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Ironically, the difficulty in concentrating the mind should be enough motivation to meditate.

@ColeMC01 It is hard to explain in a few paragraphs but basically women love to feel a range of emotions and they feel what you feel. When you talk, make sure to talk in a free and expressive manner, they will be hooked on your story as long as you are. They also love it when you lead the interaction and take them on a roller-coaster of emotions like you can be telling a sad story and finish with a funny statement (make sure to be exaggerated, like an actor). Or talk about a serious topic and then change to a light-hearted topic suddenly and completely forget about the last one. They love this "zen approach" to life, presence, and detachment, changing emotions and topics without any attachment, this makes you the leader of the interaction and shows that you are not clingy. Also, lots of touch with sexual intentions, you can put your hand on her back and transmit sexual energy only by feeling it yourself first. Silent long eye contact creates sexual tension, they also love it. The one who can hold the most tension "wins", when you "win" she gets aroused, this shows emotional mastery. All of that i avoid when i don't want the girl to get super attracted but at some point, those become part of your normal behavior, they will feel aroused and that's ok, that's part of your magnetism, your charisma.

Yes, but it is not common as people think. I do have lots of female friends (some sleep in bed with me, even hot ones) and nothing happens. But it actually takes energy to "avoid" sexual energy, i don't let this get out of control by deliberately acting a little beta. For instance, i tend to avoid long silent eye contact as this breads sexual tension, maybe i touch them less than i would a girl that i am interested in. Stuff like that.

Well, there isn't a problem really, it will give you a solid base for advanced stages. Personally, i suck with self-discipline, work ethic and financial independence and this is a bottleneck in my self-development. I found myself approaching enlightenment and losing most of my materialist motivation, which has been my sole focus the last couple years, i have to brainwash myself to want money lol

If you are not creating a cult based on drugs, hot women and tantric sex, are you really living? ? Stop wasting time with this guy.

And you, what have you been doing?

Well, that's exactly why they aren't getting laid also. I am absolutely against bitching and moaning. Yeah, maybe it is unfair, but if waste even one second complaining and not taking action to improve, this sais a LOT about you, why you don't deserve to meet extraordinary women and why you aren't a high quality man.

I do not follow the guy but I also practice tantra and I prefer doing it with women and I have met some serious teachers that recommend this polarity. I see no problem with them being hot either. This does not mean he does not take it seriously. Watch your projections.

Yeah, if a hotter girl magically jump on their dick, most men would take it but that's not what happens most of the time. Considering the fact that men do most of the active work in the flirting and mating process, for a guy to date up is so much fucking work that he will not even try (I am not saying that he is genuinely happy, but he is OK with having a guaranteed warm pussy and will ignore the package). Men nowadays have Netflix, junk food, high quality porn, weed, alcohol, social media, if you add a sure warm hole to cum inside, they will gave up all their dreams in a beat. Not to mention that to date up he would have to give up most of that to go to the gym, learn game, dress well, be successful, confident, funny, socially savvy, be a leader etc. Who wants to do that when your balls are dry, your belly is full, your mind is distracted and your senses are numbed? Women just have to exist to maybe find an random alpha to show interest in her and do most of the work.

Yeah, I was wondering that also. She seem very determined and strong willed, the kind of person that get shit done and she was also totally in love with Osho, I guess it makes sense she was running his comuna.

You have seen the wrong stuff, buddy. Pick-up suppose to be fun as hell.

What's the purpose of this post? You seem to be trying hard to convince yourself that you are weak, which is the opposite of what a post on a self development forum should be.

Well, approach yourself and feel how painful it is to be this vulnerable.

This is not a trend but a adaptative evolution. Women are hypergamous in order to find the best mate possible, this means more chances of survival for her and her offspring. Men do not care that much to date the absolute BEST woman, men do get content with less, especially considering that to most males, finding a good female partner is a difficult task, they don't have much game and live in scarcity. I don't care how conscious your girl is, if Brad Pitt enter the room, she will giggle like a little girl, give him all her attention (even ignoring you) and get wet. In this process, it is common that she starts to resent her partner, she is always unconsciously comparing you with every man she meets and ranking everyone. Yes, The Red Pill theory is absolutely right about this one, their mistake is what they do with this information, usually getting jaded and avoiding too much intimacy and vulnerability.

Half a handful of peeled ginger minced as little as possible, boiled for 15 minutes in water, turn off the heat and add the shrooms minced or grinded as small as possible, put the lid on and let it rest for 20 minutes, filter all the liquid, add more water, heat until boiling point, turn off the heat, let it rest and filter again. This way you will extract as much as possible from both.

An average guy would waste his time bitching and moaning, that's why he is average. That's exactly what i am saying.

Make a tea, it helps a lot and the shrooms kick quicker. Make the tea with a lot of ginger, it prevents nausea.

Comfort isn't equal attraction. Friends are comfortable with each other but not necessarily attracted to each other. You are assuming human beings are logical creatures, which are not. This could be for a few reasons: 1. You misinterpreted the signals (i am betting on this one). 2. She likes to flirt and used you to practice without any intention to go further. 3. She changed her mind. Even if the girl is genuinely attracted to you, you can always fuck up and she can turn cold in a second. That's your problem, you are talking to her with an agenda in mind pretending to be her friend to later make a move, women don't respect this strategy at all. They prefer if you are direct and honest instead of hiding your intentions (people feel that shit from miles away). Most of the time, just acting "normal" isn't enough. You are just too boring. She needs to know you are a real man and a real man would shamelessly go for what he wants, not try to play it safe to avoid rejection (which, ironically, makes them reject you). You lack a basic understanding of women, seduction, and relationships, that's a problem. You are assuming a lot of things and none of them are true. You can learn the hard way, by approaching massively and failing a lot (a valid approach) or you can study game and apply at the same time, repeating until profit. Google "RSD old deleted videos" and you will find a free goldmine of knowledge about seduction.

You are delusional, bro. Reality won't change because you think it is unfair, it is what it is. You don't have to be a top 10% of men to have a normal life, you have to be to have an extraordinary life. Normal life = shitty life, that's the default. 5/10 men are not only in looks, but in character, he isn't savvy, social, alpha, successful, ambitious, confident etc. 5/10 women are in looks and she can lack all the above and still find a partner but of low quality. 5/10 woman will never attract a top 10% men, she will have to settle and this is why most relationships fail, women get easily resentful if the man isn't always in his prime. The thing is, a top high-value male will never waste time bitching about those facts, he will simply accept and overcome. Men and women look for different things in one another, that's the source of most relationship confusion.

He goes as deep as one can go in his programs.

How did you do it?

You won't learn social skills by reading scientific studies. Both genders have their challenges. Women can have sex anytime they want but they have a lot of trouble finding a high-value man to commit to them. Yes, the average woman has more "power" on the sexual market than the average man, but the top 10% of men usually have more "power" in relationships than the top 10% of women. That is basically explained because most men live in scarcity, thus losing all their power. When a man lives in abundance, no woman can have "power" over him.

Dude, you are too in your head about this entire process. Take it like a man would mean to go to the next girl without thinking too much into it. Yeah, do reflect about it, but don't get stuck in endless reflection. As with anything in life, take 10x more action than you think about the theory. I guarantee you that you were too in your head to miss out on all the signals that it wasn't the right time to call her out. Social calibration requires presence.

Save your money, go out and talk to people, nothing will replace this first hand experience.