Hello from Russia

turning 21 this month

What is MO?

Title. Not talking about short term fasts which are common in bodybuilding community nowadays but more of a 1d, 2d, 3d 7d fasts

No

You don't have to have enlightenment experience to notice that the less ego you have - the better it feels

From my experience the more you move up the spiral and the more consciousness you have - more happy your become, your ability to enjoy life literally skyrockets. it is counter intuitive as fuck tho P.S. Watch Leo's videos "What is spirituality" and "Meaning, purpose and value"

So true

Why not? Such a great medium for 21st century

@Shin Haha, it's funny as fuck It seems like you use your willpower instead of consciousness to do all this nofap thing tho, don't you think it's a wrong approach?

A good way to integrate green is to find friends and woman (or man) you really like and love them unconditionally

You need to contemplate\do some self-inquiry, it's not a nonduality nonsense, It's just questioning all your beliefs you hold about reality and Self

@Mikael89This all are just stories in your head, good and bad don't exist in nature, as well as being happy, boring, lazy, "Alpha male". It's all are just made-up concepts you chose to believe in

How do you know anything?

When you're contemplating with a journal because Leo told you to do so but your girlfriend...

@Etagnwo Holyshit, such a golden nugget of advice here. Enjoyed reading first 4-5 pages of this thread and resonate with it A LOT. From my experience this is really how it works. And when you do the opposite it usually leads to delusion and misery. The most important thing, imo, is to go for women you really desire. With such woman you can genuinely say that you adore her, she'll sense the authenticity off of you and that will make everything so much smoother and rewarding.

For me Leo is way higher than that. And Echkart Tolle too, he looks enlightened as fuck

The book of not knowing

@Mikael89 Why don't you just go and become a monk? If you don't care about "normal life" that much

Can also be a poor diet or chronic undersleepness

Do you contemplate?

@Mikael89 Reground yourself, go do some pickup or things like that, it's refreshing and can actually be benefitial for spiritual journey

It's hard. Most of the guys are big pussies, so they won't do it anyways. Being attractive, open and authentic helps tho, become "approachable". Beauty helps too, but I wouldn't say it is #1. Being too beautiful can be an obstacle in a sense that a lot of guys will think that they are inferior to you, that they are a class below, when in reality it's not always the case. Also, try to do women's version of pickup. Initiate and get exposed to the world. Go socialize a lot. And by that I don't mean with your current friends. Go and meet new people, start conversations, do small talk, join new social circles. And when you'll be doing all that, if you find a guy you really like, go send him some subtle signs of attraction, idk how that thing works from women's point of view and idk if it is conscious or unconscious (I guess the latter) but this shit is real. It is a real turn-on for a guy even if you're not 10\10 in this stupid pickup estimation (I speak from my own experience here) . Also, doing public and leadership stuff (such as speaking, singing, giving a presentation, etc) to a big audience will help you to attract confident guys who are leaders and do shit in the real world. Which is probably what you want from a guy.

@7thLetter Watching the best self-development content there is in open source JUST FOR ENTERTAINMENT is a meme in itself

It is totally WORTH IT. The amount of self-development you get from this is ENORMOUS. And it doesn't matter if you'll end up sleeping with these girls or not. It is about pushing your comfort zone, being fine with your sexuality, crushing your fears and being the leader, that is what leaders do, they see the girl they like - they approach, they take action on it.