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That's basically raw organic fruits.

Casual relationships, as you've said it. As long as you are honest about not wanting serious commitment, things will end eventually and naturally. Probably she will and things or find someone who she thinks will commit and get cold with you. Most of the time, the relationship will end: 1. Things will get colder and colder, you both will stop reaching out to each other and that's it. Most common, in my experience. 2. She will find someone and stop responding or being really evasive until the communication ends. Second most common. 3. She will end things explicitly because she got feelings for you and you do not want to commit. This is not common to happen, most people avoid such talks. These days i usually develop some sort of friendship with the woman and sex is kind of natural to happen and when i don't want to have sex anymore i just don't and i don't talk about it explicitly but keep being friends with her, she will get the hint eventually and the friendship will continue.

What helped me is to reframe it as "that's my girl, she is beautiful and everyone knows that". This way, i was completely fine with all the attention she got dressing anyway she wanted as opposed to the girl i dated before her whom which i was extremely jealous when someone looked at her or she did something slightly provocative. Before i was insecure, i was scared to be alone and i had to protect my relationship at all costs, which led me toward an abusive path sometimes. After that, i grew as a person and as a man, i developed an abundance mentality, empathy etc, which made the relationship way healthier and the girl i was with was prettier and more popular, thousands of followers on Instagram, lots of men messaging her constantly, i had to not care at all to make it work.

What's keeping you from leaving?

We are talking about 2000's

Start to imagine yourself as the person WINNING motherfuckeeeer!!

Not today with the internet and all but 20 years ago, probably.

I didn't know that but it explains how he made so much money so young, he always talks about his first attempt to get pussy by making a lot of money and flashing expensive stuff to women like watches, a car, and his own house at 21 yo. Today i would guess he is mostly orange, with some green and some yellow.

Well, first of all, you have to be able to have sex for at least 30 minutes without ejaculating. Second, assuming that she is ready to go, meaning that you did all the preliminary work, good oral sex and she is BEGGING for you to penetrate her. It is not usually a matter of in and out penetration like you see in most porn, that will only work if you have a big and thick dick. The actual work is really intuitive, you have to be fully present and sensible to her every reaction, breath, motion etc. I like to synchronize my penetration with the pulsation of her pussy/body, women love that, if you do this right, her pleasure will increase exponentially, but it is hard to describe it via text. Also, teasing is very important, varying the penetration mode, one shallow, one deep, one deep for 4 seconds, 30 seconds out, one shallow, out, deep for 10 seconds and hold it there, it is more an art than a science. Be present and test shit, see how she reacts. Another thing is the law of state transference, assume that what you feel, she will feel it too, kind of embody the excitement and orgastic pleasure and she will follow you, lead her state with your breath, pulsation of your body and moaning, this will get her super excited but this can be tricky as you can become so aroused that you will cum. I like to focus on deep penetration, letting the woman feel like i am completing her, filling a literal and metaphorical whole. When you are deep on her, move your hips and test things. The best position, in my opinion, is when she is laying down on her back, belly up, legs spread out like this: From here, you penetrate deep and move your hip toward her head with your dick still inside her, this will stimulate her g point, repeat and sync with her until she cums. Also, lead all the time, alternate between loving and dominant, tell her what to do, choke her a little, hold her hair firmly, suck her tits, lick her nipples, play with it, some like it rough and some don't. Like i said, more of an art than a science.

Because all starts in the mind, with the imagination. We tend to ACT on what we constantly think, this action turns into habit, this habit turns into character and our character determines our destiny. When we are able to concentrate our thought on what we want, we will attract it. All start with the seeds of thought we plant and if we nurture it, it will grow and grow until it becomes a force so strong that the path of least resistance is to act on it. Every successful people ever was also an obsessed person, they thought so much of something that they made their whole life about that. Of course, this applies to enlightened masters also, if you think of God all the time, you will become it sooner or later, you will both be pulled towards it and attract it at the same time. There are lots of reports of hardcore indian spiritual seekers that practiced this by thinking about God every awaken moment, using mantras or something like that. Neem Karoli Baba, a powerful being, guru of Ram Dass, reportedly practiced Karma/Bhakti yoga every single moment. When he died, their disciples opened his journal and all that was written was "Ram Ram Ram Ram Ram" (meaning God God God God), that was his practice, he chanted this mantra so much that all he could see was literally God. Read this: https://www.ramdass.org/mantras-2/ "Keep repeating your mantra consciously until it has become a strong habit. Go for a walk and say the mantra all the time you are walking. Notice everything but keep the mantra going. Keep realizing that being with God is your focus… and therefore everything you see is part of God. Maharajji said, “The best form in which to worship God is all forms.” Everyone you meet is Ram who has come to teach you something. Mantra is remembering that place in the heart – Ram, Ram, Ram. Say it, mouth it, think it, feel it in your heart. You are continually meeting and merging into perfection."

Ayahuasca can be terrifying, i wouldn't use it alone. Some of my trips were maddening, dark and super intense. I suggest you to stick with what you can find (usually shrooms, LSD and even high-quality weed) until you find a safe place for you to use it.

Can relate. My biggest mistake was learning too much theory, books, videos, courses etc, and not enough action. I estimate that my ratio theory/action was 20:1 and this caused a lot of problems, anxiety, confusion, i was ungrounded as fuck because of all the dissonance cognitive. Consider that deep identity-level change is uncomfortable, sometimes it is almost maddening, especially with all the consciousness work we usually do here. Literally, as you do the work, the reality is changing and this is frightening to the ego. With time, i learned to ground myself and to be ok with all the chaos around me, which is a great skill for transformation.

That's some great storytelling skill! First time i saw him in a video. I remember Tyler in one of his freetour videos talking about how there is two paths for a MPUA to take, one you can become lose all your outcome dependence and completely self-validating, the other path is to do the opposite and become extremely validation seeking and be amazing at making people (mostly women) give you validation and he said that's the path Mistery took, he was insanely good at making people validate him.

How to integrate Stage Red:

I grew up in a large city and lived there all my life. I am also ultra-introverted, can go long stretches of time alone and in the city I was longing for some quite time. Last year I said fuck it, and went to a more isolated villa in the middle of a beautiful valley in my state, spent q month there and loved it. Decided to drop everything to live in a place like that, ended up in a small villa at the beach with 1000 people max, the lifestyle is completely different and, 5 months later, I decided to go live in a even bigger city than the one I lived all my life, this is because i came to the conclusion that my biggest goal right now is to build my career and my online business and i it is better to meet and live with people that are vibrating in that frequency. Here is almost like a paradise and people tend to get pretty lazy and a little too comfortable, smoking weed, socializing, going to the beach and working only enough to be able to keep this lifestyle forever. I don't want this and in a big city, this is possible. This city is São Paulo, in Brazil (comparable with NY), it is known by this fast rhythm of work and abundance of opportunities, there is also a lot of parks and cities near by i can go and chill for a while. There is, for instance, a beautiful vipassana center 40 min away from the city i could go anytime i want. You can find peace in a city if you chose the right one, but it depends a lot on what are your priorities. If you don't know yet, i suggest you to take a leap of faith and i guarantee you will find out.

Contemplation + writing, but i don't do it nearly as much as I should.

For an enjoyable trip, you have to be in an optimal physical, mental and emotional state. Do a detox for a couple of weeks, eat clean, take care of yourself, meditate and see how do you feel. Those meds can make you feel withdrawn symptoms which makes you anxious and restless, and it is not a good idea to take psychedelics when you feel this way.

I love how women love to talk about how a proper man should be, like they have any clue and aren't partial as fuck.

It's a great complement. Leo doesn't talk much about it, although he talked a little in the past but it a fine subject worth getting a deeper understanding. For me, this is the basis of self-actualization.

I discovered him last month, good stuff, he read great texts that don't have professional narrators audios available, which is nice. I also bought his book on manifestation.

I heard good things about it and when i saw Leo's post I decided to give a try and I am really liking it. On my pc I always used Ad Block but on my iPhone there is no ad block so i had to endure annoying ads all the time, sometimes during the fucking video and i couldn't listen on the background, today was the first time i listened to videos on YT with my phone locked, life-changing lol By the way, i got 3 months free trial

This looks like me tripping lol

The first step to self-actualization: know exactly what you want. Did you watched Leos videos about contemplation? Try to contemplate exactly what you want out of life, be as specific as possible. Generate your answers, don't look elsewhere. If I were you, I would focus first at becoming financially independent. If you escape wage slavery, become an entrepreneur, with an online business, you can work from anywhere in the world, it will be way easier for you to focus on enlightenment and consciousness.

I mean, what did you expect? Most people never heard about consciousness end enlightenment, hell I don't even know what do you mean by "pursue consciousness" and I am a self-help junkie. You can't just go telling people about those things and act surprised that they don't understand that it is "beyond their current level of perception" (seriously?)... First, be clear to what do you mean by wanting to pursue consciousness. Don't expect anyone to support you, especially financial support as they probably don't know what you are talking about nor do they care if they knew. You could: 1. Play their game, go to school as they support you financially, while you do your thing on the side, pursuing consciousness (whatever that means). Show some results first, go teach yoga, meditation, go start a YouTube channel, a blog, write a book, start a coaching business etc, only then they are going to take you seriously. 2. Don't play their game, follow your heart and go on your own, without depending on anyone. Assuming you are 18+, you are free to do whatever you want of your life, just don't expect anyone to pay for it. Please, don't be impulsive or do something radical and stupid, approach your life with as much wisdom, vision, groundedness and strategic thinking as possible.

Exactly, you answered yourself. How easy is to substitute 8th-grade math teacher? Or a nurse? Yeah, you could say that they provide good high-conscious value but the scale that they provide is really small. There are teachers, for instance, that make millions of dollars if they know how to explore their talents, commit to mastery, teach in an efficient way, can market it etc. See, Leo can be considered a teacher and it is certain that he makes a lot more money than your average 8th-grade teacher because he provides a lot more value not just individually but to humanity as a whole. I mean, really, how useful was all your math education throughout school and how useful can be a 30h Life Purpose course that Leo provides, for instance? IF you think about it, a lot of people really do care a LOT about sports, in a way they are like art. Yeah, you could live without it, they aren't as essential as engineer skills, let's say, but is life really worth living without art? How can we place a price in art or sports?