Hello from Russia

What is your situation\intentions? What stage of "seeing" are you on? What do you want? You want to pickup and fuck bunch of girls or you're trying to meet a long term partner? a wife? Sometimes it's okay to invest, but you should do it from a relatively "secure" place, not because you're desperate to have sex\girlfriend or whatever

I think there must be a distinction that perfection is a relative notion and always depends on a context. Unless we are talking about absolute

Things is, this type of idea has the potential to fuck up birth rates (as having kids will become more of a hustle with this kind of thing) and it goes against the collective ego agenda of most develoloped\developing countries

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001HBI792/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i2 https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002C759IM/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i7 https://deida.info/product-category/the-complete-recordings/ https://www.youtube.com/user/LilTravelBum/videos - more about attraction phase from "enlightened" perspective

I advice you to check more "spiritual-based" books on sexuality rather than "stage orange". Stage orange books are all about being "independant", aloof and manipulating women. It works but it's not "it", the relationship you build this way is not what you really want. Spiritual-based sex books on the contrary are more about being "one" with your woman and merging with her, to be "in the flow" with her or even "provide" this flow for both you and her. Stage turquoise level of intimacy. Check David Deida's and Ken Wilber's mutual book on sexual intimacy

Try video "What is devil"

What does it actually mean to like a thing that you're doing? How do you know that you "love" it? How do you know that this is "it"? What criteria to use for this? I'm wondering too

This licensing thing will get corrupted anyways in the current state of public consciousness

Think of a value. Footballer provides way more value to society than your average doctor (although you probably believe otherwise), that's why he earns shit ton more

Sorry to say it, but you're deluding yourself big time, none of this truly matters. Go study good dating advice and take action on it (!) and you'll see by direct experience that that is the case. Also ask yourself: why the fuck do I need a girlfriend? - Killer life-changing question

Yeah it's hard to judge. Intense spiritual practices also feel like work when you're doing them right with hardcore focus and concentration

Both Leo and Elon Musk are not Ultimate authorities.

It's impossible to achieve even 1 item of this list

Imo, don't halfass school, finish it the best you can and have it as asset in case you'll want\need to go to university\some other institution for your life purpose. After that you'll have a plenty of time to decide and research your LP. This thing isn't life transforming by itself, it's just the direction\strategy you make up to pursue in your life. You transform by comitting to a journey, not by setting a destination, although setting a good destination is super important

Who says so?

Trying graphical design for this moment

Can confirm that. For me it only lasted for 1 week or less~. Then I found meaning in meaninglessness so to speak. Or stopped giving meaninglessness a bad frame as framing it as bad is giving it a meaning and meaning is complete fictional thing.

This work makes you suffer indeed, but if you don't do it you suffer way more. If you take all this seriously it actually liberates you, step by step, but you gotta put effort and labor

No, it was actually a pretty good read. Big thanks for putting all this down

Meeting girls in real life is much more fun anyway and you'll meed different girls than in internet

Too generic and obvious. This topic has way more depth than this. And that is what we all do by default anyway( in this community at least).

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You dont' need to be in caloric surplus to gain muscle although it helps due to better envieronment for anabolic hormone release. All you need it is to give your muscles enough stimulus to grow (By doing exercising) and positive nitrogen balance (more protein gained than lost) - that's it. Calories are mainly used for body fat % regulation , they have almost nothing to do with building muscle. Weight !=Muscle. You can just get a bunch of fat by going into surplus and not exercising enough. I really don't recommend dirty balking. You don't need it in the first years of your Gym career. You'll grow just fine being on deficit or maintance. Stop deluding people.

When you're stuck between different paths which have their pros and cons and you don't know what the fuck to choose. You're overthinking the oportunity cost of choosing the one thing over another over and over again creating a personal hell for youself. You are also pressured to make a decision as fast as possible as not making any decision has its own opportunity cost in itself. You have to take action and not taking any action is an action in itself. Please, share some insights and wisdom on this topic