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To be fair, the most cringe thing I saw in this was your extremely judgmental opinion about it. Actually, spaces that allow men to bond and express their primal nature, always been and will forever be needed. Most man nowadays lack masculine roles in their lives and they grow up without experiencing that kind of energy, this creates a hole in their consciousness which is usually filled by the mothers (or women's) opinion of men and that is always embedded with self biases. Source: book called Iron John by Robert Bly. You can't just skip to green, at best, you will be incomplete and full of judgment against masculine energy, not a healthy green. To be whole, you have to love all your parts, including this masculine aggressive energy which should be acknowledged in order to br directed to a healthy path.

You have us!

It usually means that you are unconditionally lovable and worth of the very best life has to offer.

Didn't saw it but it's real. One could argue that a lot of good PU exhibits sociopathic behaviors like low empathy, high ambition, highly selfish etc. That's just something that attracts that kind of people, like politics. But you don't need to, you can still be empathic and a good person in general, self-love and self-acceptance is the answer.

I would say low self-esteem. Low Self-Esteem means low self-acceptance and self-love. When you love and accept yourself completely and unconditionally you feel pretty good and internally grounded, external opinions don't come close to affect how you feel inside and this give you confidence, not that you will not get rejected, but that everything is going to be just fine either way. Most people don't love themselves enough to not be affected by external input. It's like if you have one billion dollars in your bank account and more coming every day, you could be pretty reckless with your spending without worry. But if your bank account is low, you are constantly afraid to lose it and try to protect as much as possible your money. That explains why sociopaths and psychopaths tend to be confident because they do not give a fuck what anyone thinks and they just go for what they want.

Why can't i perceive myself? If All is One, wouldn't that mean that whatever I perceive is me? Including body, feelings and thoughts? It would be more precise to say that I am not only this or that. Saying that I am not anything I can perceive seems to create dissociation.

This can be dangerous. You have to appreciate how pervasive our self bias is. The ego can easily color your psychedelic visions and insights. I had a lot of visions on psychedelics that were misleading. With ayahuasca I once had a strong guiding to drop everything and take full care of my cocaine addicted mother that were ruining her life and those around her, including my two small brothers. My plan was to shower her with infinite unconditional love because that was lacking in the first place. I actually started to act on this plans while I was under effect of the medicine and afterwards I went to see her only to realize I couldn't hold that love vibration without the ayahuasca and reality slapped me in the face, my plan wasn't going to work. What mother ayahuasca showed me was the power of true unconditional love, what was possible. The message wasn't to drop everything and chase the vision but to work on myself to reach that place of unconditional love. Psychedelics show you what is possible, they say: if you raise your vibration this much, all of this is possible, that's how you will perceive life, so work on yourself to someday vibrate in this frequency constantly.

The first one is always brutal but with time you get used to it and "jump in" easier. As RSD Tyler said: "It is easier to approach a 10 in the end of the night that a 6 in the beginning." He is referring to the concept of momentum. After one or two approaches, if you keep approaching without thinking too much, you start to enter this momentum and is all smother from there. I like to have a meta-perspective of the approach. All i see is that i have to physically move my body until i am in front of a girl and start talking like i am talking to a mirror or something. I fully concentrate on what i can control. This helps a lot, I have found.

Well, it depends on several factors like tolerance, sensitivity, your inner "purity level", set and setting. It is my experience that, with time, I got more and more sensible to psychedelic substances. Now it is somewhat unpredictable, even low doses make me high as fuck. The other day i took a 1g of shrooms and it was way stronger than i expected, had to calm myself down a couple of times.

I guess being able to flow with changes is an essential skill that only a few have. Backlash happens because we have a self-image that hardened with time and habit. I guess that if you are conscious and present enough, that will lessen the problem by a lot because we would not live by that past self-image but by our present surroundings. Particularly, I have massive ego backlashs any time I do a significant progress. I noticed that I have a limit to how good I am able to feel and when I feel good for a few days, I have this awful day afterward and all my progress is nulled.

Well, we are the dominant species on this planet because we are social, we depend on one another and that's our strength. Groups that communicate better have a better chance to survive over some other group that doesn't do so well. People that have high social intelligence, charisma, influence skills are able to survive better than some autistic guy that no one likes. It is not a coincidence that women love guys that are socially savvy. Orcas, dolphins, apes are known as highly intelligent and they are also social animals that hunt in a pack.

I am no expert but i would guess it evolved from basic sounds like the ones babies do trying to symbolize something, then it escalated as it is a highly effective form of communication, something that sets us apart from all animals and benefits our survival. Then came writing which allowed us to store knowledge and build from there, instead of relying on someone's good memory to pass down on younger folks. When books and paper became popular to the average human, that's when things took of. At last, we have the internet that unified all of it globally and here we are.

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Self-love, motherfucker!

This seems like stage blue moralism. Stop with all those shoulds. You don't have to marry the first girl you get into a relationship with, especially if you are not compatible. You can try to love her unconditionally without necessarily being in a relationship. It looks like you are trying to apply some principles you read somewhere but did not come up with them yourself, don't live your life trying to get "good boy" points.

Volume and anonymity, can fuck up all you want.

Why not both? Work on yourself AND learn game. In fact, game is self-development for men on STEROIDS. You will learn so much about yourself, how to manage yourself, how to deal with emotions, be more charismatic, go for what you want, confidence etc. Do you think those benefits won't spread to all areas of your life? Nothing substitutes game, there are a lot of successful guys that are a tragedy with women.

Yes, you have to enjoy yourself. If you have the proper game mindset you will realize that approaching women is FUN AS HELL. The first one is always going to be brutal, you have the right to be a little creepy because you will be nervous and in your head. The secret is to be aware enough to not frighten the girl, with calibration you can keep the proper distance, looking for signs of discomfort, offer her assurances that you are not some idiot who lacks basic self and social awareness and it will be fine. Here are some guidelines to have FUN and build from each interaction, even if you got blown out: You can say: Hey, how it is going? I saw you, found you cute and came here to talk to you. Then offer some comfort statement like: I know it is kind of strange to approach someone in the middle of the street, but fuck it. I only have 2 minutes before i have to get back to my friends. Then you keep talking, anything, don't expect the girl to do the work for you. Short and sweet at first, 30s or 1 minute at first, when you get some momentum and your mood is better, you can try to keep the interaction longer.

That's because 90% of guys don't have the balls to do cold approaches and rely on warm approaches (usually through social circle), man have been doing that since the beginning of times. But we are in a self-development forum because we are not satisfied with mediocrity. I don't know you but i want to have control over who will be the mother of my children instead of rolling the dice on that one praying for God to send me a wife that will not ruin my life and/or my children's lives. I guarantee you that is better to choose one girl in one hundred because you had the balls to do cold approaches than it is to chose one out of two because you listen to some shitty relationship advice from a Youtuber that is scared shitless to approach someone.

Read my last post, you are fundamentally wrong about how women attraction works and all your assumptions after that is going to be wrong also.

By approach, i mean every girl that you would like to approach. Masculine energy goes for what it wants, it does NOT wait for permission like a good little boy. Women respect that. Also, you guys are fundamentally mistaken about how attraction works for women. They are NOT like men, they need time to experience you and seeing you from a distance is often not enough. She can totally be disgusted by you at first sight and love you after you approach and do your thing. For women, no means not now, try again later. Men are like a light switch, we are on or off, would fuck or wouldn't. Women are like a dimmer, they increase their interest gradually, and for this to happen, you have to spend time with them.

This is the "Red Pill" equivalent to "just be yourself and you will find the right one". Bullshit. Just go approach, stop with those silly rationalizations to not approach, and wait for women to magically sense the ALPHANESS oozing out of you and automatically drop their pants. Cold approach is NOT a numbers game. Approach is NOT the same as CHASING women. You can be alpha all you want if you a locked in an office pursuing your "purpose", women will NOT magically find you. There are plenty of well off guys that fell into this trap and wonder why they aren't drowning in pussy. Stop trying to cut corners, stop trying to take short cuts in order to protect your fragile ego.

No, men should develop themselves out of that creepy, needy, low conscious state of animal desperation. Develop self and social awareness, develop charisma, raise your vibration. Women are incredibly aware of your vibration, your inner-feeling environment. Most men are very low in that scale, completely lacking self-awareness, approaching women exuding fear, anger, guilt, despair, neediness, and act surprised that they didn't like that. You know that feeling when a sketchy figure approaches you? You know, some man with a mean demeanor, thug-like. This guy approaches you in a desert street at night, how would you feel? That's how women usually feel when they talk about creepy guys.

It is like homeless people being "nice" to you, they want something and you can see it miles away.

@ColeMC01 I live in Brazil where rape and sexual assault are a real thing and women walk permanently on alert for any kind of possible danger and that includes being defensive and try to avoid approaches at all costs. Believe me, it is not easy to approach someone that is afraid for their lives. Anyway, this "girls are harder to approach here" objection is quite common, usually from newbies trying to justify their lack of balls and results. This has been debunked time and time again.