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Healthy Blue. He also goes to church and is religious. Not any religion, orthodox Christianity, the most conservative, patriarchal and outdated form. To be Yellow he has to be aware of the spiral. He charms you because he is a humble kind guy. He will put Ilie Bolojan as prime minister who is a neoliberal. We have to wait and see his actions. He seems dull, which is not a good sign keeping in mind the macho environment of romanian politics. CTP gave him and equation to resolve and he asked him to send it to his email, but he posted it on TikTok instead which was very disrespectful I could come with a more informed opinion but did not have patience to go through the debates and listen to him. Too busy with Orange/Green/Yellow politics of Sweden. Romanian politics make me sick. Just be careful who you call Yellow, Yellow is a very rare thing that people jump to attach to their favorite heroes. JP used to come with some convincing complex arguments years ago, which might convince you he has Yellow in him. Look at him now, a bunch of Gen Z kids make him look like an idiot.

Bad luck I am romanian and just saw your comment. Nicusor is not even far from Yellow my friend, he is a neoliberal Blue/Orange kind of ok person. Yellow people are far too conscious to waste their life in such disgusting places like Romanian politics. I recommend Tudor Dunks to better understand Europe's and romanian politics. USR party, the pinnacle of progress in romanian politics are Orange neoliberals who named the libertarian Claudiu Nasui as finance minister. Nicusor is a great fit for Romania right now as it goes from Blue to Orange. Though neoliberal politics is not what we need right now, but spiral dynamics teaches us a lesson, you cannot jump stages. I am skeptical that the neoliberals will increase the tax to GDP ratio which is crucial right now.

It starts to crystallize in my head how to behave with these "nice" retards. At least I am mean in your face when I am mean, but they are mean in an insidious sneaky way. Even with their children! God forbid to have such a dad. Just image how much anxiety is instilled in the child with thier passive aggressive comments and behaviours. "My dear you can do whatever you want, you can stay home or you can visit your grandparents, but you know how much they love you and want to meet you" They are the most toxic people you can have around. At least machos are mean in your face not like in gaslighting passive aggressive way. They gather together and make you feel to be the problem in the group. They use your need for connection as a weapon to put themselves over you. "Want love from us, be like us" When i meet a passionate exclusive guy like me who knows stuff and dares to say stuff even if risking to create conflict, I get inspired. But when they meet such a guy they get offended and jealous. They try to knock him down. My conclusion from all this thread: Deal with them politely from a distance. They will come into your life as clients, colleagues in activities, friends of your friends/spouse etc. keep your boundaries when they try to gaslight you into doubting your divine masculine. Keep them at an arm's length, and if they insist with their crap, confront them directly. POWER is the word in those situations. Don't lose confidence and keep them in their place, which is at the bottom of the present group's social hierarchy. Don't hang around in groups where they are in majority. You can get inflicted with "niceness" in the same way you pick an accent, you just wake up with it.

humans are worse than rats. At least rats just shut up and do their pest destructive shit, but we also invent stories about how the destructive things we do are actually good

I appreciate your efforts to convince me but I don't think a society, not a tribe, was experiencing femininity as our Western countries. It never was like this, they were all patriarchal. They had to be in order not to collapse because of the harsh social and geo-political environment they lived in. You tell me we do not have a masculinity crisis makes me even more concerned. A mature woman who teaches personal development cannot see this? Concerning. You tell me that when thousands of women complain about men they are just being unreasonable and hysterical? I lived in both patriarchal and progressive countries and the same shit is seen. Women who just "cope" with men's laziness, immaturity, lack of understanding of how women work, lack of leadership, very boring etc. Maybe you referred to toxic masculinity, that we have in loads, there is no scarcity of toxic masculinity. And this comes from a guy who shit a lot on woke narratives. This is what I mean by treating People like children. Do not assume that they are open to talk anything. Imagine opening this conversation with a stranger and disagreeing. Nobody wins. I get called misandrist,sexist or whatever "ist" or even dumb and they do not learn anything. Most people are "children" because they cannot dettach their personal involvement from a conversation. An counter-argument to them is a personal attack.

I get your point, it is a fine line and it cannot be reduced to a small rule. It depends alot. I want to point out that I assumed too much that people around me are open to personal development and ideas which they are not. Even Leo said to not use personal development and ideas to create connection with strangers if I remember right. But yea, my statement cam be misunderstood and I should not use it like that anymore. Maybe something like: "Do not assume strangers are like you".

Thanks 🙏

Damn, you ever heard of jokes? Yes there are some, but insignificant numbers. The main trend is being a good boy. You don't do that, the majority of the society avoids you. Of course you'll find some sketchy Red/Orange groups

Yes, sometimes personal expereince is important. Especially now with so may grifters who pose as experts on podcasts and social media. The market is so oversaturated with idiots who express opinions that when a really experienced guy comes out, he has little chance to catch too much attention. Anyway, emotional undrstanding is deeper than intellectual understanding. If you don't live through the emotional experience, then you don't get it that deeply. We, men, have no idea how a woman feels when walking on a shady street in the middle of the night or to get emotionally addicted to an abuser. Women have no idea how it feels to have a deep craving for sex and romantic connection and every woman ignoring you.

@BlueOak whatever, niceness come from weakness, kindness comes from abundance. She shat a bit too much on them in the video.

Gabor Mate used to say: sometimes there i no non-painful alternative. If you choose to be authentic, you can get rejected. If you choose fakeness to get love, you feel the pain of not being authentic.

Fixing society is like fixing a wooden house, a complex broken system. You have a toolbox(masculinity), you have paint and a brush(femininity). If you just paint the rotten wood, the house will still collapse soon even if it looks nice. What you first have to do is to remove the rotten wood with your masculine toolbox and replace it with fresh wood, then you can cover everything in hippie dippie femininity. Femininity CANNOT exist in an unsafe, rotten environment. And forcing women to create the safety because "gender equality" bullshit, is idiocy. This ideology actually increases sexism and sadness among women.

Niceness is this: You referred to kindness

I was referring to immature postmodern people in general. Nice guys are not feminine, they are unstable and underdeveloped. Men need challenges in order to grow and they don't get it. They try to ape femininity in order to get the pussy and love they need from those around. Feminine people are fun, spontaneous, alive, even if averse to masculinity. Also important to notice that when I mean "woke" I mean those immature, relatively young and inexperienced people who were indoctrinated with Green values they cannot handle. I don't mean stage Green in general. Healthy Green people are nowhere near as dysfunctional.

They see everything through the empathy lens, of course masculinity is bad if seen through that lens. If all you have is a hammer, all you see is nails. If everyhing you have is femininity, all logic, hierarchical systems, dettachment, exclusivity, individualism, and disagreement is evil.

@Aaron p too many times I made myself vulnerable in front of strangers just to be hurt and misunderstood by their foolishness. My statement in the beginning sounds cynical, but it is actually a great survival strategy in today's broken world. The wokies made me feel the most excluded, I never felt more excluded than in Stage Green groups. Everything that is not inclusive enough is excluded. If you ar naturally more masculine: disagreeable, dettached from emotions, passionate about exclusive ideas, if your raise above them in any way, they get jealous/offended and you are tacitly avoided. All that while they shout for inclusivity. I don't like to call them Green because Green means and integrated Orange(masculine). It is more like a broken Blue/Green

@Aaron p I can put on Grandmas dress right now and mackup on my face and still be a man. Gender is about behaviour not looks, this is what wokies have to understand. Even their gender studies Godess Judith Butler tells them that: you perform the gender. @Emerald the Vikings are gone. They said:"fuck it, if we stay here longer we will grow pussies."

Bullshit jobs in corporations are a clear example of private sector inefficiency. Libertarians brag about how efficient private sector is. My ass

Tax wealth not work, Gary Stevenson's solution seems the most legit until now. The ideological left is too simple minded and emotionally driven to apply this correctly, they lack systems understanding.

The thing is that we do not live in dictatorships in Europe, but the leftists act like we do. Some people are afraid of change and we have to respect their position.

We have mostly extreme lack of empathy and too much empathy. On the one hand the lack of empathy towards Palestine and other third world cultures feeds terrorism/refugees/hate On the other hand too much empathy of some European countries also feed into far right by receiving too many refugees and not being able to take care of all of them. Tier one groups are like a wrecking ball, they just swinging from one extreme to another wrecking everything around.

The problem is when you are forced to interact with such guys and they don't accept that you are higher status than them. "We are are equals man" In some sense it is not surprising that so many people have enough with wokies. Their worldview is so out of this world. After you figure out how Stuff really works, you see them as you see flat-earthers. The problem is that the woke alternative people find is the Orange red pill

Yup, women just tell you to be kind and be yourself or whatever, then you see the same women sleeping with the ones who don't follow their advice. It is like a test: do you come to me for advice on how to get women? Then you are not good enough to get them. This be kind shit works when she does not have other options. When 100 guys are kind and nice to her, she will choose the one that is kind but also confident, careless, masculine, high status etc.

@Raze word! @Emerald what people like me an Leo are promoting is not manosphere. Manosphere is Stage Orange, which is under the soft egalitarian narrative which overwhelmingly dominates in Scandinavia. We promote something that si above the egalitarian madness of Green. I totally get why you are put off by the children advice. I was also. But after a while I got it. With most women this will work well. In the case of a very mature woman like you, another, more nuanced approach is needed. With you I won't bother applying that technique. I would rather have in mind the feminine-masculine polarity. If you would go into your feminine side, then I would just joke and have fun and lead you or whatever polarity stuff. If you would go into you masculine side, then we would have a more serious, logical conversation like I do with men. But that should to be avoided as much as possible in the attraction phase as I noticed it can lead to disagreement and loss of attraction. For example, I don't think this conversation we have right now will make you very attracted to me. After sex, you will get away with a lot more nonsense and mistakes done. Not that you should make mistakes but some masculine to masculine horn bashing won't end the relationship I mean. Actually my biggest opposition to this treat women like children was that I long for a woman who is mature enough to be able to appreciate my advanced ideas because this is my biggest value. I don't have lots of money or an amazing social circle, the only great value I can offer is my knowledge and advanced teasing/humour which req maturity to be appreciated. The thing is that the Green narrative is NOT working. I don't care how well it sounds, I am a witness of it not working. Come to Sweden and convince yourself. If we do not give clear instructions about what exactly is the difference between men and women, nothing good will come out. If some men misapply what we teach, that is not my problem. I won't give up my smartphone just because some fool misuses smartphones.

We can build rocketships but cannot understand what a man and what a woman is and how to relate to each other. Neither red pill tards or far left softies. It just doesn't stop to amaze me.