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It is always like this in all self-improvement communities, no matter physical or online. It is not like in sports where most pro players have an idea of Of what they are doing. In self-improvement you can get out with spinning shit up because there are no real consequences for it. You don't need more than 18 years old and 10 hybernating neurons to come here and just attack people who really do stuff and dare to stick out and be vulnerable by saying uncomfortable stuff. Maybe I did a bit too much of that in this thread. Sorry OP 🤙🙏. We should be more understanding. We are now in a femininity bias culture, anything that smells like exceptionality and straight forward truths is penalised with mob justice. It is like: be vulnerable but not in toxic ways that we don't like.

Yes I feel you, maybe you expect too much from a relationship? We are in the drak ages, society is as it is... Don't expect a woman to make you happy.

I think she is reffering to the Stage Orange women socializing other women to be hookupy, independent, plastic surgery and makeup brainwashed etc. Those women don't even appear on my radar. I am basically allergic to Orange women, those values are atithetical to womanhood and find them unattarctive. They feel like men in women's bodies. AND maybe this is WHY men only sleep with them a few times and then leave, because only the body is feminine so they only want the body not the person. On the other hand, the Green women I date don't present these problems. there are highly conformist Green women too and it comes up in different ways. Some Green women can exaggerate with their woke shit but that can be managed by not talking about politics, I learned to not do it and since then it is much better. Say the magic words and change subject. yea sure, LGBT, racism, feminsim etc. Like saying Jesus Christ is great in front of a heavy ass Christian, they will love you. You don't tell a Christian that God is not in the sky. Most Green women are very nice and feminine, they are loyal, they want long term relationships, especially when they get over 30, most of them want kids, they are pretty mature and lovely. The problem is that they are overwhelmed by abundance of choice now with all this social media and dating apps madness, so they are picky. They are cold to new men they meet, they are hard to date organically due to lack of third places. The biggest problem in dating nowadays is not women as these frustrated sexless men say, it is mostly social media, dating apps and MEN. Yes, most men suck ass nowadays and you can't change my opinion. I'd rather take a coffee with a woman than a man all day even if no sex/dating is in my mind. But that is also because I live in Sweden, where the feminine bias destroyed men completely. In Romania I could still meet fun, mature men. But here? My God... Of course feminism is changing the structure of society in a feminine biased way, but that should not be an excuse to not grow into a mature developed man. Nowadays it is not enough to just bring some money in the house. Women have their own money now, especially in states with strong social security. You have to bring something more to the table than just some sperm and money. They will consider you as an option if you present emotional maturity, discipline, inspire safety and security, are fun and humble, loyal and interesting. But as I said, even if you do all these, it is hard to catch their attention because of the fucked up social media world we live in and because they met so many low quality men that they don't have the lust or time to get to know you better. Go to dancing classes, Green events, Green festivals, cold approach, and there is a chance they will give you a chance. But it is not only their fault, is the the whole system that is fucked up.

Of course good philosophy is about teaching people how to think for themselves. This is why I want to be a coach. I want to let them contemplate the answers. That is the safest bet with most people. I also reverse engineer Leo's and other philosophers ideas, I contemplate how they came to those conclusions and that is also huge. Some pople are just gifted and extremely ambitious. I never seen a guy like Leo, he is a machine. Most guys I met were just disappointingly stupid, maybe this is why I have this frustration about guys. The ones I made friends with I did because they were interested in self-improvement. But they disappointed me one by one chickening out and getting lost in human bullshit. And there is a big reason for why men are so shit because we are so different. And today's society fits women better, even if there still are remnants of the patriarchy here and there. Men develop in challenging environments, where they are constantly pushed and held accountable by their peers, not in this nany society that we live right now. I let you contemplate deeper how men and women tend to approach truth. I got bored to spin this subject around. This is what happens when we disconnect from our natural survival environment, we start spinning shit up. Not exactly. Those who haven't deconstructed patriarchy are machos. You can deconstruct your macho programming and still be a pussy as a man. What we notice right now is two big types of men: machos and "nice" guys. Both of them come from a deep conformism instead of conscious development. Machos are masculinity without refinement and feminine integration, nice guys are just boysh guys who remained in their teens for life because they were not properly forged into manhood. It is basically femininity bias applied across the board. You can't just equalize something that is biologically different. If you don't let them be heroes they won't be villagers, they will become degenerates. If you don't let them do more for you, they will do less. If you don't let them be men, they will be children.

The only escape is acceptance. Accept anything that's thrown at you.

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@Lila9 Leo wrote it on his blog. Contemplate it. Of course there are women who kill it in philosophy. It is a generalization. Men are more passionate and nerdy about abstractization and "figuring out shit", more autistic, more lone wolfs. This of course if they are properly trained and forged into manhood, because, as I mentioned, we have an epidemic of men-pussies. Women are killing them in almost all domains right now. You see... This is why I feel so reluctant to pursue serious philosophy teaching. You will just get tons of backlash and shit shows because you threaten people's egos.

@oOo you good bro 😂? I did not ask for advice, it was just a statement. I fixed my Internal dissonance, I realized that these "new men" are just a bunch of o pussies that don't dare to dig deep and fix their lives and understand reality. I keep my philosophy for myself. And I am happy that I am a straight man. If I had to date these worthless man-children I would maybe have hanged myself already.

Is it more conformist than the MacBook/apple cult??

Yes, actualized rat.

Actualized fans now be like:

@enchanted thx, will check 🙂

through gender you can implicitly tell others who you are. It is a form of non-verbal communication. Instead of putting a sticker with He/him on your forehead, you could show that you are a man and have a dick in other, smarter ways. They way gender studies delululs deal with gender is non-sense, but for surviving more effectively is a deep useful thing. For understanding yourself and designing a society that creates healthy people is a useful thing.

There is no such thing as "we work now on capitalism". There is always a combination between socialism and capitalism. Scandinavia has more socialism than USA. Is Scandinavia socialist? Hell no. It only has more powerful and efficient socialist elements. Amazon, Facebook, Tesla-> capitalism Public roads, FDA, IRS, anti-monopoly laws, labor unions and laws -> socialism. You cannot have a fully socialist country nowadays, it will just fail on the global market.

Good video. This guy gets it. He should change that stupid title, it sound like Andrew Tate shit. Yeah, the feminization of media in Sweden is pissing people off for sure. Is is now less about: what happened? and more about: what does this mean? who is hurt? and who is to blame? These guys will replace JP. JP went nuts, now more reasonable people will call out this issue. I think we will be good. Human behaviour changes rapidly nowadays. Feminists will adapt and nuance their approach. Those imature, delululu wokies will be called out by the more mature leftists and will be phased out.