are a bit more reactive, this is what spiritual people miss many times, they hate masculinity, frustrations etc and point it as generally bad in others. I think genetics play a role in everything. I am discerning as you said, of course I understand why people do no care about truth, it is just cool to share my thoughts

Tudor Dunks. He is the best I could find. He kills it in terms of economy and many other topics but I had a 2 hour plus conversation with him about masculinity and femininity and I was shocked to see he could not even understand that we have a feminine and a masculine side. He said that is sexist to call femininity for femininity. What we know here on this forum is world class, it is so rare that it is amazing.

Beautiful, thanks for that!