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How is this a new approach?

By putting yourself in challenging and new situations. Go into situations where you are alone and thrive. This will develop self-reliance, which is the core of adulthood.

This! Forget about information during sex, practice being SUPER present, flowing with the moment and your feelings. Tantric sex is an active meditation, with a partner. Take your time, do things awkwardly slow.

We need more videos like that one! Actually, I was pleased to discover that I was in the right path with my self-inquiry/enlightenment work. I already "knew" and "got it" everything that he talked about in that video. Unfortunately, to this day, I haven't experienced any AHAAA moment, this process has been slow and gradual for me since a couple years ago. Psychedelics immediately trigger this realization for me, which is why I am avoiding them for some time now lol it is more like a panicky feeling than anything else. I did had one non-dual experience while I smoked some weed and practiced hatha Yoga with a few pranayama breaths, only a glimpse for a few minutes but that was it, i am unable to replicate the experience since. During Leo video I managed to get into a nice meditative state, but I feel I need to boost my consciousness with a serious practice like strong concentration, kriya Yoga and psychedelics.

It is like a meditation, you do it just to do it, if you are always wanting an outcome DURING the meditation, it will be a poor meditation practice. Of course, you have to have a strong INTENTION to meet and attract the woman and do what you need to do to achieve this (approaching, being funny, lead the interaction etc), but, at the same time, if the woman smell desperation, she will be turned off. Maximum engagement + minimum attachment.

@neutralempty Commonsense.

Well, what's the difference between Hatha yoga and random stretches? From an outside perspective, some people from the circus can do impressive things that yogis can't do with their bodies, but the circus people won't experience self-realization or anything of sorts. The Tantra approach of sex, sexuality and sex organs is vastly different from the average approach to those topics. For instance, in Tantra, the penis is called lingam and the vagina is called yoni, there is a sacred view of both, you only touch them with the utmost respect and reverence. Everything is sacred and treated as such. In Tantra, we value DEEP intimacy (i am talking about 20 minutes of non-stop eye contact and only that), slow and conscious movements, zero judgment, repression or anything like that. It is a sexual approach from the heart, from love and from the divine. This can lead to all sorts of cures and transcendental experiences.

I recently did a 5-day Tantra retreat, lots of active meditations (like Kundalini by Osho), tratak (fixed eye contact with a partner), light touch massage and full tantric massage (fully nude and genital massage). Those were 5 days i lived in an altered state of consciousness, like a shrooms microdose, lots of catharses and even a moment of ego dissolution during one of the exercises + feeling deep love. Maybe i can answer basic questions, although Tantra is a huge science, like Yoga, lots of schools of thought.

You seem very needy, no wonder, people don't respect you. Focus on improving your value by working on yourself. Stop using your friends to complain about your life, only talk about positive topics from now on, make people associate you with nice feelings and they will want to be with you and respect you.

@MrBON you are seeing only what you want, I addressed those points in my previous topics, it is not rocket science. Girls don't like assholes, they like man with balls, which is rare and, sometimes, only present in assholes. They hate nice guys because they can see the fakeness from miles away. This "kindness" is nothing but a fake front to gain something (sex and intimacy) from women and they can see this clearly. I also hate this fake nice people, I prefer someone who is somewhat of an asshole but authentic. BUT THOSE ARE NOT THE ONLY TWO OPTIONS. That's the point, stop with this "all or nothing" perspective, there are, literally, infinite ways of being. You can be a good person from a place of power and some girls will appreciate it, just don't be boring and spineless.

You can be a total asshole and still be successful with women, the question is: what kind of women? You will attract only toxic, dysfunctional, low self-esteem, crazy women and i would advise you to stay away from such people. If you have enough status, women will excuse all kinds of red flags on your part, most will feel attracted by you, but that isn't to say this is a good strategy in general. You can be successful with women and still be an awesome and healthy guy. Don't fall for the dark side, Anakin. When did he say that? In which context? Women can be pretty ruthless and toxic too, but not all. Maybe he managed to deal with this pain from breakups but i guarantee you that he is miserable if he is a toxic person. Don't be like him, it is not worth it.

JP is a low-key Trump supporter type that thinks he is so WOKE that he cannot support those sheep green people. Basically Orange and lower stages making fun of Green. He actually has some good points but he panders too much to his "conspiracy/Qanon lover" audience, he went into a deep habit hole that he will likely never get out of since he is making money from it.

Worst kind of sex for a number of reasons. If you are that desperate, just go to Tinder and try to find easy lays (lower your expectations), have sex with a relatively normal girl, don't be picky at first and practice with them.

hahahaha reading her messages is a hookie mistake, your relationship is OVER, sorry. This will eat you inside forever, you will never be able to fully trust her again as your mind imagine the worst kind of scenarios on loop You are living in scarcity and your dating history screams that, when you jump from one committed relationship to another, this is a bad strategy mistake because you will not develop a proper abundance mentality this way, which will fuck up all your relationships. No way around, kid, you have to spend a good time single and learning to interact and attract females until you are 100% confident you can meet a soul mate easily if your current one leaves you (if you fear it, you are fucked).

Feel the pain, deal with it as best as you can, no way around it ?? Take care.

Buddy, i was once an incel, i know all of that. But, again, use a better selection, if you can only find one girl to select from, work on this. If you can't stand being alone and HAVE to be with someone, no matter which kind of woman because you are lonely as fuck, work on this.

Of course, apply a better filter next time instead of dating the first woman that smiles at you.

Break up.

Well, maybe criticizing stuff is easier than suggesting solutions, who would have thought? Do better and then come back, stop wasting everyone's time.

Teach us, then. How do you meet conscious women naturally and authentically during a pandemic?

I would only change the tattoo and drugs part. Women that don't have any cool tattoo or do any drugs (not hard drugs like cocaine or heroin) are usually BORING AS FUCK. Of course, not in excess but if she isn't OPEN to it, she is boring, IMO.

I actually dug because i knew you were going to answer what you just answered. Pick up works for a reason, women are still hypergamous and moved by their emotions, not by logic. That being said, there is no good reason to live in fear, just do what you can, control what you can control and relax. Remember: abundance mentality is key.

I would bet he is aware and just does not give a fuck.

Of course, they are limited and low-consciousness, but you also said: What kind of fearful thoughts are you having and what kind of devils are you seeing?