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@electroBeam This is actually not that hard to do when you are in the right state, because you need massive positive assumption and calibration. When you are "in state" (could call it flow), women just sense this shit oozing out of you, sometimes you lock eyes with a girl and you just see that it is ON, she is in a trance, you approach her like you approach a cat, smooth movements, leading the interaction physically while still locking eye contact and go for the kiss. You also have to be extremely aware of her state to stop at any sign of discomfort, this means you have to be all-in, 100% present, playing to win, not to not lose.

Even with a trip sitter, what if you just stand up and run through a window, how could a trip sitter seriously stop you? They are fas and strong enough? If you fight them? Think things through.

Can relate, going through this right now. This basically means that your old ways of doing things aren't going to work anymore, almost like you aced a level in a video game but to go to the next one you have to transform into something else. It is time to let the old die and the new to flourish. Create a new, more authentic vision of the future you really want to live. Deep soul searching is required. Alone time. Contemplation. Paper and pen. Make powerful questions to yourself and just write freely. Try new stuff, don't be afraid of bold life changes like moving to another city, selling all your stuff etc.

@Zak "If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid with regard to external things." -Epictetus. It is a skill, you must try things outside your comfort zone to improve it and you WILL fall flat on your face frequently. Showing me a clip of Michael Jordan missing shots doesn't make him less of a legend. If you follow the advice of the guy in the video you posted and go out approaching 100 women, I guarantee you that most of those interactions will be so cringy that you will actually get used to it. The mark of a man that women love is his ability to withstand great amounts of social pressure without breaking down.

In a way, he isn't wrong, but the game here is not only about numbers, but about skills. Preparation + opportunity = Luck If you lack skills, you are going to have a bad time, even if you approach 100 women in one night, yeah, you will find one or two that is interested in you but the quality will be awful. And when I talk about quality, I do mean compatibility, not just looks. Most newbies can't put their real personalities on the line and end up with the wrong type of girls. If you want quality pick up resources, check the channel of Todd, he knows what he is talking about:

Looks like you have too much conceptualization in your mind and this is dangerous when they don't match our direct experience. What does your intuition tell you? Could the truth be more simple?

Here in this forum, everyone feels this untapped potential you are talking about. Self-help is all about trying to actualize this potential, bring it through fruition, actually using it, as much as you can.

I used to like him a lot, even had him in my "life goals list", bought some of his products etc, but ultimately he seems to have regressed a LOT, he became ultra-conservative and narrowminded, just setting a shitty example for his followers (mostly young man looking for good role models).

This is interesting... People nowadays are being canceled for way less than that, it is interesting to think about his music still selling on platforms like YouTube and Spotify. That just goes to say how much this outrage green stage movement can be selective.

I guess you still have to honor your particular incarnation with its preferences

You are going to have a bad time. The vipassana retreat I did as a student I was meditating with ease for 1h every day and when I did the first meditation there I realized the mistake I made because after that meditation session you usually have a few minutes of interval and is sent back to meditate again for one more hour. This means that if you had a painful last sitting, this time will be worse and it accumulates all day long. I guess is part of the retreat to take you to your limit, physically, mentally, and emotionally. But I do recommend that you go there well prepared to meditate for 2-3hours straight and then you will have a much better learning curve, I suppose. You will go deeper into the retreat, otherwise, you'll be pure chaos and pain for most of it leading to a huge ego backlash after. I did finish the retreat but it was hellish for me and I didn't meditate or did anything related to spirituality for the next 6 months.

I guess it depends on your mindset going through conversations. You can listen to learn about the subject, about the person, to respond etc I try to learn about the person, the subject and everything else (small and big picture thinking). When it is small talk, i get myself reacting automatically, with generic responses that fit that situation energetically. You can also just listen like a mindfulness practice and in this case you can go so meta that you hardly learn anything about the object but you learn about the structure of reality itself. Sometimes when i read a word, i become aware that letters are just drawings that we attach symbols to and when this happen it can be hard to pay attention to the symbol itself. I got myself a few times starring to a word as common as "house" without making sense of it, finding everything so weird like saw it for the first time. This isn't bad, but it is another level of awareness. You are not required to say something every time people direct a word to you. I often just stare people blankly when they finish talking because i don't have anything to say and i don't want to use the usual generic reactions. Usually, people just laugh, with time it became just "me" to do this, it is something that makes me unique, in a good way.

Well, nothing is so good that can't get better...

What option do i have?

When everyone around you is having awakenings except you

I do suffer from it and from my research and experiments I learned: 1. Beliefs play a crucial role in how we feel, chronic fatigue usually comes from low self-esteem and living in fearful states. Alexander Lowen talks about this indirectly in his books. I highly recommend you to research bioenergetics and learn to untangle this fatigue patterns. Start with the book "Fear of Life" and "the denial of the body", both by Alexander Lowen. Also, see: Great videos. Your body and mind are 100% connected and close in a feedback loop. If you stay laying down all day, the body and mind will want more of it, and if you get used to exercising, your body-mind also gets used to it and asks for more. At some points in my life I had a few jobs where I had to be standing up and walking for 8+ hours. At first, I thought I wasn't capable of it but when I HAD to do it, I found that I had way more strength and energy that I previously thought. 2. Negative thought loops, decision fatigue and personality fatigue (not being your self) all deplete our energy way more than we like to think. Here is a book that talks about it: Poise And Power Be extremely aware of your thought pattern. Envision yourself constantly full of energy and enthusiasm but with poise and power (not that jumpy jittery weak kind of energy). The mind can heal ANYTHING. 3. Raw foods diet, sunlight, nature, pure water. Don't put anything in your skin that you wouldn't put in your mouth, that included industrialized soaps, shampoos, medicines, etc. Avoid coffee and stimulants. 4. Work on your first, second, and third chakras. They affect your adrenal glands that it is probably shut down right now. Most people live in a constant state of tension and fear, secreting adrenaline and cortisol all day and causing adrenal fatigue.

Yes, it is helping but these things take time to gain a really good momentum although you can see changes fast. Right now I am focusing on healing my body and mind, this will give me a nice foundation for self actualization, a health body generates a health mind, it's all connected.

There are LOTS of other channels dedicated to law of attraction on YouTube, really good sources, I don't think Leo needs to cover everything that there is to cover in self development. He did some videos on law of attraction in the past, granted that he was way too materialist in the past and he promised a "subconscious reprogramming course" that never came to existence, but those videos are fundamentally giving good tips that if you really apply it, your life is going to change. As I said, if you want to read more about it, go to other channels. Search for "The feeling is the secret" by Neville Godard

I have the same problem, and the solution I found is to reprogram my mind using the concept of law of attraction but through FEELLING. Why? If you are like me, you are too mental and too "aware" of your misconducts. And, according to the law of attraction, what happens when we pay too much attention on one thing? We find and attract more of it. So, when we are constantly looking for problems to fix, what do we always find? Yes, more problems to fix. This made my mind looping on negativity and I just found out how to fix it. Just focus on the feelings you want to create and attract more of. If you want to feel accomplished and proud, create a image in your mind and feel the shit out of it. Do this as much as possible, specially before and immediately after sleep. It is really simple, I just think about the word "health", for instance, and focus on the feeling of it for as long as possible. Read "The feeling is the secret" by Neville Goddard. It is small, 18 pages, but powerful and direct to the point. Most law of attraction books take 200 pages to explain the concepts that this little book contains. The important thing here is to train your mind to focus and concentrate on only states that you want more of. This ability is key!

Agreed, let's ban this man, he has no ethics.

Who knows if it is even true...

Purity Fasting Clear intention Set and Setting No distractions Alone 1~2x a week max Contemplation Meditation Yoga

@Someone here You should look for someone who has the same or similar values as you. If I value personal growth more and my wife values comfort more, we are going to have troubles. If I value freedom and my wife value stability, that's a problem. I had this problem every relationship I had because I wasn't conscious enough at the time.

@An young being I became this way while i walked the self-development path. In the past i was way less selective with women due to neediness, i have been in relationships with women that i judged being the "best i could get" in the moment and all of those relationships backfired, although i don't regret any of them. We are influenced by the people we spend time with, so imagine how much influenced we are by our love partner which we are so much in contact with, having sex, etc? A bad relationship can ruin your life and a good one can raise so much, but those are RARE and the biggest problem is because people simple aren't selective enough, they don't know what they want and choose their spouse by bullshit metrics like looks or money, monkey shit. Men, especially! I see so many men choosing their GF by their looks, mostly. Basically marring the best look one they can find and can have a relatively stable relationship (if that). So many lives ruined!

It is not that they aren't worthy, the biggest problem is lack of alignment. What is the percentage of women that are committed to self-development, in your opinion? Those women, what percentage are stage green or above? Because in my entire life I have met really FEW and i have been in some privileged circles like yoga retreats/courses, several places devoted to self-development etc And it isn't some sexist thing, if i were a woman, i probably wouldn't want to be in a relationship with most men also, although i do observe that, on average, men tend to be more ambitious to women.