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Calm down, Mr. Evolved.

Yeah, because it works.

@ColeMC01 Stop listening to women for dating advice. They are extremely biased.

Nah, far from it. I am actually pretty much a celibate, sex isn't a priority at all to me, but this is a dating section to discuss dating strategies and yours is just a bad one. Look, you are not the first person to have this genius idea, in fact, this is way more common than you would think, a lot of guys that are frustrated with women have this idea: OOOHHH What if i just focus on myself, maximize my attractiveness (status, money, social circle, life purpose, business, career, body shape etc), i won't ever have to approach again and women will approach ME Yeah, most guys take this exact approach, only to find out a decade later that it was an awful passive strategy and they actually still suck with women as many successful guys do. As i said, all this is just fear of rejection with extra steps.

It depends on a looot of factors, very hard to say. It is like asking how many hours should you meditate to get enlightened. Could be 1 or 50.000, but usually, a lot. In theory, you could even to that on you first approach, maybe you were drunk and confident, maybe she was horny and receptive. But i guarantee you that this "how many approaches" mindset is already wrong because you are assuming that approaches are some sort of chore you have to do to get to the good stuff. In reality, approaches are fun as hell, it is not uncommon to have more fun doing game than actually having sex.

Nah. Maybe 1% of men actually do cold approaches, not for the weak ones. As i said, do BOTH. Nah. Wat? Doesn't mean he is right, see all Leo's video about self-bias and self-deception. Again, doesn't mean he is right, see all Leo's video about self-bias and self-deception. Yes, he is. ahahahahahahahaha nah...

As i said, if you are a celebrity, you probably don't need to do cold approaches. But even then, there are lots of famous successful guys that SUCK at dating and have shitty relationships.

Freedom, abundance, choosing out of a bigger pool of women, not into lack of options or shitty relationships. DO BOTH. Yeah, that's just wrong. Probably in a shitty marriage or dating shitty women also.

I am already attractive as fuck. Do both.

Dude, just go approach.

Not lucky, experience + right beliefs + highly conscious = good relationships. Most people aren't conscious enough even to choose the right partner, they let their neediness speak louder than all the red flags and are surprised when things go south. See this topic for instance: People are actually defending dating women that are highly dysfunctional, they are simply blind to all the red flags. It is like women dating drug dealers, criminals or stage red/blue guys and acts surprised when they turned out to be a bad choice.

Yeah, bad idea to wait to get approached like a girl. Of course, that's what you want with this horrible mindset. Fear of rejection? Hmm what could you do about it? I don't know, it's a mystery. Maybe ignore it and turn completely passive, that will solve it. I am very attractive but it is VERY rare that a high-quality woman approaches me. It is a skill, not luck. Do it, but also approach. Not by itself, unless you are a celebrity, promoter or something like that. Attraction takes time, it is not a binary thing, stop assuming women think like men. Only if you lack skill. Again, attraction takes time, it is not a binary thing, stop assuming women think like men. Not necessarily. If you want the approval of an attractive female, she won't like you Yeah, like 10% of what you could get or less. Some women suck at flirting, some put a bitchy face, some just don't notice you, it is just bad strategy to wait for them to give you signals first. Let's say that you are an 9 in the attractive scale. Maybe a 7 will approach you, an 8 will give you signals and a 9 will play hard to get, a 10 maybe won't even look at you. In order for a 10 approach you, you have to be like a 12 (celebrity, superstar or something). Good luck turning into a 12. Why are you afraid of shit tests? They are FUN! It's part of flirting, stop wanting women to throw themselves at you, this is disrespectful at best. Yeah, of course, but approach anyway, there is no substitute to approaching. All i see in your posts is: I AM TERRIBLE AFRAID OF NOT BEING ENOUGH AND BEING REJECTED. This just shows a pitiful lack of masculine energy. Imagine a super alpha male with this passive approach to life, waiting to get approached by women in order to not get rejected to protect his little weak ego. Just approach, stop whining.

You have to approach, this lifestyle thing only really works if you are a celebrity or do some kind of work that naturally attracts hordes of women all the time like promoters. To most guys, you will have to approach if you want true abundance. Otherwise you will have to settle with what the universe brings to you and, chances are, this will not be enough. Stop with the racionalization and just approach, there is no way around it.

It depends a lot, most people take the hint when you avoid them a few times or act cold.

Well, i don't know how accurate this metric is, i rarely watch a full 2h video in one sitting. Usually, i divide it into two or three chunks, i download it with YT Premium to listen offline or from your website.

It is not normal in the sense that 99% won't ever approach, especially during the day, but girls often have this reaction, which isn't that bad since this immediately separates you from the horde of fearful guys. "This never happened to me" is your advantage. "What does he want from me" is your job to make it very clear why you are talking to her. That's why i prefer direct approaches: "hey, i saw you and you seem very interesting, have to come here to say hi". Then i shake her hand one or two seconds longer than normal to increase sexual tension. Then you keep talking, silence is your enemy as she is probably a little nervous and silence makes things awkward. More often than not i like to address the elephant in the room and say: yeah, i know it is not every day that a guy approaches you on the streets (or whatever), it is just something i do. Your job initially is to establish a romantic frame and let her know you are not creepy or dangerous.

:0 I mean it with love s2

It depends a lot from city to city. Where i lived, the only place where you could find above-average girls walking was a shopping mall so i was forced to game there. For a brief time there was a good street venue in that city where you could find girls walking around at weekends and i went there every Friday and Saturday. Some big cities you can pretty much approach on the streets (high volume and anonymity are your friends), subways, malls etc. Somewhere where the girl feels safe is good so she doesn't walk fearing for her life when you approach. Night game is easier to find, usually, could be a club or any venue were there are high volume of girl walking around (from a bar to another, for instance). Concerts and parties are also good. One time i went to a 8-day psytrance festival were i approached a lot, day and night, anywhere. But it is tricky because a lot of girls are on drugs and rarely alone, so if the girl is hot and in a group, chances are, there is some guy fucking her (he can also be on drugs), so you have to be extra socially calibrated. IT happened to me lots of times to approach a girl in a group only to find out she was with some huge aggressive guy and i had to de-escalate the situation. The best approaches are girls alone or with one girlfriend. Gay guys usually help me because they tend to be attracted to me, it is free social proof but this could not be your case, i don't know.

Why don't you take a crazy homeless guy home in the meanwhile? Great idea, i guarantee. Stop with this Captain Save A Hoe shit.

Yeah, you probably could, but i there is a number of reasons why this is an awful idea. When you work on yourself, your preferences will change a LOT. Now you probably are clueless about who you are and what you really want, just acting out of neediness, falling in love for the first cute girl that appears and putting them in a huge pedestal. Don't EVER obsess over one girl, go work on yourself, approach, approach and approach, gain experience and let's see if you are still in love with this one.

Damaged goods, get the fuck away. Sex workers(including strippers) usually live in a low-vibration state, have deep traumas, drug problems and all sorts of toxic behaviors.

If you do it to stick your dick into a hole and brag about it, yeah, it could be "unconscious". If you do it to be a better man and meet quality women, it is awesome.

When i realized the limits of green and the good parts of lower stages, i started to think more holistic, my world view got progressively more complex and i took the path of self-reliance, stopped looking for answers outside and started developing my own answers.

Sorry, i couldn't resist.

Well, and if i don't make clear to everyone that you are wrong, some unlucky guy can actually believe you, so... I guess we are stuck here forever.