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No, they don't lol. That's what only someone who is afraid to approach would say. It's inner + outer game, not one or the other. You don't learn social skills without socializing. You don't need it. It is totally possible to learn by yourself, but it will take you a LOT longer to go figure out all by yourself, which, frankly, is just dumb if all you need is a google search to learn the step-by-step method that will make you learn 10x faster then you would by yourself. Again, assuming that you are willing to GO OUT and APPROACH women like your life depends on it. Tons of guys learned this way, especially at the beginning of the community, all they had was some forum posts to rely on and had to figure it all out from zero in the field.

1. High-quality conscious women still have fun. 2. You can meet women anywhere, streets, parks, beach, in a hike, yoga class, meditation retreat, ashrams etc. If you don't know how to do cold approaches, you won't meet them, you will see your perfect woman passing through you to never see her again. 1. False, all women love a funny, charismatic, confident, charming, socially savvy guy, that knows how to flirt, create comfort, play with sexual tension, lead the interaction. She will totally fall for that "PUA shit". 2. Good PU is like good plastic surgery, invisible. The better you get, the less you do. You can approach without saying a word, lock eyes and kiss in a matter of seconds. 3. It is like any skill. At first, it can seem forced and, with time, it becomes part of you. You don't just do stuff that women love, you ARE what women love. All childish behavior, neediness and possible inauthenticity will be rooted out. The better you get, the more authentic and free you are.

Yet, he probably will have to go through this experience of meaningless superficial sex with random girls to have this insight that it really does not fulfills you. It is like telling a hungry homeless guy to focus on expensive fruits and vegetables instead of cheap fast food. Also, you need a good game with high-quality girls too. Imagine that you spend all your time developing yourself and your career but don't know how to attract girls, flirt and all of that, then you meet your perfect 10 (in all aspects), that one in a million girl that is a perfect match for you and you suck at flirting, making her get turned off by you. Do both, learn game and work on all the other areas of your life. You can be extremely successful and still suck with women. By the way, this leads to all those "#metoo" cases, basically, successful guys that are still creepy as fuck and don't know how to create comfort, read body language, flirt, be funny etc.

Damn, that hurts Anyways... *clicks on the next video*

@General 2 My goal is not to feel awesome because I manifested a car, is to feel awesome and have a awesome car.

Had some big experience on Love lately?

You are always feeling something, Neville didn't said to feel blissful, that's my 2 cents, he did say to fee like your wish is fulfilled, which can be calm gratitude or boredom, yes. But, in my opinion, this is just a waste. Why the he'll wouldn't you want to feel awesome? Those won't be two separate manifestation if you imagine them together, you are living a mark in your subconscious mind by imagining the thing and feeling like you feel.

That's interesting, contemplate why the ego mind prefer evil and suffering to emptiness. And congratulations for the courage to go deep into reality.

Well, i guess that's fine, not everyone is ready to live an amazing life.

Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. -Robert Louis Stevenson Pretty good rule of thumb for life.

The manifestation is less about the car and more about the state, if you imagine a boring and worry state, that's what you are going to get. Nothing is stopping you to imagine yourself being in that car feeling blissful and safe. If someone is in a shitty mood constantly, they are going to get more of that until they decide otherwise. It is needed to make a conscious effort to really feel (with all senses) how you want to feel. Like an actor, embody how you would feel in a perfect condition, use physiology, affirmations, imagination, like a child pretending she is a pirate or a king or something. One I am using these days is simple affirming: I am amazing, my life is amazing, fuck yeah, I am amazing, my life is amazing, I love myself, I love life, I love my body, life loved me. While I put a big smile and spread my arms like I had won the lottery or something. Make a victory dance, jump and shit like that. You have to normalize this awesome state, make your subconscious mind be comfortable with feeling awesome and your life will change radically. I love Neville Godard and all the New Thought Movement authors.

Buddy, don't worry about me, my goal here is to wake people out of this arrogance position in which they keep talking and shitting on something that they are clueless about and THEN missing on the life-changing benefits of it and that's just sad to me. Again, all of this stems from a fundamental assumption that you know what you are talking about, which you don't. What I want here is for you to drop this idea that I have made of what PickUp is and go look into it deeply and practice it. All you have said are superficial, apparent stuff, this is what most people think when they talk about pick up. And this is also how most newbies think when they START this journey. First of all, you don't have to approach hundreds of girls before your first success. It all extremely personal, some people are way ahead of other when they begin, depending on several factors like charisma, confidence, social intelligence, self-esteem, previous experience with women, knowledge about PU etc. Second of all, success is a personal definition, some might define success as saying hi girls, some as having sex, some as exchanging numbers etc. This seems obvious but is crucial because if a newbie defines success in PU as having sex, yeah, maybe it will take him hundreds of approaches or more and this will demotivate him a lot. If a newbie defines success as saying hi to anyone, he will have a lot more chances in succeeding. It's like defining success in meditation as having super focus one-pointed concentration for 1h straight. Yeah, it will take you years to accomplish it. Anyway, PU is way more complex and fluid that you imagine it to be, go do some serious research before making conclusions.

Holy shit, dude, this is genius! No one has ever thought about doing this before Really? You are in a self-development forum and wonder why deliberately practicing skills, setting and achieving big goals are important? Why not just let things happen naturally? Why meditate? This isn't natural! Stop trying to copy some formula to develop self-mastery, just let the monkey-mind take over and be miserable like a normal person

Define a "scam". This is way too simplistic. If you paid for some self-development program and got nothing out of it, chances are, you are just too dumb to grasp the depth of the knowledge presented to you. Seems like you are expecting the teacher to do the work for you, as most lazy people do. And when that doesn't work, they get upset and say it' a scam. I would bet that even if the program is very basic, if you apply the principles, you will get something out of it. A lot of people came to these programs with this "cup full" mentality, they see themselves as knowledgable and don't really grasp what the teacher is saying because they are always thinking "I know that already", but really, they don't or they only have a superficial understanding and think they are experts. Those people go to self-development programs expecting mind-blowing complex concepts and when they find the same concepts that they once heard but ignored thinking it was too basic, even if they completely fail to see its depth, they will say they got scammed.

Well, very simple. Pick-up is a skill, like meditation, it needs practice. I can pay some enlightened guru to teach me everything he knows about meditation and, in the end, get zero results because I didn't practice it, only accumulated information, which clearly isn't the point of meditation. Pick-up is like that, you can have the best teachers 1-on-1 with you, if you do not approach, you will not learn. You can learn for free if you watch a few free videos on YT and go out to practice it. People love to cut corners, paying high sums of money to teachers in order to not do the work and then they are surprised it didn't worked.

100% his fault for 0 results.

Self-Actualization/Spirituality Tattoo Ideas?

That's normal, you will change your whole life many times if you go deep enough. It's like layers of an onion or a snake shedding its skin.

Exactly, most people define themselves by their victim personas, is like an easy way out, everyone will feel sorry for you and tell you how mistreated you were. In turn, you will hold on to this because if you were not victimized you get no sympathy for your failings, you are alone and with no excuses, that's scary as hell for most people. Who would you be without your limitations? That's a tough one to contemplate. It's so "open" and full of possibilities that is scary. You would assume that most people fear failing but I would bet that people often fear success more than failure. Imagine yourself as the president of the US with all the responsibility, all the accountability 24/7, now imagine yourself as a homeless person that sleeps in the open, skips a few meals, which one is scarier? I compare this limitless possibility feeling to swimming in the open sea, so vast, deep, and unknown that is scary as hell.

Only the best one can, the rest is bound to suffer forever. lol just kidding, of course not, everyone IS self-actualizing in a way or another, but only a few do it consciously. Don't go on a self-actualization crusade, that almost always backfires. Do your thing, show what is possible, throw some hints here and there and let people ask you for help.

The way Buddha looks at you when you are fapping to that filthy porn.

Toxic Green. I wouldn't raise shit either.

Well, you can see this from many angles. One of them is that, in an ultimate sense, is God "victimizing" God. God abusing God, God raping God, God being "homeless" in a world that is nothing but God. Of course, if it is all God, there is also no "abusing", or "raping", those only exist when the ego-mind, which separates itself from everything else (from God) and project meaning into something that ultimately has none. Ok, but let's say that the argument above is too much to grasp (and it is for most people). Let's say then that you got beaten by some bully and that beat made you swift from passivity to proactivity in changing your life, now you workout and practiced some martial arts, which led to making new friends, developing skills, more self-confidence, which made all your life better from now on. That change would never happen by it's on. When an organism is comfortable, change doesn't happen. Now, looking from that angle, the bully is good or bad? Could be that the bully is actually some sort of angel sent to put you into this self-transformation path? See all your problems as a curriculum given to you. You came to this life, shit happened, people mistreated you in horrible and various ways, now you have a particular set of things to work on. Let's say that you got raped as a child by your uncle. Now, to overcome this you have ti develop: self-empowerment, emotional intelligence, forgiveness, self-love, trust, sexual repression, guilt etc. None of that would be properly looked at and worked on if that shitty thing hadn't happened to you. Getting out of victim mentality is about realizing that shit inevitable happens and you have to deal with it, but the best way to deal with it is to see it from empowering angles like the ones I mentioned or some other. You can cry and be angry all you want about the "injustices" (from one partial point of view) that happened to you but once you realize that that approach won't make you better and no one will do it for you, you will seek for solutions instead of problems.

Sorry, only now i saw your comment. Yes, absolutely related. Weak sense of reality is how I define the feeling of being ungrounded. When you are too much in your head and not in your body, you create your sense of reality through thoughts, logic, and overly-theorization. This phenomenon is described in-depth in the book "The Betrayal Of The Body" by Alexander Lowen. There, he talks in terms of the character structure he calls "schizoid". They are people that, due to the inability to deal with extreme negative feelings like fear, retreat in their heads and kind of forget the body, making them one step away from the schizophrenic. They do that in order to not enter in a full-blown psychotic state. Chakra one imbalance. Schizoid types are basically chronically ungrounded people, they describe this kind of unrealism about life, like their are living in a state of dream, where things do not appear real (in a sense of SOLIDLY REAL). It is like watching life behind the lenses of a binocle, things get too fluid and impersonal. I relate a LOT with all those symptoms and most my immediate family (mom, aunt and grandmother) suffer from it, I was raised in a household full of schizoid people that are completely unaware of their condition, which creates a huge shitshow. I am no different from them, but i have a lot of self-awareness and this gives me at least a chance to overcome this state. Needless to say that psychedelics to schizoid people are dangerous. I have a good experience of psychedelic use but at some point, they got overwhelming for me because i was ungrounded and didn't knew that. The feeling is literally losing your mind, going crazy, which is a big fear of mine due to my family history of mental problems. During my worst trips, i remember doing my best to "grab" unto anything that seems familiar and "solid" for me, could be a good friend, a familiar/safe place like a bedroom or even a tree (yes lol in one of my ayahuasca trips i literally started hugging a tree to ground myself).