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The first step to self-actualization: know exactly what you want. Did you watched Leos videos about contemplation? Try to contemplate exactly what you want out of life, be as specific as possible. Generate your answers, don't look elsewhere. If I were you, I would focus first at becoming financially independent. If you escape wage slavery, become an entrepreneur, with an online business, you can work from anywhere in the world, it will be way easier for you to focus on enlightenment and consciousness.

I mean, what did you expect? Most people never heard about consciousness end enlightenment, hell I don't even know what do you mean by "pursue consciousness" and I am a self-help junkie. You can't just go telling people about those things and act surprised that they don't understand that it is "beyond their current level of perception" (seriously?)... First, be clear to what do you mean by wanting to pursue consciousness. Don't expect anyone to support you, especially financial support as they probably don't know what you are talking about nor do they care if they knew. You could: 1. Play their game, go to school as they support you financially, while you do your thing on the side, pursuing consciousness (whatever that means). Show some results first, go teach yoga, meditation, go start a YouTube channel, a blog, write a book, start a coaching business etc, only then they are going to take you seriously. 2. Don't play their game, follow your heart and go on your own, without depending on anyone. Assuming you are 18+, you are free to do whatever you want of your life, just don't expect anyone to pay for it. Please, don't be impulsive or do something radical and stupid, approach your life with as much wisdom, vision, groundedness and strategic thinking as possible.

Exactly, you answered yourself. How easy is to substitute 8th-grade math teacher? Or a nurse? Yeah, you could say that they provide good high-conscious value but the scale that they provide is really small. There are teachers, for instance, that make millions of dollars if they know how to explore their talents, commit to mastery, teach in an efficient way, can market it etc. See, Leo can be considered a teacher and it is certain that he makes a lot more money than your average 8th-grade teacher because he provides a lot more value not just individually but to humanity as a whole. I mean, really, how useful was all your math education throughout school and how useful can be a 30h Life Purpose course that Leo provides, for instance? IF you think about it, a lot of people really do care a LOT about sports, in a way they are like art. Yeah, you could live without it, they aren't as essential as engineer skills, let's say, but is life really worth living without art? How can we place a price in art or sports?

You have to take it seriously, like a job. Only professionals will grow. Have a daily schedule, all planned out, for every single day of the year. Consistency is key, the best ones post like 3-5 posts a day and 10+ stories. Always improve on your content, visually and content-wise. Create cult-like followers. Pay for other people to promote you. I lived for a while with a girl that has 130k followers and she works all the time, she is always with her phone on her hand. When we were watching some movie, she would spend 70% of the time playing with her phone on Instagram. Everything she does is an excuse to make some content, always filming and taking pictures of herself and editing the material. You don't have to be so extreme if you have a solid strategy and routine to plan content, post, time you will interact with followers etc. But it did opened my eyes to what it takes to succeed.

Of course, tax the shit out of them, create social policies that stimulate the circulation of money, especially from super-rich people. Money should absolutely be circulating, not being hoarded but we also lack the experience of being a billionaire, maybe they have plans with that money, we don't know, maybe when it is said that Jeff Benzos has a net worth of 170B, it doesn't mean that he has that money on some bank account, I am no expert by I would bet that he doesn't have instant access to not even 20% of that money. Maybe someone more knowledgeable on the subject can explain it better. But for sure most people imagine that those billionaires have all that money without doing anything with it. Also, you absolutely have to EARN your success, as Charlie Munger said: “To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.” Recognize that when you see with a lot of money, it is certain that they also provided a proportional value to society in a way or another. As you said, it is easy to shit on Amazon for not treating their employees with the respect they deserve but it is not so easy to chose to pay more for the same product in another site that will not provide the same quality of service. For instance, it is common knowledge that Apple has people working in semi-slavery conditions in China to make their products but how many people would abstain from buying one of the best smartphones you can buy for a moral principle?

I noticed that a lot of green people have not integrated orange yet and this come from limiting belief about money, success and entrepreneurship. Most greens I know demonize rich people, specially millionaires, billionaires, big businesses like Amazon, Apple etc. The problem, in my opinion is to see only the toxic side of orange. For instance, it became mainstream to shit on Jeff Benzos for having a almost inconceivable amount of money, they see it as a zero sum game, if he have a lot of money, he must have taken from the poor. Which is naive and narrow-minded to say the least. They shit on capitalism not recognizing the insane societal advancement it brought to us the last 200 years. The other day I saw a green stage post shitting on billionaire saying that they became billionaires by two paths: inheritance or exploring the shit out of the little man. They don't see all the hard work, focus and vision it took to get there. They shit on Bill Gates for "only" donating something like 500 million dollars to help the poor and this is a bad thing because he has a lot more, meanwhile, they can't see that bill gates did more to mankind that they will ever do. Can you imagine a world without Microsoft/Windows? Can you imagine something like that being created in a non-capitalistc society? It is very ironic to me seeing green people talking shit about Bill Gates from their PC or Apple from their iPhones.

This is not your first topic and the last one didn't make much more sense than this one. Have you considered reaching for some therapist? Psychiatrist or psychologist, someone you could talk to face to face.

All from RSD and from Todd Valentine (after RSD, solo career). I learned a LOT from watching the RSD free content on youtube, a lot of gold nuggets there. They deleted everything but with a google search you can find where to download everything.

@Jaccobtw How small are we talking about?

This is mine, took several hours to finish but it is awesome!

Flatline is a widely reported phenomenon. Part of the healing process, it will get better eventually. IMO it makes the process easier if you don't freak out about it. Being horny all the time trying to not Fap is pretty hard, one moment of weakness and your momentum is gone.

It's about your inner game. When you know that every time a girl sees your dick, she will brag to all her friends about it, you will have a lot more confidence in approaching women. The reverse is also true if you have a 3-inch dick or less, you can be sure the word will be spread out, think about it, how much more anxious you would be?

Big dick energy is a thing, bro

Women secretly love big dicks, they love to brag to their friends that their man has a big dick. I have a lot of girl friends and spent a lot of time with them, often being the only heterosexual male of the group, they felt at ease talking their minds and, man, women talk a LOT about big dicks and sex with themselves, more then men talk about it, in my experience.

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Yeah, if you want a highly masculine woman, go for it.

@Consciousone35 I would totally go to a Tony seminar, if you think it is just a waste of time, I don't even know what you are doing in a self-development forum. I don't know what happened in the situation you talked about but maybe she had wrong expectations about the guy, maybe she was hoping for someone to hold her hand and tell her how much he is sorry for her situation and cry together and Tony has chosen to not fuel this perspective. Every teacher has it's style, some are more aggressive than others, some can simply tell you to quit being a little bitch and that's what you needed, and another one can hug you, show you with motherly love, you feel good and nothing change. Triggering transformation in people is a lot more complex than most realize, you are going to have to touch some deep wounds and some people are not ready for it yet.

Well, let me tell you, there are LOTS of worse ways to procrastinate.

Good looks give you a better first impression, when the woman doesn't know anything about you, she has to make an assessment by your looks, style, body language and tonality. You can be beautiful all you want, if your inner game sucks, you are fucked. Trust me, I know from experience. I am usually considered 7-9/10 in looks (because i am short). Not gonna lie, i have lots of girls giving themselves to me easily (all i had to do is NOT fuck up, which isn't that hard), but very rarely the ones you would really want. The quality ones don't care that much about looks because it is common for them to meet hot guys, but it isn't common to me alpha, confident, smooth, grounded guys. I always had a major problem with beautiful girls, my sense of entitlement is fucked and this is clear to them when they met me.

I used to listen to his YT channel but all his videos are the same message with different words. Meet and spend time with successful people. Fuck what you are feeling right now, do what is important on the long-term. Take action, you are going to die soon. Plan your day and life, be pragmatic. Not that this is bad advice, but isn't anything new. I would bet his $5k course is the same shit. Someone on this forum took his course and said that he doesn't even teach that much, his assistant does most of the work. That being said, I would pay to meet quality and successful people, the kind who would pay that amount for a self-development program.

High-quality organic foods (as said above) A good Juicer Water distiller High-quality supplements (like spices, minerals, probiotics, mushrooms etc) Nootropics Retreats and live sell-development/spirituality programs, events etc. Coaches (all kinds) Intensive courses like one month of intense Hatha yoga training. RASA online sessions Meeting in person and living with successful, conscious and uplifting people. All kinds of therapies (experiment with everything and see what works for you, be open-minded). Living in a good place (peaceful, healthy environment). That's basically what I will do when the big money starts to flow to me.

What you IMAGINE to be your past will define you. IMAGINATION is a keyword here because your memories and interpretations of what happened in your past are totally flexible, meaning that you can choose to think whatever you want of your past. REFRAME the shit out of it. Also, you don't really need to live in the past, you can only build what you want NOW, in the present. Imagine yourself being and having whatever you want.

That's your perspective, man. Try to imagine how a fighter feels when he is on that ring, with millions of people watching, doing what he does best (aka mastery), in the flow, being cheered on etc. That's a peak experience that only a handful of things in this life can match. Recontextualization. Slapping a woman at the street for no reason is bad. Slapping a woman in the bed making her cum harder is good.