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I don't have a clue on what you are talking about. Be clear.

This resistance women feel to men's effort to improve their dating skills is truly fascinating. There is a theory that this happens because what women fear most is getting pregnant by a beta male, so they shame the betas who try to improve in order to not risk being impregnated by them by mistaken them with natural alphas. Women hate beta males trying to improve themselves, they have this fantasy of the natural-born alpha who is born ready and knowing everything he needs to know.

This post is sponsored by Disney. "And they lived happily ever after, without doing shit to improve themselves because they have high self-esteem and this means to be your seeelf." Fuck actualization, this screams low self-esteem

@Preety_India Being the best version of yourself is it's own reward, women turn out to be a fun bonus. It is just fun to live this way. If sex is part of life, why settle with mediocre sex? Why not shoot for an epic life instead of a boring one? This is the definition of high self-esteem.

Of course, it does, but we are talking about men attracting women here since it is a human convention that men pursue women. The strategy is important. Yeah, when she is old, tired, and full of high demands. I totally agree with that, but even a healthy woman will feel attracted a lot of the same characteristics a toxic woman does, that's why game works with every woman. Game, in a sense, is becoming the ultimate men that women love and other men respect. Also, women act based on their feelings. On this forum, you are in logical mode, you can say whatever you "think" is the best option but when your feelings is urging you to do something your logical mind does not agree with, your feelings win 99% of the time.

That's why 1 an 2 involve self-deception. The third is a straight out lie. For instance, women never admit they like guys that make them have random shots of adrenaline from now and then, they will tell you they like good guys but they will often go for the dangerous guys. This makes perfect sense in an evolutionary way, that's why they are attracted to it. One thing is what you think you would want in a man and another is what actually makes your flower dripping wet.

They are often blended together. If you want to learn about fish, ask the fishermen instead of spending years learning by yourself what he can tell you in minutes or hours.

1. Lack of self-awareness. 2. Self-bias. 3. People lie to look good. They will tell you they like A because A is more socially acceptable, then you go waste your life trying to be A only to discover they really like B, but they lie about it. Men get frustrated, depressed, angry, confused and when they gather to study this matter deeply (aka seduction, game, pick-up), women get MAD. Try to tell one of your female friends that you are taking a course on how to pick up chicks and watch them get aggressive and shame you.

If women teach you something about women is NOT TO LISTEN TO THEIR WORDS, only watch their actions. Asking for dating advice is not even pointless, is harmful.

Women are so delusional about pick-up, i am yet to find one that admits that it totally works with them, at the same time, my field experience is that it totally does work on any woman. Good pickup is like good plastic surgery, INVISIBLE. Women tend to think they know what pickup is and how to spot men that know it, they DON'T. That's a fact. When I approach you, you will think "who is this cool guy that appeared in front of me from thin air?". And I am not even that good.

Yes. you can be a 5 in looks but date a 10 if you focus on developing other areas that women value WAY more than looks: Status, social calibration, confidence, masculine energy, career success, leadership skills, social proof, free self-expression, self-validation, sense of entitlement etc. MOST of those are develop with GAME. I have seen this play out over and over again. If your game/status is better than mine, you can be the ugliest motherfucker, women will prefer you over me. THAT BEING SAID, do improve your looks as much as possible, get in shape, buy some cool clothes, develop a nice style, maybe some awesome tattoos. Style often trumps vanilla good looks.

And you just ignored it. I was talking about fish ?

I have no idea how many approaches i did. It depends a lot to which venue I was, sometimes i did daygame in a shopping mall, find 2~3 girls worth approaching was lucky and sometimes i went to gigantic parties like the carnival here in Brazil, with endless girls to approach, 12h a day, 6~7 days straight. I wasn't a complete retard when i started actually practicing game, i had a few GF but i was never able to do cold approaches consistently and efficiently, also i always wanted to get high-quality women, which i wasn't able to do. Even just learning about gaming gave me a nice understanding, i got my hottest GF before i started to do some serious practice. At one point, i actually break up with her because i wanted to learn game and it was the best thing i did. The best thing to me is to learn how to get yourself in state, and from there, everything is SO MUCH EASIER, even if you are a newbie. I remember my first closes from cold approaching, it was amazing. Think about the possibilities: you see a girl you don't know in a mall, you go talk to her, you guys exchange numbers, you meet later and have sex, how amazing is that?

Some guys get really motivated to make shit happen and some guys get too needy. With me, when I am REALLY interested/horny, I tend to game way better as I lack that masculine energy, closer mentality when I am not that interested, which is common. But some girls just wake something in me, making me horny as fuck, oozing sexual energy, my whole vibe changes and she feels it, they love it.

Don't ever ask a fish how to catch them. Ask the fishermen.

@Hardkill Post one photo, i am curious.

This calcification thing always sounded like bullshit to me. But yeah, it seems that the pineal gland is super important to spiritual development.

Started to be fine with paradoxes. Most of my friends are green and I am always meeting stage green people, they are so silly to me now. They can't deal with conflicting ideas, they are naive, ideological, and, frankly, somewhat laughable, sometimes. There is some sort of silly implicit competition of "who cares more for the oppressed", who is more WOKE, which generates comical stereotypes. This is a Tier 1 thing to try to isolate yourself from all other stages like there is nothing above them. This is pretty annoying to deal with. What got me was when I noticed my bad reaction to stage blue and orange, especially when it came to money, career, work ethic and materialistc abundance. This was so limiting and silly. I am the kind of person with high ambitions in all areas, I want to get enlightened, be a millionaire, successful entrepreneur, a sex god, with a great body, ultimate alpha male, oozing masculine energy etc and stage green wasn't helping me, had to drop it.

He realized that his looks don't matter, his status/fame trumps everything.

fuck pretty good, i want the best

My whole point is that I would SUCK with women if I didn't learned game. In fact, I still think I SUCK because I can't really get the top 20% of women and if my looks mattered that much, that wouldn't be a problem. As I said before, I grew up socially isolated, sucking with girls, which made me somewhat autistic-like. As "good looking" as I am, I am not nearly as good with women as I should be based on you guys opinion.

I am not an Adonis but i am maybe an 8,5 (considering i am short, 1,68m). This has happened to me a lot considering that this doesn't happen to the average guy but it is still a rare occurrence. Also, it is never the best girls, only average, 7 or 7.5. This can NEVER be relied upon to get girls, it is just an occasional bonus. The 8's, 9's and 10's don't give a fuck about your looks if it is all you got. It isn't anything extraordinary to them. The best girls i picked up were with pure game, i was on fire, completely in state. When looks is all i got, rejection is almost a certainty.