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Not lucky, experience + right beliefs + highly conscious = good relationships. Most people aren't conscious enough even to choose the right partner, they let their neediness speak louder than all the red flags and are surprised when things go south. See this topic for instance: People are actually defending dating women that are highly dysfunctional, they are simply blind to all the red flags. It is like women dating drug dealers, criminals or stage red/blue guys and acts surprised when they turned out to be a bad choice.

Yeah, bad idea to wait to get approached like a girl. Of course, that's what you want with this horrible mindset. Fear of rejection? Hmm what could you do about it? I don't know, it's a mystery. Maybe ignore it and turn completely passive, that will solve it. I am very attractive but it is VERY rare that a high-quality woman approaches me. It is a skill, not luck. Do it, but also approach. Not by itself, unless you are a celebrity, promoter or something like that. Attraction takes time, it is not a binary thing, stop assuming women think like men. Only if you lack skill. Again, attraction takes time, it is not a binary thing, stop assuming women think like men. Not necessarily. If you want the approval of an attractive female, she won't like you Yeah, like 10% of what you could get or less. Some women suck at flirting, some put a bitchy face, some just don't notice you, it is just bad strategy to wait for them to give you signals first. Let's say that you are an 9 in the attractive scale. Maybe a 7 will approach you, an 8 will give you signals and a 9 will play hard to get, a 10 maybe won't even look at you. In order for a 10 approach you, you have to be like a 12 (celebrity, superstar or something). Good luck turning into a 12. Why are you afraid of shit tests? They are FUN! It's part of flirting, stop wanting women to throw themselves at you, this is disrespectful at best. Yeah, of course, but approach anyway, there is no substitute to approaching. All i see in your posts is: I AM TERRIBLE AFRAID OF NOT BEING ENOUGH AND BEING REJECTED. This just shows a pitiful lack of masculine energy. Imagine a super alpha male with this passive approach to life, waiting to get approached by women in order to not get rejected to protect his little weak ego. Just approach, stop whining.

You have to approach, this lifestyle thing only really works if you are a celebrity or do some kind of work that naturally attracts hordes of women all the time like promoters. To most guys, you will have to approach if you want true abundance. Otherwise you will have to settle with what the universe brings to you and, chances are, this will not be enough. Stop with the racionalization and just approach, there is no way around it.

It depends a lot, most people take the hint when you avoid them a few times or act cold.

Well, i don't know how accurate this metric is, i rarely watch a full 2h video in one sitting. Usually, i divide it into two or three chunks, i download it with YT Premium to listen offline or from your website.

It is not normal in the sense that 99% won't ever approach, especially during the day, but girls often have this reaction, which isn't that bad since this immediately separates you from the horde of fearful guys. "This never happened to me" is your advantage. "What does he want from me" is your job to make it very clear why you are talking to her. That's why i prefer direct approaches: "hey, i saw you and you seem very interesting, have to come here to say hi". Then i shake her hand one or two seconds longer than normal to increase sexual tension. Then you keep talking, silence is your enemy as she is probably a little nervous and silence makes things awkward. More often than not i like to address the elephant in the room and say: yeah, i know it is not every day that a guy approaches you on the streets (or whatever), it is just something i do. Your job initially is to establish a romantic frame and let her know you are not creepy or dangerous.

:0 I mean it with love s2

It depends a lot from city to city. Where i lived, the only place where you could find above-average girls walking was a shopping mall so i was forced to game there. For a brief time there was a good street venue in that city where you could find girls walking around at weekends and i went there every Friday and Saturday. Some big cities you can pretty much approach on the streets (high volume and anonymity are your friends), subways, malls etc. Somewhere where the girl feels safe is good so she doesn't walk fearing for her life when you approach. Night game is easier to find, usually, could be a club or any venue were there are high volume of girl walking around (from a bar to another, for instance). Concerts and parties are also good. One time i went to a 8-day psytrance festival were i approached a lot, day and night, anywhere. But it is tricky because a lot of girls are on drugs and rarely alone, so if the girl is hot and in a group, chances are, there is some guy fucking her (he can also be on drugs), so you have to be extra socially calibrated. IT happened to me lots of times to approach a girl in a group only to find out she was with some huge aggressive guy and i had to de-escalate the situation. The best approaches are girls alone or with one girlfriend. Gay guys usually help me because they tend to be attracted to me, it is free social proof but this could not be your case, i don't know.

Why don't you take a crazy homeless guy home in the meanwhile? Great idea, i guarantee. Stop with this Captain Save A Hoe shit.

Yeah, you probably could, but i there is a number of reasons why this is an awful idea. When you work on yourself, your preferences will change a LOT. Now you probably are clueless about who you are and what you really want, just acting out of neediness, falling in love for the first cute girl that appears and putting them in a huge pedestal. Don't EVER obsess over one girl, go work on yourself, approach, approach and approach, gain experience and let's see if you are still in love with this one.

Damaged goods, get the fuck away. Sex workers(including strippers) usually live in a low-vibration state, have deep traumas, drug problems and all sorts of toxic behaviors.

If you do it to stick your dick into a hole and brag about it, yeah, it could be "unconscious". If you do it to be a better man and meet quality women, it is awesome.

When i realized the limits of green and the good parts of lower stages, i started to think more holistic, my world view got progressively more complex and i took the path of self-reliance, stopped looking for answers outside and started developing my own answers.

Sorry, i couldn't resist.

Well, and if i don't make clear to everyone that you are wrong, some unlucky guy can actually believe you, so... I guess we are stuck here forever.

@Preety_India You do realize you don't have to respond to me at all, right? This is a forum, all we do is posting opinions. I am not attacking you, just correcting your opinions with my opinions, learn to differentiate. And, yes, ultimately, people will decide which one they will believe, that's not my concern at all. "Your human right is for activities only, never for the resultant fruits of actions. Let not the fruits of action be your motive, nor let your attachment be to inaction" - Bhagavad Gita 2:47

@Preety_India Just ignore me. I won't do the same because every single awful dating advice you give in this section can cause some confused young guy to make terrible mistakes easily avoided with quality advice from someone who actually knows what he is talking about, not just throwing wishful thinks disguised as verified fact. I have to exist to balance the force, nothing personal, just our particular dharma unfolding.

@Jodistrict I just listened and followed this video fully and that was awesome! Thanks, I will make this part of mine daily routine.

Yeah, this user has created the same topic several times. Is he/she trolling or mentally ill (schizophrenic or something)?

Yes, i am practically a celibate and this was not something i planned to do, just happened along the way. Until not long ago dating, having sex was an important goal in my life but i guess due to a lot of factor, i just kind of dropped it. The reasons i can think of right now: 1. Less needy, ok with being alone. 2. No need for external validation. Before i would try to hook up with beautiful women to feel like i deserve them and to show off to the "society". Today i am totally open to date average looking woman if i feel like it. This led me to have cool experiences with cool women that i wouldn't give a chance before and i am not that interested in women that just have looks and nothing more. 3. Lack of compatibility of values. I consider myself stage yellow, going to turquoise, so you can imagine that women that are stage orange and bellow don't interest me at all, only stage green (yet to meet one stage yellow one in person lol) interest me. 4. Maturity. My focus is personal development, self-realization and my life purpose, anything that doesn't align with it i have no interest in. 5. Having had a lot of sex before, especially with my previous girlfriends, i kind of had this realization that it is ultimately unfulfilling to me. I even experimented with a lot of drugs combination to enhance the pleasure but it is unfulfilling. I am yet to explore deeply conscious tantric sex (i only scratched the surface of that).

Well, i had some crazy strong psychedelic induced experiences that were mindblowing but i barely can accurately remember. The that i remember the most was one i had only a small "dose" of weed (smoked little bit of a weak strain) and decided to practice hatha yoga, did some asanas and some pranayamas until i had my first "almost" sober oneness experience. In my visual field, all became one, i could clearly see all as one, i instantly entered in a super flow state and were overcame by this blissful and peaceful state, like all is really well and all my problems suddenly disappeared. This experience lasted for a few minutes and subsided gradually but the feeling stayed with me for a couple of hours and it was awesome. What was different about this experience was the sober tone of it and it's extreme clarity, which gave me this assurance i am, in fact, on the right path.

Well, strong and inspiring leaders would be a great start, which isn't happening at all. While the right-wing has no problem with being ruthless and take this extreme masculine approach of getting things done at all costs, the left-wing keep trying to take this feminine approach of getting outraged and pretending to take this "high" approach to politics which does not equals actually winning elections. Here in Brazil we have the same phenomenon, while the right-wing is dominating and getting shit done (aka ruining the country) with a ruthless approach, the left look like a bunch of teenage girls talking shit via social media all day and don't accomplish SHIT except virtue signaling and receiving approval from their already converted followers. Typical stage green, out of touch with reality, lost in their own bubbles without getting shit done.

You guys seem to forget how Trump won in the first place! He was way too dominant in debates, made everyone look like passive amateurs, he knew how to control the crowd reaction in all debates that had one, he was a walking meme getting massive media exposure and several viral videos on the internet because of this. That's how the public began to saw him as a strong leader. Yes, he is kind of dumb and low-consciousness but so are most of American population and they respond to strength rather than smart and well formed opinions (which they cannot relate at all). He manipulated the publics fear talking non-stop about topics like China and presenting himself as the strong solution, the one with the firm hand needed to do the job. Remember that people judge not by what they hear but by how it is said and who is saying it.