Alexop

This is the actual world situation of the world. I gave up trying to seek understanding about my sensible life parts, because people will just project shit or create drama. Or gaslight you, that is quite common in dating.

What patterns can't they spot? Not to be rude, but a bit rude should one be here because we are here to develop and become better not just treating each other like we are children.... What exactly is so "gold" here: ?? She has to understand that consciousness is something else, it is not the same as say: being good at drawing or whatever simple task. The difference between learning some skill inside the dream and becoming aware that you are in a dream 😊 This is why raising consciousness is among hardest things one can do in life. This is why we can send a man to the moon but cannot solve apparently simple tasks as corruption in our systems and of course Inside each of us.

Yea. For sure one should have thier "thing" that they exell at. But rasing consciousness is the best investment of them all. It will considerably change your life. Not necessarily for the better in the beginning. Becoming aware of the smell in the room is painful and it might take some years until you'll be able to escape the room. Ignorance is bliss. Many chimps live a happy life.

Craftsmanship can be seen as a inherited talent. Ambition is also strongly connected to personality. Big Interest into things and craft is another part of your nature. So if you are born an ambitious person interested in things and craft that also happens to be talented at it will make a big difference in that specialization. Consciousness can maybe help you even more, especially of your craft deals with other people, systems, self-deception, ego

@Emerald consciousness can be seen as a meta thing that affects those "specializations" in life as you call them. High consciousness will make the individual more prone to faster, deeper excellence in the "specializations" they go for. Leo can be a better nutritionist, doctor, teacher in a very short time than most dummies who studied and practiced this for decades. Consciousness helps him understand how groupthink, corrupt systems etc. affect our knowledge and the way we fix and deal with stuff. 😊

Oh come on Emerald... Yes, Leo is more conscious than the average folk. If you can't see this, that is sad. That is not to say all he says is perfect. But after listening to thousands of people, how they talk and how they formulate their ideas, how they do thier research, I can say without a doubt, Leo is among the best. Humbleness can also be toxic if taken to extremes. I am more conscious than average folk and that is okay. I don't care, that is the truth, i run circles around them. That is because certain circumstances determined me to become like this. There is no free will

Great analogy

lol This is exactly why he is single and with no kids. He is above all that survival nonsense and decided to focus on other stuff that maybe humanity needs more right now. We have billions of unconscious chimps who get together and reproduce. Maybe we need less quantity and more quality. Leo also has health problems keep that in mind. If there are two things that make me sick right now they are: the dating environment right now and the post-modern delulus who cannot relativize things. Relative to being aware of your behavior, there is higher and lower consciousness. Ken Wilber is much more aware of his behaviors and thoughts than Donald Trump. I cannot imagine living a life with this post-modern crap in my head. How do you people grasp the world?

And those mature girls are less excited to want to date. Because they become aware of how shitty men are. I don't buy this crap that feminism has taught women to stay single. Educated women stay single because they have the the same problem as me. They have a hard time finding a person that meets them where they are at.

Exactly. This was my biggest frustation in life. I could not create that intellectual intimacy with my exes. Few women can meet me there, and many of them are mentally damaged. Because how the hell do you get motivated to spend years learning this shit we know? Motivated by pain.

So be it. I understand. Many so called developed people use this kind of rhetorics as a coping for their lack of development. They believe they are above normies but they might be even bellow.

This ☝️

To end on a positive note. Enjoy the drama, enjoy the shittyness of society. It is so shitty that is feels like a bad movie made on purpose to be bad. This is the consequence of consciousness. You become conscious of the pathologies, of the misery and suffering. From the absolute perspective everything is Good. Bad is how we call things that negatively affect our survival.

@Miguel1 i feel you. I decided to stop using Hinge. If it helps you, so be it. It is just too lame for me to accept it anymore. You can get success with it in the same way you can get yourself well fed by eating from the garbage can. In regards to our countries. It is a good example of progress going wrong. They couldn't get to much progress economy wise so they pushed for social progress. This is why we still have neo-liberals damaging the economy while the ridiculous situation in dating, clueless children who cannot become men and women, gender identity garbage, loneliness, individualism, entitlement, unchecked immigration etc. has destroyed the fabric of society.

I am exactly there man. I feel you. I am 31 and living in Sweden, which is pretty close culture wise to Finland where you live. Finding friends is hard here, nevermind a healthy partner. I met many mentally damaged girls and I have enough of forcing myself to socialize just to meet a girl. I will tell you my strategy: I go to social activities that I enjoy. Those activities give me a small chance to meet a partner some day, but I don`t do them just because I want to find a woman. I enjoy doing them period. The activities are: -pair dancing (Lindy Hop and West Coast Swing social dance events) 2 times a week -gymnastics gym maybe once a month -occasional climbing gym sessions where I randomly talk with new people at auto-belay area -politics involvement (that is part of my life purpose of influencing Sweden`s politics). With this one you can become popular and you know that popularity is chick krack. -as a bonus for my happiness boost, I do alone activities in nature. This is what I do. NO dating apps. Delete that shit from your phone. Try to enjoy life alone. It is sooo hard to find a healthy beautiful woman that it basically is just a lottery. Especially if you are an introvert like me. Many women are mentally damaged, and those who are healthy either have a man or they are reluctant to investing energy in meeting a man (because they had too many bad experiences with all sorts of boring man-children). Men here a very socially under-developed and bore the shit out of women. Men don't develop because nobody tells you what a man is here and how to become a man. Women are so confused here and don't know why they aren't attracted to almost any man. Good job Scandinavia with your leftist gender sameness garbage! And this man-children disease is spreading fast all-over the world. Because of this crap, dating will be double as hard. Women will just lose interest in dating completely. And even if you meet her, you might separate after a few years. You will go back to the bottom, just a bit older. Do social activities that you enjoy doing anyway and enjoy life alone. If she comes, that will just be a bonus. Good luck brother!