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Great! Thanks!

thanks guys! Appreciate!

I am 25, my friends are 23 and 20. I don`t know many details about their problem. My dad had a mental breakdown during final exams in college from what I know, he always was a more awkward and weird person, but nothing serious. I`ve been through many difficulties emotionally speaking, but I`ve made it through without breakdowns, now I consider that I am quite a mentally stable person.

what do you think about the work and travel program this summer? we will lose quite a bit of money if we pull out. I saw that the the state of Idaho where we got a job in the mountain region has very few covid cases. do you think things will improve in one month? Are people still able to go for vacations? I ask here this question because I trust you guys, I want an unbiased answer. Most answers I got are biased or just ignorant.

Made my decision to quit, nevermind.

Hi! This might sound even funny. I don`t have any problem at all getting an erection when I`m alone or when we(me and my GF) are dressed up, but when we undress and get ready for sex, it gets soft. I`m sure that the problem is psychological, however we managed to have sex for like two times, but for many times I failed getting it up. I should mention that I had severe social anxiety in the past. If you need more info about me, be welcome to ask. Any help is welcome

The be honest I was attracted to Peterson because I saw the excess of green in where I lived back then(Sweden). Listening to him was a backlash to the pathological part of stage green, but after listening with an open mind to him, he was not that appealing anymore. Of course stage green can make mistakes, they are pioneering the society, implementing stuff that nobody knows if it will work or not. Making the society better req experiments that can sometimes fail. Now I don`t buy into the bullshit of those who criticize the nordic countries, Canada and so on. They make mistakes, but I don`t care, they`ll solve them, we have to respect them for the courage of leading humanity further into the future. JP appeals to people`s frustations, especially the frustrations of men not finding the women they need, it is much easier to listen to a guy who excuses their failure of finding women than fixing the problem. His "word salad" is like music to the ears of the ego.

People in sad situations. I was wondering how unconscious a person needs to be in order to accept that situation. I think any awareness building technique would help them. The doctor`s approach is quite shallow, a lifecoach and a psychotherapist would be welcome.

Word! Leo said: You don't give a fuck about me, you care only about the value I provide because it serves your survival. IDK man, you can be as spiritually and mystic as you want, but if you`re not in practice, it is just farting in the wind.

@DreamScapeI found a great girl now, hehe

thanks I`ve also been very depressed a year ago. Most probably it`s the stress plus performance anxiety. Don`t worry she is super hot hahah.

I was dating a girl when I was 18, and she was quite rude. Swearing and speaking shit, and one day she called me to bring her to my city, I told her to take a bus, and she said: No, I have you, my slave. From that moment I swore I`ll never date such women in my live, better alone.

Sure, I`m 24, I had episodes where I was watching porn like everyday, the days where I was depressed. But I also had better times where I did not watch porn for like 6 months. Now I don`t watch anymore for 3 months almost. The social anxiety began at 16 years old and slowly started to decrease, I was feeling like everybody was laughing at me, that I look weird. Now I don`t have any anxiety at all, but when I`m in a intimate interaction with a woman, I get... well, idk, let`s say numb and insensible to any stimuli. No sweaty palms and shit. When we are dressed up, I have it hard as a rock, it`s almost comic haha. I don't know what more to say, I don't have any chronic disease or stuff like that. I have some religious parents who told me that sex is something we don't speak about, it is sinful. Typical stage blue folks.

I think one or two meals eaten close to each other In a day is enough, you are more productive and feeling more fresh. If you`re only eating all day like those gym obsessed people, all the energy goes into you stomach all the time. agree, some blood tests and stuff from time to time are a good sign that you don`t drift away.

Of course you prefer some people over others, you prefer those who have similar values like you, most likely those of your level or higher. If you really care about your GF, you let her leave if she chooses that, you accept every decision that makes her happier. Reacting volcanic to her decision to leave is not authentic love but only ego. You can`t take care of everybody by yourself, you can only take care of a limited number of people like your GF, family and friends. You take care of everybody by voting for a good government. I hope this is helpful, correct me if I miss your point.

I had a friend who was obsessed with picking up girls, quite shallow and low quality person. They are into pickup for a reason, they want to get what they want, and this is what they do with you also, not just with girls. What am I getting from this relationship? X, Y, Z. Ok it is worth it, if I don`t get it anymore, I leave.

Many would say that if you cannot accept them as they are and live with them in the same house without any drama, you are not developed enough. I don`t buy into that shit, you are at a different level, you overcame the stage blue way of life, you have different style of living, different mentality. Even if you accept them as they are, they would not accept you as you are, they will try to drag you at their level. What you need to do in the future depends on how much you care and need them. For sure don`t try to change them, only if they ask for advice. I have the same problem with my parents, I just moved away and do stuff in my own style, although I still talk to them from time to time.

A funny example of how JP`s fanboys flip the truth in order to match their ego. I don`t judge, I was there, but this one is amazing. Compassion is bad bro :))

I agree with you, JP has also good parts. That masculine approach on personal development, kind of aggressive but it helps some people who need a harsh boost. I was saying once he is stage yellow, but after watching more of his speeches... I`d rather say more orange than yellow. Yes, he is not simple minded, but he needs more empathy and sensibility. Yellow embodies green, I don`t feel any green in him. My opinion tough.

Oh my man, how I feel you. Yah, quite hard to find a good girl. Your standards are not too high, the people are too low. Of course, just look at what is marketed around, go to youtube trending, at least in my country(Romania) people watch the most unconscious bullshit possible. These are the times man, I`m also struggling with finding a good girl, but still bad luck. I understand them, I could`ve been exactly the same as them, just a zombie with no purpose, passions, dreams and so on. I was lucky to experience a lot of pain and have an ambitious personality to solve it. That made me who I am. Other people were lucky to have great parents who knew how to raise them, and you were also lucky in some way that you escaped the zombie life. But most people, unfortunately, did not. I can`t tell you an exact percentage but there are a few great girls out there, just be patient and trust yourself. Don`t try to be somebody else, it will end up quite bad. Girls are attracted to people of their level of consciousness, so if you are stage green/yellow, a stage orange girl(most 20 years old are there) won`t be very interested in you. Keep up!

We need connection with others like water and air but that can be transcended as Leo said in his video about loneliness. But I think very few people are ready for that.

Thanks guys, I decided to postpone it, I have to solve other stuff this period. I think I`ll try LSD first.

I finally found some people who are organizing ayahuasca retreats in my homecountry Romania. A girl who lived in Peru then came back home to help people with amazonian remedies, I met her in person and she is quite nice and aware. The retreat will contain 4 days: 2 ayahuasca ceremonies, one Sapo Kambo and sananaga and yopo which I need more research on. It costs around 500$ which are quite some money for me and I don`t know if it is worth it. What do you think? Yea, never tried anything like this before.

Man.. First, please write normal. It is clear that Leo triggered your ego in some way, otherwise you would not write in this offensive way. It is easy to see who is a devil right now. Yes, scientific method as it is done by many scientists right now is a worldview, it is your worldview from what I see, we need to respect yours and you need to respect other people`s worldviews. Of course Leo can get off course sometimes, put yourself into his shoes. It is very hard to get it all right when you speak about soo many topics in such a depth.

Sapiens and 21 lessons for the 21 century, both by Yuval Noah Harari Radical Honesty by Brand Blaton