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I use to see 3:33 alot during my intense depression days.

Hey, I am going to do couple of courses on udemy about youtube marketing, wanna get on the journey together? I have realized that instead of asking question here and there, watching youtube videos or reading blogs. It is infact much more wiser to do one or two courses or reading books of the thing you are after. This help you in many ways but most importantly it takes care of all the basic understanding and framework. And now, you are free to ask your question and what you will notice is that your questions will not be basic but concrete and specific.

Q. What do learning means to you? - It is the most meaningful thing as it has the potential to transform world and people. Q. What do you think is the purpose of learning? or should be? - To make sense of the world including physical and metaphysical. We are born with no understanding of everything around us. So we naturally tend to seek and learn about our world and life. - Collecting knowledge to overcome my problems in life or reaching goals. We face difficulty and challenges in life so we seek to find solutions that in turn help us grow bigger than the problems. - For Personal Growth Sometimes, we might not even face a problem but yet we learn and embody new thing for our personal growth. Is there anything else you guys can think of? I am seriously considering dedicating my life to develop a new model of education which would be more practical to improve quality of life of people in different domain of life.

I am trying to figure out my top values in life plus the values that I need to have. Right now, I really lack patience dew to my anxiety. I am always in a rush. So, In establishing patience in my life for growth, is it going to be my virtue or characteristic or trait of my being or a value itself?

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I seem to have group multiple values as a single value and I do not know how I feel about this, is it natural or is something wrong here? My Value Living Authentically ( This is my top most value, It is intended to be cheerful, genuine and living the most out of life no matter what life serve you with ) The thing is, It is already made up of various values on the list. such as Health/Vigor/Energy - Since, I wanna live authentically, I want to eat what is right for my body. Physical Appearance - I intend to workout daily plus right eating so I guess fine physical appearance would be a by product. Self Expression - Living Authentically also involves for me taking steps to face my fears, challenging myself and not hiding in my shell, so I can express myself through fear as well as be cheerful trouble times, not freaking out. Balance - Another aspect of authentic living. 100 % Responsibility - Another Aspect that I have mentally seem to place. Spirituality - Keeps me grounded in life, another aspect that I consider must for authentic living, Honesty - Another one Strong Will - I guess, this is the foundation of this value.

Thank You, I guess there is where I started, just feeding my child like curiosity just for the purpose of finding the answers. Now, I understand that this is one of the strength that I have and would like to turn it into something meaningful.

I think from time to time to replace responsibility with another word as 100 % responsibility adds a bit pressure and make you feel like caged at times and initiate self blame. I think try and see how ownership does the job.

Yeah, I will keep this in mind. Thank You

I am relate to this, I use to sing all the time but then lost it as I went into life and had to deal with more serious stuff. Right now, Idk what is my passion, sometimes I enjoy sining but I do not see it as practical, I also enjoy wisdom now and see it as more of a practical value. And, I am confused btw picking the two, old passion that once burn intensely which didn't serve much purpose or the new flame of passion that burn low but can serve greatly.

I am just confuse on how to place this on my list. Example - I already have happiness and growth on my list and I understand that patience is like of a sub value/virtue for being happy and growing. So, I do not think that it is necessary to have it.

I have noticed, the more wise you become, the more power you have. More people are willing to listen to you, come to you for solutions. And in the process of providing solutions, I have began taking a "subtle ego boost" or "pride" or "feeling of being better than them" for my learning and knowledge and it takes me away from humility and love. P.S. - I think this is question for some people here as well. Backstory I have been suffering for years and dying to feel good about me, I stopped living and spend two years unemployed in a way, just learning about everything while being criticized by everybody, rejected and not loved. And now, as I live with what I know, people ask for emotional help, and and when I tell them. I feel good about myself ( that see I wasnt doing absolute shitty thing world ) but deep inside I feel bad because I feel like" I am being better than them" and this isn't humility.

I want to grow passion of my cousin and give her practical life advices. She is very young but I want her to start now so she can complete the 10,000 hours of mastery at young age instead of struggling later. She said, that she want to be a fashion designer. Q. How can I and she be certain that this is her passion? Q. Any recourses or books that can help me form strategies for her to monetize her passion? ( This is importance, otherwise her idealistic parents will kill it ) Q. Any book that inspire passion? Q. Most Importantly, any book that bring the practical understanding of WHAT IT TAKES TO DEVELOP EXPERTISE IN YOUR PASSION TO BE ABLE TO FINANCIALLY BUILD YOUR LIFE AROUND IT.

I indeed plan to be but It would take years. Whereas she need help now. These are the kind of solutions, I am looking for. Thank You <3 I do not want to make it serious exploring her fashion but be involve with her, I want her to love something and not push her onto something.

No Sir, I have not mastered anything but yes have made quite progress. I am not charging anything but looking to help from heart and for learning. Beautiful, thank you I guess then, I have done enough by planting an idea of finding a passion for now. My 2nd step would be to meet her someone who is living a life of passion.

sometimes, I think this isnt the case. They do not compare themselves with others but only their children dew to expectation. I suffer this personally. My dad compare me with other children but never compare himself with others. bro, idk, first of all every parents is different. I can get this to understand parents of my cousins but cant get in to my father head. The last time I had the argument, he literally shouted "one should compare" period after I asked him "why" one should do it. Coming back to you, My friend, I deeply wish I could help you, and what suck is, I can hazily find some solution for you but it will draw so much energy for such simple petite thing. Solution - What you need is convincing. Prepare your argument logically on a piece of paper and then plant the idea abstractly. Steps 1. Take a paper 2. Research point supporting your arguments. Tip - Search Science, Spirituality, Quotes Of Big People ( Specially whom your parents respect ), Religion Sources ( If your parents value it ) 3. Organize all the major points. Now you have science, spirituality, famous people and religion backing you up. ( I havnt done this much as I am too busy ) 4. Convincing I think once you have so much of data, convincing should become easier though it would still be quite challenging.

she is 12 years old. Her family is poor, dad is struggling with money and health. I am an Indian, and belong to muslim background. Here, the understanding of life for women is to grow them and marry. That is the focus and not to grow them and make them independent.

Throughout my search, I couldnt really identity which is better than the other but what I did I learn, integrating the techniques of both for coaching is WIN WIN. My questions are, Where should I start, Life Coaching then later integrate NLP techniques in my coaching practice or vice versa. Also, I researched the Life Coaching program that I look for should be ICF accredited, but I have no idea about where to learn NLP, would appreciate info on this. P.S. - Anybody who is a life coach or NLP coach here? Thank You.

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Today, I was wondering about all the explanation and angle that we can use to notice and explain our behavior. Finding - ( So, far, would like people here to add on for everyone ) 1. Thoughts - Feelings - Behavior ( Popular in all self help ) Albert Ellis in 1977 found out the relation that our thought lead to emotional state that guide our behavior. So, the first way to observe our behavior is our thoughts. Our thoughts can be comprehensively understood by - Studying Of Evolutionary Psychology ( OUR DEFAULT SOFTWARE MIND ) - Studying Of Development Psychology ( UPGRADE OF OUR SOFTWARE MIND, THROUGH LEARNING ) - Studying Emotional Intelligence WHAT ELSE SHOULD I TAKE INTO CONTEXT HERE TO LEARN OUR THOUGHTS? Various Ways To Change Behaviour Through Thoughts - Cognitive Behavior Therapy ( Focus - Change thoughts to change feeling and behavior ), which is kinda like POSITIVE THINKING. IMPORTANT - Require "SElF AWARENESS" - OTHERS WAYS ? - ANY SPIRITUAL WAY? I was thinking that through CBT, we can reconditioned our conscious thoughts but what about "INTUITION" that secret voice of thought that comes from different dimensions? That secret and suble thought can be powerful form of CBT 2. Habits Charles Duhigg book "Power Of Habit" demonstrates the large sum of our day to day action are conditioned in our habits. So, the second way to observe our behavior is automatic non conscious activity. This can be understood by - Studying Charles Duhigg book "Power Of Habit" - Studying on "Willpower" - Studying our "Homeostasis" Various Ways to make or break habits - Reconstructing our "Cue - Routine - Reward" Circle of habit. - In Addition, optimizing our "WILLPOWER" usage to go through the changes. AGAIN - SELF AWARENESS IS CRUCIAL HERE TOO. Also "Willpower Usage" and Triggering "Key Habits" that lead to change multiple habits. - OTHERS WAYS OR LEARNING IMPORTANT TO BREAK OR MAKE HABITS? 3. ( Will Research and add more later ) Plus, everyone feel free to add to the list. Make it powerful post that explain behavior in different angles and provide approaches to change bad behavior make good one.

According to advaita vedanta, we are eternal bliss consiousness. My questions are, How does this eternal bliss consiousness create our physcial reality. And, why was there need of evolution? Survival of the fittest, ego protecting itself, basically our engineering that lead to behaivour of harming others. Lastly, why we commit evil? Like rape or murder? As well as What are negative vibrations? Do they lead to destruction?